Venga Bus is back (Bus 8)

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Big congrats to our girl @Sydgal22 🥳
18 BFPs in June so far who will be next!?

@noble89 - June 15th
@ss123456 - June 15th
@mich2020 - June 17th
@newbie9 - June 17th
@LV1987 - June 17th
@peanutbutterbrownies - June 18th
@sweetshop2020 - June 20th
@newbie0818 - June 20th
@chloedancer897 - June 20th
@Jodi3 - June 20th
@dontgojasonwaterfalls - June 21st
@maybe333 - June 22nd
@marshmallow123 - June 26th
@madz27 - June 27th
@skip86 - June 28th
@missgoldilocks - June 28th
@katao - June 30th
@vp91x - June 30th
@lucyrp - July 1st
@sausage1990 - July 1st
@lucie91 - July 2nd
@dipsy77 -July 3rd
@dkdk123 - July 4th
@amy00 - July 5th
@ltay2 - July 5th
@minster2012 - July 5th
@vil10 - July 6th
@franklydear - July 6th
@justmouse - July 7th
@blodyn91 - July 7th
@cocoblue22 - July 7th
@smileyT - July 8th
@jazper - July 8th
@littleRa - July 10th
@2020mission - July 15th
@DB20 - July 17th
@sarahttc2020 - July 21st

Not added anyone that I don’t have dates for but I’ve not forgotten you just let me know when you know you ovulate/ know your test dates ☺️

@Minster2012 thank you xx

@Katao Yeah I am so far feeling relaxed about the TWW, not sure how long this attitude will last (probably not long as it's easy to be chilled at 1DPO 😂) but for now very much 'what will be will be'. I know we've done our best this cycle with DTD times, supplements etc so if it's not our time then obviously I'll be gutted but I know we did what we could.

Nice to have TWW/testing buddies 😁

@Ltay2 same here. We were stupidly overly invested in getting pregnant the last couple of cycles as it would have been perfect timing for us but now that's past feeling much more like what will be will be. I'm sooo tired today. I know if it was later in the tww I'd be thinking is that a symptom 🤣 going to try to stay sa MN e as long as possible!

*s mn e was supposed to be sane 🤦‍♀️

Hi @Mococo1 I've been thinking of you the last few days actually, I'm sorry that you have to be back with us but I'm glad you feel up to trying again ❤️

@Vil10 yep DTD tonight if you can and then you know you've done what you can but try not to stress if it can't happen as you hopefully enough swimming around already in those tubes x

@KateColx I'm with you, I'm day 3 of the flashing and it is annoying but I'd be pissed if it was static this morning as definitely not covered our bases yet 🙈

@lucyrp I was going to say I can't remember being as horny as you but if I think back to my uni days when I was your age I was definitely more of a minx - I need to reignite 22yo me 😈

@Franklydear sounds like a much better morning then one at work 👊

@Catherinettc I didn't think a chemical was supposed to be heavier than normal, I didn't even have that with my MC at nearly 8 weeks but if it's unusual for you I'd speak to your GP as I think if you are filling a pad an hour for more than 3hrs or something then it might be haemorrhaging 😔

@DKDK123 sounds like you've worked out what is right for you, I'm such a data nerd I tracked way before I was even ttc so it makes me feel calmer but definitely not for everyone. My friend was telling me how they were trying for 2years and was due to go on clomid next month but they kinda stopped and she has just fallen ☺️

@Egg2020 definitely try and hold out for at least wednesday, the most common implantation day is 9dpo and it can take a couple days to show on a test so Wednesday will hopefully give you a clear result either way xx

Left work early as i was losing the plot and so nice to come on here and see so many of you lovely ladies are feeling positive. My fertile window starts tomorrow and I'm excited for the daily sex position challenge, although DP hates anything where he isn't on top so might be a struggle 😂😂😂 from my calculations I think that we had pretty much dead on 25% get BFPs this month so hoping this continues over the next few weeks 🥳 🥳

@Katao I'm just glad to be back in the game tbh after a month off with OH being out of action so think I'm overly excited to be in TWW with something to actually wait for 😂 but yeah know what you mean I will try to stay away as much as possible for my sanity but I am just too nosey and end up coming back on to see how everyone is doing 😜 I think being back at work in the office helps as at home I was constantly thinking about it!

@SmileyT Ooo that is interesting that we seem to have hit the 20-25% statistic 🤞🏼

Yeah, shielding for one more month, now to get the doc to sign so work cannot argue

I'm one month behind you @Missgoldilocks came off pill in August and started right away. Are you gonna make a doc appointment for next month do you think?

@Minster2012 hate when that happens too! They'll call though won't they, or you'll get a letter.
I'm in tww from today too @Katao @Minster2012 @Ltay2! 1dpo for me and should try and get another sesh in just to be sure but he's got meetings until 8, highly unlikely he'll be in the mood and I can't be arsed to get him in one either 😂 do any of you do usually dtd again at 1dpo?
Kinda wish I was back in the office too @Ltay2! Be nice to have the differentiation again.

Enjoy all your upcoming shagging @SmileyT!!
We're all due our bfp's aren't we, especially with those stats! 🤞🏾

@smileyt thank you! I might not be as serious this month about trying but figured hey why not il be DTD with DH anyway so if we get a healthy pregnancy and baby out of it bonus!

@catherinettc I would maybe call your docs hun if you are worried! I've had a really heavy bleed following this 'chemical' but when I went for my scan today the epu defo classed it as a MC and according to HCG a bit further on than I thought so the heavy bleeding painful AF now makes sense to me x

@Mococo1 that's exactly what my MC felt like.

