June Bus - who's on board?

[MrsLBear]

Hi ladies 💕

13dpo today and af is imminent as temp dropped to cover line plus a bfn. So who's joining me?
TTC #1
This will be cycle 13 since mmc (Feb 19) but been TTC since June 2018 so a horribly momentous month for me.

Bought some vitamins recommended by it starts with the egg for this month and also male conception tablets for DH. So we shall see 🤞🏼

Lots of luck and baby dust to everyone 🍀🌈💕

Thanks @SmileyT Just downloaded the Femometer app so I can feel a little bit 'in control', even though we can't actually control that much in reality!! Does anyone else use it?

@minster2012 whoa sounds like you've had quite the journey so far! Wishing you all the best for the future!

@SmileyT this was my first post 😂🙈

@33Carr I use the fermometer app alongside Flo and I record my BBT on there. Have only been using for the last week though, not sure it's any help at predicting my FW atm but sure once it gets an idea of what's going on with all the data I input it should help. I record when we DTD and my BBT on there.

So negative CB this morning but very dark opk this afternoon - redid CB and got smiley face. I think this is exactly what happened last month but I didn't do another smiley til the morning so only got one day.

DTD 4 times in a row anyway last month as SMEP worked out that way but I guess it might make a difference having both days known about. Anyway good to see I am doing the same every month I guess?!

@lucyrp Just read your OP! Can't believe she told you to go for a pint?! Does sound likely that it didn't implant properly for period to be 18 days late though.

It's really eye opening reading some of your stories. I'm really hoping for some happy ending 😊 baby dust x

@33Carr I use femometer too & find it really easy, it’s not changed my ovulation date from today though yet after still 0 on IC OPK but smiley face on CB but it’s first month hopefully of properly tracking after cycles all over from MC so it should get the hang of it

@Excitablemuch that’s good then, I’m only going to do the CB in the morning anyway but hoping our horniness continues for all the smiles after first one this morning 😂

@33Carr I think something definitely happened but for whatever reason it didn't work out but unsure if it was AF I had or bleeding from that. I know I thought it was pretty rude! And she also said "oh well you're young plenty of time yet" 🤨

@lucyrp How very useful if her! I'm sure she should know that it isn't an easy journey for everyone! Hopefully You'll get some ovulation symptoms rather than AF again!

@lucyrp what is it with some people?! What a dim thing for her to say when you're feeling so shitty 🙄

@33Carr She said oh well you'll be back on our books in no time and I thought yeah and I'm going to request not to have you again...!
I'm not holding out any hopes for this cycle as I'm not entirely sure when it started or when it will end but we have DTD every day since "AF" left so hoping that will hold out😂

@Skip86 I couldn't believe she said it to be honest and I was glad she was on the other end of the phone as opposed to in the same room as me. Yes I might be young but I thought I was having another baby and now you're telling me I'm not

Just catching up, theres lots to catch up on 🙈 had a wee night off & date night with OH last night which was very nice, took my mind off everything 🥰 CD8 tomorrow so starting my CB. I'm quite annoyed at myself though I've been taking my temp 8am every day but didnt this morning as we were up until really late & I turned my alarm off so I'm assuming that's my charts messed up 😭

@Skip86 Ah I'm so sorry u & DH had an argument, TTC can be so stressful along with everything else in life but I'm glad yous have made up now. Hope u see that rise soon, at least it's a flashing smiley & not the dreaded ⭕

@jaxs23 Sorry to hear about your CP, how u finding BBT this is my first month doing it?

@Minster2012 Yay to the flashing smiley 😁 I cant wait to see that.

@KRK05 oooo hope you had a lovely night!🤍 Me and OH are going to do date night tonight I haven't worn make up since his birthday in March because of lockdown so will be nice to make an effort for him🥰
I wouldn't stress about it too much, if you measure again tomorrow and its in line with your normal temperatures then you could maybe input a similar temperature for today so that the chart is continuous? Just an idea. I normally do mine at 6.15 but the other day I took it at 6.45 because I was late waking but it didn't make too much difference it was like 0.10 difference but my chart was fine🤷🏼‍♀️

Received a BFN today and had signs of AF last night. The cramps were real!!
Wondering if the first LH peak I’ve had was the true peak(AF would be due today) or the second was the true peak.. if the second AF wouldn’t be due until next week🤷🏽‍♀️
Wow our bodies don’t make things easy!!

@lucyrp sorry I didn't scroll back far enough to read your OP 🙈 really sorry for your loss aswell, that nurse sounds very insensitive when I went in for my surgery following MC the Drs told me all the stats about how common it is, it really doesn't help when you're going through it though does it. That all makes sense from your post and I can completely understand why you are confused with a static aswell on your CB. Hope your cycle settles down and you get a sticky bean this month. Enjoy your date night x

@33Carr yeah I use the femometer app aswell use it to track ic opks and BBT and find it quite handy, I use FF, Flo and Ovia aswell just to compare the predictions x

@Dreaming101 sorry for your BFN this morning 😕 x

@SmileyT no it's fine I just didn't want to clog the feed up again explaining I already feel I write far too much on here everyone's probably fed up of seeing my name😂 no and it's really hard to understand it when it goes wrong because my first pregnancy was so easy going from what I remember. Maybe it was because I was so young and didn't worry about anything where as now I'm a stress head!🙈
Thank you, baby dust to you too x

I don't track BBT but it seems like most of us here are, will most likely try next cycle of this one isn't a success. Going to try the SMEP plan this month too, told DP about having to DTD three times in a row and his face dropped '3 times in a row?!!' I should have specified three days rather than three times 😂

😂 @33Carr poor DP you put him under pressure there!

@lucyrp Sounds lovely, enjoy 💛 yeah il maybe do that actually, il keep tracking & maybe go back & meet in the middle to input for today, annoyed at myself though I am NOT a morning person but had been keeping up with it so was doing pretty well 🙈

@33Carr We are doing SMEP this cycle too 🤞🏻 so funny u saying it wrong to your OH 😂

@Katao haha I know! The sheer horror!

@KRK05 How are you finding SMEP so far? I'm hoping it doesn't make DTD too regimented, looking through past cycles we DTD pretty much every third day so not too much of a drastic change I guess? 🤷🏽‍♀️

@33Carr Cant really say justnow cause only CD7 so technically should start tomorrow but we did last night CD6 so will definitely keep it up, it's too much of a difference to when we weren't TTC anyway, same as u! I just think different cause it's more 'right we have to do it on so & so day' but weve spoke about it so both committed & just gonna try make it fun so it doesnt become blah X

@33Carr **its not too much of a difference from our usual, I meant 🙈😂

Thanks @SmileyT I think I was expecting it. Hoping AF will arrive so I can start a fresh and forget this crazy cycle! Xxx

@skip86 and @SmileyT Thanks. Will remember that missing one BD isn't the end for that cycle.
@KRK05 Thanks. I like doing my bbt, but this is also my first cycle doing it as well. CD 12 and looking forward to seeing that rise in temp that says you ovulated.
@33Carr I use femometer and Premom for tracking opks mainly. Love that they read the lh levels for you. Also using them for cm and bbt. Have FF for bbt also since it looks easier to read with the cover line. Will find out what works best end of cycle.