Any one else due AF 20/06?

[candycrush2298]

Trying to find others with a similar cycle to mine

@snapple21 grrrr that sucks sorry.

@Elakiya wow sorry to hear you're out, that's great on your weightloss by the way well done!! I really think I need more data for the NHS and youre really lucky your employers offer private thats absolutely great.

@Kaybobx I woke up thinking I have my periods as it was so wet down there and it was just loads of CM tested and its negative I am giving this month up as a complete negative. At least it was only about £10 wasted on tests lol!! Going on ebay to buy a fertility monitor will try again next month.

Will give it a few days as some people are waiting until AF arrives before testing but I guess we can make a new thread and endure the tww next month together?

@candycrush2298 The NHS can be very frustrating to deal with especially with fertility treatment when you want everything to just happen quicker. The doctors are exactly the same so your not missing out on quality (ignoring the prick I saw). Try and make sure you’re doing everything that you can control correctly, so try to eat healthier, exercise regularly, take prenatal vitamins, track ovulation etc.

what are you using to test ovulation? I am using the easy at home strips.

I’ve also bought the Femometer to check my BBT. Will start charting tomorrow.

AF has officially arrived by the way. Amount of blood keeps increasing so I think we’re there now.

Have any of you used preseed? I never get any CM so am wondering whether to use that.

@Elakiya yeah I have heard the doctors are exactly the same. I use ebay strips but from next month I will be using the CB ones that are compatible with the fertility monitor. I have tried tracking BBT but I never remember to take it as soon as my alarm goes off so I'm already up for like 5 min before tracking so I am useless at it. I havent used preseed but if you not getting enough CM I would definitely suggest using it as it mimics CM without harming any of the sperm.

I think my AF is going to be late just to p me off. I literally don't feel like i do the day before she comes! My CP has gone high again 🙈 just hurry up and get out of the way woman!

I used preseed the last 2 cycles, not because i didn't have CM just as i heard it helps. It smells awful but heard its quite effective (well not with me haha).

Defo up for the tww wait with you all again

@Kaybobx I think mine is going to be late too. Longest cycle I have had is 27 days so chances are its going to make me wait until Monday to start just to annoy me. I have no pms usually my AF cramps would be so bad by now hurting so bad and I just dont. My back ache is still there and still have light pains in my left side. So annoying. I'm also not even moody or irritable its just so bizarre. Maybe I should add preseed to the basket as well just for some added luck. I think because my symptoms have been so different last month and this month for pms that I might have endometriosis it runs in the family (or cysts, fibroids, polyps or whatevrer could be growing down there that shouldn't) so when the private clinic opens up near me (found one that looks really good 30minutes from me) I'm going to do the ovulation tests and see whats happening. Definitely think something is up particularly the left ovary since thats where the pain and backache is situated.

@candycrush2298 I'm usually bang on a 27 day, last month i was 3 days late for the first time ever! Now I'm thinking has my cycle changed to 30 days. Am i actually due tomorrow? Ugh!
I still have backache too but nothing else. So odd. Im usually cramping and crying by now.

Definitely go and get a scan. I went to my GP last year and they wouldn't do anything as i was healthy and bloods were fine. Had i not paid for one of these scans i wouldnt of known about the polyps! I've now had to send the report to my GP to follow up. Still waiting to hear back, probably be forever with COVID going on.

@Kaybobx rooting for you to get a call from your doc soon regarding your results. Thank you so much for the advice I honestly appreciate it and I really will. I am going to send them an email so that when they open they can get back to me about an appointment. I think something has definitely changed and since its not pregnancy there has to be something else going on there to have made my cycle change and my symptoms to be so different i have never gotten period cramping 11 days before Im due to start. Its not usual so something is up.

I'm happy for a new thread when you're ready guys. I'll wait here till then. I've bid on a cb monitor and I'm gonna buy a femometer

@candycrush2298 thank you. Dont stress, you may not have anything wrong. Our bodies are just mental and so unpredictable. If anything its nice to just get a peace of mind everything is ok. Im sure you'll be fine.

@snapple21 yup will wait here too until the new thread is up too. I'd defo recommend the CB though, luckily i have some left from this month as i got my peak after 2 days. Saves me 20 odd quid.

@snapple21 that's great on the new thread we can talk about our updates on the CB monitor and whats been happening and then symptom spot for 2 weeks it sounds like a party hahha. We can chat in here for a few days and then once we have established who all has started AF I will create a new thread and tag you all xx

@Kaybobx yeah our bodies are strange and it will be really nice to find confirmation. I am going to get some preseed, keep taking the pregnacare both me and hubby and use the actual fertility monitor. I wish i could track BBT hahah but I am a lost cause lol.

@candycrush2298 @kaybobx

I’ll stay here too! Thanks for the comments about preseed. I’m going to leave it for this month and if unsuccessful again in July then I’ll get it.

I’m really struggling with taking pregnacare, I think it’s the size of the tablet. It makes me feel sick. Is there anything else you guys would recommend.

I think I really want to get pregnant but part of me feels like because I still have another 9-10kg to lose I am not providing my baby with the best environment so I am really scared as well ☹️

@Elakiya being a healthy weight is always beneficial, I am 8kgs from a healthy BMI and I am healthily losing it while trying to conceive and I have heard a great if not better alternative to pregnacare is proceive as it has more vitamins in but its a lot more expensive so not sure if that would be an option for you

@Kaybobx wanted to tell you my cheap tests came from Amazon and I got a negative with it so I think if I cant even get a false positive its definitely 100% a negative 😂

@candycrush2298 haha!! How you feeling this evening? I don't feel anything at all. Odd.

@Kaybobx definitely no symptoms. Very light cramps like i have been having for days. No AF level cramping. No cravings. No extreme moodiness its just strange. Going to shower now and will check my cervix will let you know.

@Kaybobx cervix still in the same position either meaning it will drop during the night or I'm definitely going to be late....

@candycrush2298 mine is like a golf ball and rock solid 🙈 god knows what that means!

@Kaybobx what the hell is happening to us 😆😆😆

@candycrush2298 i think we're broken 😂😂😂

@Kaybobx I think so too 😂😂

@Elakiya yes my cervix feels different all the time. Even same time of the month etc. That's why I'm not sure what I'm meant to be seeing change. Haha xx

Any updates this morning ladies ?

@snapple21 nothing for me yet 🙁

@snapple21 @Kaybobx nothing. Really think its going to start tomorrow or Monday for me as I have no normal AF cramps. Just the dull ache on my side and same side back ache. No perineum pain nothing. Oh I had a total breakdown last night cried and cried for no reason and then my friend called to cheer me up and I got so p'd off with her I could have punched her in the gut hahaha. Any else that is due today started yet? Or tested and got a BFP???

@candycrush2298 oh gosh are you ok now?
I don't have any cramps and my CP has gone high again, still quite firm though.
I have got a banging headache but i did partake in a bit of wine last night haha!

I think we were the last ones waiting on this group?