TTC after MC - June/July 2020 (Part 4)

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I'm on CD25 AF due 2nd July, potentially no ovulation this month or my body just refuses to budge on temp 😩

If anyone else would like to join please do xx

@chloedancer897 can you do it today and tomorrow? or is that unrealistic? every couple are different I know every day isn't for everyone. You just never know if you might suddenly get a static smily face tomorrow... I only ever use CB in the mornings but I've heard you can also use in the PM might be worth checking again then incase you get a peak?

@Dbop100 yeh I might do that. Thank you! I could DTD today but I'm working night shift so it's a bad time to hit fertile week! Thanks x

Thanks ladies. Back to cd1 for me then - had a little cry this morning but I’m alright now. But confused as that was a 24 day cycle - should I start testing for ov earlier this cycle? Worried I will miss it as I usually start day 9 or 10.
Also is there anything I could try to help uterine lining/promote healthy ovulation?

@chloedancer897 I would just DTD tomorrow as planned and when you get your static do your three days in a row from then! 😊

@Diorissimo1985 POM juice for uterine lining a glass a day. Has to be 100% pom juice. You could test from CD8, it was probably your body adjusting xxx

@MichT4 I’m okay today, did another test and the line is fainter again which is good. I am looking forward to going then I can just hopefully put everything behind me and focus on ttc. I’ll be happy if I get a negative test by the end of the week! Xxx

@Diorissimo1985 I had a 27 day cycle this month as opposed to 28 and started testing day10 but got my flashing smiley on D11 (today) so maybe start a little earlier so you don't miss it? I'm so sorry AF has come. I felt exactly the same way but then picked myself up and got myself prepared for a new fresh cycle. Sending you love x

Ladies, I have a random question-how many hours did you usually slept when you got pregnant 😃 when I have a bad night and don't sleep much I blame myself and think-and this is why ovulation/implantation didn't occur 🥺

@Eli2020 I'm getting more sleep now than I have since 2013. My DC have only recently started sleeping through the night and I would say I'm having less success TTC now than before!

Thanks @VP91x and @chloedancer897 xx

@VP91x yeah I found that EPO really helped with CM I was taking like 4000mg I think 🤔 and yeah standard swap for us, I'm ready for AF to show and get on with new cycle aswell but I'm staying positive if it kills me 😂 still think August will be my month x

@Northernsoul90 yeah I've no idea why I didn't, got my peaks on CB and cheapies and had some light ovulation pain but no temp rise so guessing it wasn't meant to be. Hoping it's just a skipped ovulation and not a late one 🤔

@Diorissimo1985 sorry that AF arrived but try and remember that this is a fresh start for a whole new cycle which might be your lucky one x

@Eli2020 just had a look back on the month I fell pregnant even though I wasn't trying, but what would've been my TWW I was averaging just under 6hrs sleep a night x

@calimommy that's an interesting insight-thanks a lot. And I hope you get a lovely bfp soon. This is such a hard journey and I wish nobody has to wait that long to have a baby 🙁

@SmileyT that's very kind of you to go and check this-I really appreciate it. Maybe I'm overthinking everything ... I'm trying to do the best I can and when I fail at one area (for example bad sleep last night) I think means it's my fault as I didn't give my body enough rest 😕

@Hayleylou89 so nice of you to keep checking in on us 🥰. Hope you are feeling ok. I’m CD38 today and no AF although have been having cramps on and off for nearly two weeks. I usually have CD31 cycles. Going to test tomorrow. I tested 3 times last week and all negative but going to give it a go again tomorrow on the last hope it was late implantation 🤞. It’s weird I really feel and expect to see AF coming everytime I go to the toilet but nothing so far. X

@Hayleylou89 sorry think I posted at the same time as you this morning but I'm all good thanks, CD18 but don't think I ovulated as temps low so just waiting for AF next weekend now. Did you get a better nights sleep last night? x

@Eli2020 yeah it's hard to know if you are doing everything right but you can only do so much, I'm a rubbish sleeper and often wake up in the early hours but there isn't much you can do if your body doesn't sleep through, no point beating yourself up about it x

@Wishingfornumber2 ahh i have everything crossed for u tomorrow! 🤞🏻🤞🏻

@SmileyT aw dont worry, yes i slept so well last night after finding out everything was ok, had cramps all day today not worrying but more reassuring that i must be stretching. X

@SmileyT I wake up at around 5, 5:30 every morning (and I work from home starting work at 9) it's so irritating. I'm so jealous of people who go to sleep and then stay asleep until they have to get up 😫

@Wishingfornumber2 fingers crossed for you for your testing tomorrow 🤗

Btw I'm already CD 6 🥳

@Diorissimo1985 sorry to hear about AF - I haven't had a normal period since April as had two losses since then too. I am CD11 and usually ovulate a little early. Husband wants to wait until next month but I just wanna get on with DTD!!

