TTC after MC - June/July 2020 (Part 4)

[VP91x]

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I'm on CD25 AF due 2nd July, potentially no ovulation this month or my body just refuses to budge on temp 😩

If anyone else would like to join please do xx

[Lois19]

@Bellabubble it is a strong T line, I would target sexual activity and keep testing as well, the T line may get darker the day after. I would not want to miss the peak.
@Eli2020 Premom only marks high when my reading is higher than .8, how is yours? Oh, I am using easy@home opks, and I think premom gives me quite reliable reading.

[Northernsoul90]

@Dipsy77 I can see it! Congrats!! I know you are cautious right now but that that is a definite positive ☺️ as @VP91x test again in another few days to see the line progression 🤩

[HopeForRainbowbaby]

@Dipsy77 definitely a line ! Congratulations☺️🥰

[VP91x]

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[VP91x]

@MichT4 that wet feeling is good, and normal too! Throughout my PG with Bella I'd constantly feel like I'd peed myself.

Ladies just going to post the new thread xx

[MichT4]

@VP91x just a slight tinge. Now I’m desperate to keep checking. Feels quite ‘wet’ down there, like CM wet. TMI on a Saturday.

Not sure I’d think much if my boobs hurt the same, or worry about the boobs without the CM

Urgh xx

[VP91x]

@chloedancer897 sorry I hope I didn't come across dismissive about SMEP I just read back at my message! I just wanted to strangle him last month 😭 I have everything vrossed it works for you this month ❤️❤️

@Dipsy77 I can definitely see that line that's so fab!! I'm sure you'll see a stronger line in a day or two.

@SmileyT I've not long woken up! Toddler meltdown in the middle of the night meant that she was up late. Oooh, what was your temp? Thank you 🥰

@MichT4 was it a lot or a slight tinge? Because that's probably quite normal. Please try not to worry ❤️❤️ Remember yesterday taking about fluctuating symptoms xx

[MichT4]

@Jazper no we haven’t. I just keep thinking the worst. My boobs hurt less this morning too.

[Jazper]

That's a very obvious line @Dipsy77 , congratulations! I'd expect it to be faint at 8/9/10 dpo anyway. Try to hold out until Monday to test again for a nice line progression. Congratulations!

@MichT4 , try not to fret, your line was crazily strong, hcg is booming! Have you dtd at all? It can irritate your cervix in the early days of pregnancy

[MichT4]

I can see it too! Congratulations @Dipsy77, such wonderful news!! xxx

@SmileyT what was your temp?

I noticed more of the pinky Cm this morning when I wiped so now I’m panicking a lot 😢. I didn’t have it at all yesterday.

[Eli2020]

@Dipsy77 I understand completely. Please keep us posted on how you are getting on. I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you x

[Dipsy77]

@Eli2020 I'm still cautious because I feel as if AF is about to start not really had symptoms apart from feeling really hot and tired which happens with a 10 month old AF pains and I have gone really ditsy but that's normal too, I'll just see if it progresses in case it's a chemical or something xx

[Eli2020]

Omg @Dipsy77 I can definitely see it 🤩 congratulations !!! That's great news ... very happy for you!!

[Dipsy77]

It's very faint not sure you can see it on the pic xx

[Eli2020]

@Dipsy77 that's great 🤩!!! Keeping my fingers crossed for you! Show us a picture x

[Dipsy77]

Got up this morning and thought I'd take a test as I have a FRER in my drawer that was asking to be peed on. I'm either 8 or 10 dpo and I ha e a squinter, I've tried to take photos but can't get the line to show. I'm not hopeful because i feel like AF is about to arrive but it's made me order some more for tomorrow just in case x

[SmileyT]

@VP91x obviously woke up wide awake at 5am and thermometer in my mouth before I could stop it 😂 back off to sleep for a couple of hours before work but enjoy Frozen 2 and your pancakes this morning xx

[chloedancer897]

@Eli2020 hopefully that was the sign it happened ok!

@Lollol86 oh believe me, I'm stubborn as hell. He has a lot of making up to do still and he knows it! He's been on his best behaviour since.

[chloedancer897]

@VP91x the SMEP is stressful definitely. But I'm giving it a go this month and then going to be less regimented after (unless it's worked 🤞🤞)

[Lollol86]

@chloedancer897 ah ok may have to give that a go, weve dtd everyday for the last 5 days and I can see that although my husband literally loves sex, it’s taking longer and longer to climax so think everyday is getting a bit too much. I had a static smiley today so just going to have 1 more try tomorrow and that’s all we can do. I’m hoping I relax after this one. I’m feeling the stress because of supposedly being more fertile.
Glad you managed to sort it with your oh, I hope you made him grovel

[Eli2020]

@chloedancer897 yes this sounds perfectly normal for ovulation! I sometimes feel the pain and in the past I've had the tinge you described. Good luck x

[VP91x]

@chloedancer897 I'm glad he made it up to you and managed to speak about things. We go through so much with all the testing and tracking etc. It is a emotional and physical stress even if you don't necessarily notice. Definitely not going for SMEP this month after his meltdown last month. Will maybe do once or twice maybe CD 12 on wards and then just wait for peak and just do those two/three days. Xx

[chloedancer897]

@Lollol86 this is my second cycle since MC. Last cycle I actually became obsessed with getting pregnant last month because I heard you're so fertile after so I had myself convinced it would happen. I've called down this month and have found it much easier.

The SMEP plan means you start DTD on CD8 every other day. You start OPK on CD10. When you get positive OPK, you DTD every day for 3 days, take a day break and then DTD one more time. This is my first time trying it so yet to know if it works! Last month we DTD every day from CD8-14 and that didn't work so I'm hoping a gap in between days will help.

[chloedancer897]

@VP91x he was so apologetic all day. He said he was tired and upset and felt very pressured to perform and was aware that if he didnt, we would have missed our window. So he just lost it a bit. It took the rest of the day but he kept apologising and things are better now. It's stressful for both people involved but I really do think it's worse for us! It upset me because I was actually enjoying DTD this month and felt less stressed and he clearly felt more stressed. My lesson is to not tell them about SMEP if you're doing it. He certainly didn't like the regimented approach lol (managed to squeeze some BD in yesterday after it all, didn't want to waste the opportunity!lol)

[Lollol86]

@chloedancer897 I do get ovulations pains, not really painful but can definitely feel them. What’s SMEP? I’ve seen it’s sperm meet egg open but what does that mean?

I’m currently going through my first ovulation since my mc and I’m feeling really anxious, did anyone else feel like that? Does it ease as time goes on?