June Bus - who's on board?

[MrsLBear]

Hi ladies 💕

13dpo today and af is imminent as temp dropped to cover line plus a bfn. So who's joining me?
TTC #1
This will be cycle 13 since mmc (Feb 19) but been TTC since June 2018 so a horribly momentous month for me.

Bought some vitamins recommended by it starts with the egg for this month and also male conception tablets for DH. So we shall see 🤞🏼

Lots of luck and baby dust to everyone 🍀🌈💕

@SmileyT when you test with CB later on in the day do you have to hold wee or anything for a time frame?

@MrsDh2019 why don’t you see what it’s like for the rest of the day then maybe do a preg test tomorrow morning just to check?

Ooh maybe I shouldn't have been so quick to slag off my ICs - finally getting a bit of a line! It's 10pm here now and DH only just got home from work 🙄 He's tired but I'll just have to talk dirty or something.. it doesn't take much to get him going 🤣 with any luck I'll get my static tomorrow.
PS thank god for opks, I thought I was so clued onto my body and cycles, but would've bet anything before now that I'd already ovulated. Hopefully I can catch it! 🤞🏼

@Skip86 your OH sounds similar to mine😏😂

@lucyrp when I say 'talk dirty' I mean I say something like 'how 'bout it?' and he's naked already 🤣

@Skip86 I mean I don't even have to say anything sometimes 😂

@Skip86 that’s great you are getting somewhere with the OPKs, fingers crossed for you to get your static!

My DH is mostly the same & if I say “oo we could watch a bit of porn” he would never say no! I’m keeping that in reserve for day 3/4 shagging!

I feel a bit weird this afternoon now, got a strange taste in my mouth & feel a bit queasy. Hope I’m not coming down with anything, I’ve not been anywhere! I’ve spent the morning wiping up potty training accidents though 💩🤦🏼‍♀️

@Skip86 Such a random thing, I wasn't gonna do any until I got a flashing smiley but thought il get the practice in then was like what this cant be right 🤨 I just did another one, was praying it wasnt as dark cause it's far too early to ovulate thats not a good thing & it's a bit fainter so thank goodness 🙏🏼 date night was lovely, so out the blue for OH to do but I genuinely think he just knows how stressed I've been lately 😂 oh & great your getting further with your cheapys, your peak wont be far off 🙌🏼 get DTD 😂

@SmileyT I just did another one, it was fainter. Maybe ovulate a lot earlier than I think but still plenty time I'm a newbie so when I seen that line I thought omg I'm gonna hit peak like tonight or tomorrow 😂 il have to get used to seeing them. So sorry AF is hard going justnow, I feel u mines was the same I was so drained! Hope it eases off soon for u 🤞🏻

TMI girls but this AF I have been SO gassy! I think the pain from gas has been worse than the cramps and I have no idea why I am like this as I haven't changed my diet I don't think (although actually I am taking new supplements since CD1..?). Hormones wreaking havoc I suspect, especially as AF is still continuing even though I'm normally done by now.

It's funny how I probably wouldn't have noticed any of this 6 months ago when I wasn't TTC...

@lucyrp I'd say cool things off with this friend for a bit and don't talk TTC with her for now :)

@theotherfossilsister hello and welcome, hope you find some baby dust with us xx

@Minster2012 it’s strange I’ve monitored it all day and had a pad on and it’s just Like brown CM but not even filled a pad and it’s hardly even there when I wipe. I will keep an eye on it for a few days and maybe do a test at the weekend if it doesn’t get any heavier. Could just be the start of AF though I guess! I Just had such a weird pregnant feeling these last few weeks and even my DH said last night my boobs were scaring him because they look like when the milk comes in after you’ve given birth - big rocks on my chest 😂 (they’re usually only a tiny B cup but they’re massive atm!) xx

@Minster2012 my OH is so against porn😂he's never really been into it by himself and thinks I'm weird when I suggest watching it together 😂

I've felt a bit funny today too like so tired and a bit nauseous

@KRK05 hopefully it’s just a bit of a weird one but still if you are DTD every other day or so 🤷‍♀️

@MrsDh2019 that’s good it’s not much then, 🤞🏻It holds out & you can test, especially if your boobs are massive!! 🍀

@lucyrp you aren’t weird for suggesting watching porn why not! I think it’s good to do different things occasionally

@Juno231 what new supplements are you taking? Could be the difference definitely

@MrsDh2019 all of that sounds really promising! 🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼

@minster2012 I've added ubiquinol and evening primrose oil to the mix but somehow doubt either of those are gas inducing lol.