After MC on 20th June I've had a bit of cramping today which is unusual for me mid-cycle - has anyone else had this following a MC? Should it be a reason to hold off this month?

@Eli2020 I can't remember how much I slept but I'm a really good sleeper normally. I can nap easily (sorry!). However, please don't be so hard on yourself. It absolutely isn't your fault if you don't ovulate or implant just because you aren't sleeping well xx

@SmileyT is that the recommended to help with CM? I need to double check it won't affect my soy. Yes, please stay positive and watch alllll the disney! Have you ever seen Pete's Dragon (original version)? I used to love it when I was little xx

Oh my gosh ladies it took me forever to find this thread again 😂😭 I keep losing it then it takes ages to find!! Anyway - hello!!! Here to give you a June cycle update that I am 97% sure I'm pregnant, waiting to start testing but I'm 3 days late with all of the pregnancy symptoms, had implantation spotting too! 🥰 I'm feeling utterly terrified but pretty sure that I am pregnant. Hope for a full term baby is the next hurdle!

Hello all. 5dpo today, feeling crampy and have lower back ache and concluded it's absolutely shit that we have to wait 2 weeks to start a new cycle. I wouldn't mind waiting two weeks if there was promise of a pregnancy 😂 but the cruelty of having to wait 14 days to then bleed 😫
I realise I sound super negative. I really must do something about that 🙈
Love keeping up to date with you all.
Pleased for you @Northernsoul90 that your test is more faint today. A little closer to CD1 and ttc 🤞🏼
Sorry af arrived @Diorissimo1985. Here's to a nice thick uterine lining this cycle and lots and lots of baby dust 💫
Sad to hear you think you didn't ov this cycle @SmileyT . What a bloody month it's been for you and @VP91x - I say this not actually knowing if I have ov'd 🤷🏽‍♀️🧐 still debating temping next time if no luck this cycle.
Congrats on the healthy baba scan @Hayleylou89 . Good that you got a better nights sleep after being reassured.
And omg @Re6ecc4 !!!! How are you holding off testing?!! 😱🤞🏼🙏🏼

@VP91x
Hello everyone! I hope you don't mind me jumping on here. I am sorry to hear of some of your experiences. TTC is such a tough time for all.

I am also waiting for ovulation this month and AF will be due around 20th July, so I'm still a while off.
I have had 3 miscarriages myself already so I know exactly how many of you feel. My most recent MC was a molar pregnancy but thankfully my levels returned to normal without the need for chemo. I am desperate to conceive. I would do anything to hold my own baby!
Love and baby dust to all...let's hope we are all lucky this month!

@Wishingfornumber2 do you feel anything symptom wise yet? Aside from the cramps. Good luck tomorrow 🤞🏼

@Re6ecc4 that sounds very promising! What symptoms are you having? How have you held til 3 days late??

@Jazper it’s a pain this wait isn’t it? Why do you think you’re out already? I know what you mean when you just want that start so you know you have another go soon(ish). Hope it goes quickly for you.

@GraceG26 welcome, and sorry you find yourself here. Did you have tests after having 3?

@Re6ecc4 omg how are you not peeing on every stick!? This is brilliant news!! Whar symptoms have you had?

@Jazper it really has been a shitter!! But onwards and upwards. I know the TWW is utterly awful. Fingers crossed for you this cycle xx

Welcome @GraceG26 so sorry you've suffered so many losses😔 what are you doing to track ovu? Xx

Oh I don't have any definitive reasons @MichT4 , I know the cramps could be there whether pregnant or not, I suppose I'm just saying that if af is going to come, I'd like to not have to wait two weeks for it 🙈 I recall you are testing soon, remind me, what dpo are you?

Thank you @VP91x . This thread and everyone on it is a welcome distraction ☺️

@Jazper thank you! I will post an update tomorrow of how I get on. Yes definitely... would you take the day I get a negative test as cd1? TWW is a killer 😫 hopefully this will be your month! xx

@Wishingfornumber2 fingers crossed for you testing tomorrow 🤞🏼🤞🏼xx

Hello @GraceG26 so sorry for your losses 😔 have you been ttc long since your recent mc? xxx