Ooo so there's a few of us testing around the same time! Yay!

I just thought of you @Franklydear when I heard the news!

@Egg2020 yes hold off a bit more you don't want to disappoint yourself with a false negative 🤞🏻

@smileyT we will try not to disappoint with the sex positions, I expect reports from you all on how you found the corkscrew!

@notyetamumbuttrying yes we DTD at 1dpo yesterday (which I think is 1dpo) so if you can it's good to I think. They def will get the result to me, not sure how but I'm thinking it will be invalid anyway as the timing is wrong which is a bit annoying

@notyetamumbuttrying I already went doctors just before corona hit, my OH had his sperm tested which is good and I had bloods which were fine. She referred me recently to get my tubes checked but I have to wait till JANUARY 😳😬 fuming tbh. But I have said that if I don't get a bfp in the next 2 months I need to go private and get them checked for my own peace of mind then at least I can be like it's just a waiting game... Also the procedure they do of blowing out your tubes actually makes you more fertile for like 2 months after apparently so I'm all for it... That's if they aren't blocked lol

@notyetamumbuttrying oh yay another tww buddy! I normally would try to get another chance in 1dpo but not this month as we tried to time dtd to sway 😊 almost don't want to admit that because I know swaying can annoy people, especially if they have been ttc a while and it seems like your being picky.

@katao each to their own, and their circumstances with a 10 year gap I just want a baby, funny thing is I picture it as a boy, cos that's my experience
@minster yes, thanks, feeling the love, and a bit more relaxed now, no doctor on their right mind would ask me to come out of shielding.

@Franklydear I'm not even sure I have any real faith in swaying but said we would give it a go. I would be happy either way but can't help having a preference for the sibling dynamic I would like. We won't try it for long though as really it has to give you less of a chance of conceiving.

@notyetamumbuttrying I'm not too bothered about DTD at 1DPO, if we do tonight then it's fine and I would be happy we've extra covered ourselves but I'm not going to be pushing for it - I'll be glad to just go to bed and go to sleep tbh, FW is stressful I'm glad it's over 😂

@Katao I have nothing against swaying if that's what anyone wants to do! The 'science' or more so the theories about it interest me but I'm not personally trying it as I'm not bothered either way! I'd love a girl as first baby but not enough to minimise possible chances of conceiving by stopping trying on certain days for now - maybe something to consider for second baby!

Well my OPK came back as... 3 today 🙈 supposedly ovulating tomorrow, but don't believe that..
@DKDK123 definitely would do your approach if we weren't trying to convince in a small window, but also like to see if I do ovulate this month. My apps have predicted 3 different ovulation dates as well, so could be tomorrow, Wednesday or Friday. Past two cycles I had only checked one app!

Definitely having a look at that corckscrew 😏😂

Really sorry to those who have had CP 😥

@Katao I will be keen to sway on my 2nd/3rd baby if it comes to that. As this will be our first, I just want to be preggers.

Hey ladies, can I join. First month trying for baby number 3 after my husband caved and agreed to start now and not in 3 years when he originally wanted to.

I ordinarily have a cycle between 29 and 40 days and it’s usually heavy. However this month I only had a 23 day cycle and it’s was only light for a couple of days and spotting for a few days before. As a result I don’t know when I would of ovulated this month as I don’t know how long my cycle will be. I could either be 12 days past ovulation or 1. I’m going to try and hold of for the 40 days before testing which will be July 6th if AF doesn’t rear her ugly head 😩😩😩 baby dust to all ❤️

Well, ds wants a brother if it's a girl we are sending her back, ouch, he doesn't know we are TTC, he's been asking for a brother for years

@Katao totally each to their own on the swaying front! What did we say, no judgement here!

@Blodyn how odd?! Just gotta keep testing I guess, are you usually regular?

Welcome @KB13 that's rubbish, how come it could be 12 days different?

@Franklydear Oh it's tough when they have an idea themselves what they would like. It's more just me overthinking what would work best but sure you can't know really anyway 🙈

I should have known you girls wouldn't get judgey about it, it's not that kind of group. I've just read old threads on swaying for a bit more info and they can get very heated!

@katao, he is hilarious, he's been asking for years, also doesn't like babies, so if he could be around 3 that would be great, sure you can manage that, right?

Whoop whoop to all those in their TWW, excited to see loads of BFPs at the end of next week 🙌🏾

@Mococo1 I know after my MC I read loads about how fertile I would be and convinced myself I'd be pregnant straight away but you have a much better outlook. It will happen for you when it's right xx

@Minster2012 we've just had pizza and honestly couldn't DTD tonight if I wanted to but just showed OH the pic and we'll be going for the corkscrew before work tomorrow 😉 I had some EWCM and did not fling it at OH so hopefully he is still keen on me this month 😂

@blodyn91 is that 3 on premom? Super strong opk? X

Welcome @KB13 and good luck with number 3, did you track ovulation at all or just going for that regular sex option?

@Katao do whatever works for you no judgement in this group at all ☺️☺️☺️

@Minster2012 first cycle of testing. I have regular cycles of 30 days....so far. Had 2 since coming off the pill now, but a part of me thinks my body is still adjusting post pull and possibly not ovulating yet 😔

I'm now convinced I'm not going to ovulate this month either and frantically googling how long it takes to ovulate after coming off the pill 🙄 xx