@Juno231 yeah surely they shouldn’t make a difference. Hmmm maybe just a weird one, or stress?

@MrsDh2019 I would test. I had something like this with DC2, brown but went on for a week, we weren't trying so no idea of dates but I must have been pregnant at the time so goodness knows what it was!

@Minster2012 tbh I don't hold wee for testing in the evening but I'm not a massive drinker so I probably only go to the loo every 4hrs or so during the day anyway.

@Skip86 definitely looks like it's moving towards positive, hope the dirty talk worked 👌🏾

@KRK05 I think every month I forget how bad my periods get, my mum had to have a transfusion because of blood loss once 😩 I'm just telling myself it means I have a nice thick lining ready for a baby to implant. Yeah with the opks I tested all through the month last couple months just to see how they fluctuate and make sure I was catching the real peak.

@MrsDh2019 🤞 there is something working away in there and this is just a bit of spotting, when was the last time you tested? Sorry I've lost track of days xx

Just a pit stop but MrsDh... All my fingers, toes and limos are crossed for you 🤞🤞🤞

So today I have noticed a very distinct change in CM which is exciting (what has my life become? 🤣). Was struggling to decide what was 'sticky' and what was 'creamy' but can definitely note the change today. It's nice to have something to track again!

@Ltay2 Totally with you in the CM tracking, sometimes I look through the various options and I'm thinking oooo what's sticky CM and then a few days later I check and it's like yep, know I now what's sticky means!! Never realized there was so much to learn from our bodies and lady bits hahaha

@SmileyT I wish I peed every 4 hours!! It’s def every 2 🤔& in between that I drink a lot of water due to my surgeries I have to drink at least 3 litres per day of fluid mostly water so I don’t like it to be in the evening to stop night wees 🤦🏼‍♀️😂

@MrsDh2019 def fingers crossed it’s good news instead!

@Ltay2 what CD are you on? I’m trying to obsessively monitor CM too as I’ve never paid attention before! So it’s all new to me & I seem to be consistently just be creamy which is annoying!

Oh but @Ltay2 I spend ages trying to decide what stage it is to tell femometer & I don’t think I’ve got it right 🤦🏼‍♀️

@lucyrp @Minster2012 thanks guys 🤞🏼
@Sleeeeeepy @smileyT yeah I just feel really weird but I just don’t want to get my hopes up again😂 i went for a shower about an hour ago and I’ve had no more of it when I wiped after going to the loo so if it was AF I would think it would’ve picked up by now? My flow usually comes really heavy and for 3 days then goes away/spots for the last couple of days... I mean It could be AF though haha wow honestly this is all driving me insane now 😂 I’m neither here nor there for the last 2 weeks and now AF comes and it’s just as sketchy!! 🤣 last time I tested was on Saturday and it was definitely BFN so I might leave it 2 more days or something and see. I also don’t have period cramps like what I would normally have either... honestly usually when I have AF I feel like my womb Is exiting my body it’s that bad every month (Grim I know) 🤣 xx

@33Carr That's exactly what I've been like the last few days, thought what I had was creamy but can definitely tell now it wasn't!

@Minster2012 Same! I've never paid a lot of attention before but can tell a difference today compared to yesterday. Definitely feel 'softer' inside and always thought CM was creamy but it's definitely 'lotiony' today so can tell what I had before wasn't creamy at all now. Definitely true that you just have to give yourself a month or two to get used to your body. I'm CD12 today.

@MrsDh2019 🤞🏻🤞🏻Then but I can see why it’s driving you nuts!

@Ltay2 & @33Carr I think I need more time to get to know my CM! See I had lotion like around CD12 too but now gone back to sticky creamy which blatantly isn’t a thing 😭🤦🏼‍♀️No idea!