Anyone due AF on or around 15th of June

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Hello, looking for ladies with a similar cycle to mine, to discuss symptoms and get through the dreaded tww!

@alyosha think oh is going to make me do it in the morning if af doesn’t arrive tonight.

I honestly didn’t think I’d fear testing so much. Ten years I was an addict! Didn’t realise it could cause so much ptsd.

I think I'm out, line doesn't seem to be getting any darker. If anything it seems lighter

Ahh, my body is loosing its mind!! I'm 2 days late, have been having the smallest amount of spotting for 4 days. Serious cramping, it feels like AF should be here in full flow but no she's not! Oh and tests are negative! I'm so confused 😩.

How are we doing ladies?

Just did another FRER and it is 100% BFN. Femometer app is showing 'pregnant' because of my bbt still being high after 17 days but I'm 95% sure I'm not as my spotting is getting heavier and more red and I am getting af cramps now. At 17dpo I think I'd get a BFP this late if I was and I just feel af like now 🤷🏻‍♀️

@Vix2007 have you tested again this morning? Do you temp? Fingers crossed for you 🤞🏻

@SS123456 So sad to hear that! Crossed fingers you do get a late BFP. I have to say FRERs don't seem to work for me for whatever reason, they give me a later bfp than the internet cheapies!

I've had some spotting this morning & the line is no darker on the test, if anything a bit lighter, so not sure if this bean is going to stay or not!

@Alyosha I really hope it does, all my fingers are crossed for you!! 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻

ALSO, the consensus that FMU gives you the best line is not true for me either - so maybe test at another time? I seem to get my best lines if I do my morning ablutions, then wait 2 hours without drinking anything.

@SS123456 Thank you :D It's so nice to be able to talk freely about early pregnancy on Mumsnet. Hoping hard for you too!

@SS123456 hey, I haven't tested this morning because I haven't got any tests, some should arrive later today. I do temp I will try and add my chart.

His one shows the past few days better.

Good morning! Still no af here! Still wimped out on testing because the week long af cramps are still doing their thing.

Hope everyone is well. I can’t believe my week off is nearly over 😩 won nothing on scratch card last night so have to go back to work Monday.

@Vix2007 that looks like a text book pregnancy chart to me!

@SS123456 fingers crossed 🤞. I will take a test later and let everyone know, unless AF arrives first of courses.

@Sansa87 You're doing the right thing by waiting, honestly. I have wasted a lot of money and stress on pregnancy tests...I am very impressed with your self control!

@Vix2007 good luck!

@Sansa87 you have so much willpower!

Still no AF here, 5/6 days late now according to my last 2 cycles and 2 days late based on my average cycles over the last 8 months. Not tested since Monday now and had cramps on and off for just over a week

I've conceded and logged today as cycle day 1 in femometer now. My bbt is still high but af seems to be starting and I'm cramping now. That was a 42 day cycle with 17 days with a high bbt!

I've ordered a fertility blood test from medicheck that should hopefully be with me tomorrow and I'm going to give the CB digital opks a go this month too

I'm going to be 37 this year and starting to panic a bit now as this is cycle 9 😔

I can't believe the willpower of those who are late and not testing! For me, the waiting was awful and I think I preferred just knowing either way. Good luck for when you do test. Any tips on how to find that self control?

@SS123456 So sorry to hear it! I hope everything works out for you.

I may be joining the next thread depending on how this cramping & bleeding works out..feels like beginning of period. Such a headfuck though. Moral of the story....wait as long as possible to test :p

@Alyosha thank you! I really hope it's better news for you 🤞🏻🤞🏻

I'll stick around in here with baby dust for you all but does anyone know the name of next months thread so I can join?

@SS123456 it is 'the July pact'

@kirinm I've basically run out of tests that's the only reason I'm not testing daily hahaha... Actually got some more arriving in the next couple of hours and although I'm telling myself I'll hold off until Saturday I will probably do one as soon as they arrive

@whambam89 I used up the FRERs I bought - on one I got the faint line so I was panicking about an ectopic so took the other one yesterday and thankfully no line. But it means I have no test and I'm going to try and avoid buying them until I'm closer to AF next month. I do wonder if I'd had more sensitive tests I'd have picked up a positive earlier and that would probably have made things harder mentally.

Good luck when you do test!

@kirinm I'm pretty sure I'm out to be honest, I'm going to guess my peak opk on day 22/23 or whatever it was was late ovulation. We DTD 4 days before that and the day I got the positive just in case so I guess there's still chance but I just feel like it's really unlikely now. Have felt really down the last 2 days, I just want AF to show up so we can start trying again.

@kirinm I had no idea I’d really struggle testing. I think in my head atm I could be pregnant. I don’t think I am, but there is still a chance. Once I take that test, if it’s a negative, at 16dpo it’s very likely to just be a negative.

I know I’m not making any sense 😂 I also can’t wait four hours before wees, & when I wake up in the morning I’m desperate and it’s very easy to ignore the test in the kitchen draw and just have a wee