June Bus - who's on board?

[MrsLBear]

Hi ladies 💕

13dpo today and af is imminent as temp dropped to cover line plus a bfn. So who's joining me?
TTC #1
This will be cycle 13 since mmc (Feb 19) but been TTC since June 2018 so a horribly momentous month for me.

Bought some vitamins recommended by it starts with the egg for this month and also male conception tablets for DH. So we shall see 🤞🏼

Lots of luck and baby dust to everyone 🍀🌈💕

@KRK05 That is strange! I've had that happen before with AF changing but not usually because of 2 temps. I don't really temp a lot now (I am trying just never get enough sleep 🤣) so I'm sorry I couldn't be more helpful!

Day 3 of the wonderful 'O' on CB this morning....I feel this may get old quickly!

@Skip86 that’s good about the smile on CB but rubbish about argument & DH being out but if you DTD a couple of days ago & tomorrow you are doing what you can around life! It can’t become life I don’t think.

@CMM20 same for me, CD12 & big fat O for me too again, was really hoping it would change as we usually DTD every day overly Friday/weekend!

@lucyrp if you are DTD every day /every other day then that’s all you can do & maybe get strips then yeah see what AF does

@Attybae hi & good luck for your TWW let’s hope you are our first BFP!

@KRK05 I tried to temp last month & basically gave up as my sleep isn’t really good enough, & apparently a glass of wine can throw it off so I didn’t like that idea I’d rather enjoy the wine & not worry bout it!

@Skip86 @Minster2012 @Ltay2 So random a 😂 I'm gonna continue to temp this cycle (but my temps are all over the place) cause in curious to see if I get like a cover line for it & what it looks like by the end of my cycle but I'm not gonna read too much into my actual temps cause my temp changes so much daily 😑 so I dont think temping is for me, will just see it to the end cause I've started now.

@lucyrp What everyone says actually makes a lot of sense & yeah just continue to DTD so your covered 🤞🏻

Hope everyones doing good, this is finally last day of my AF it's basically non existent so excited to get into next part of cycle 🥰

@KRK05 I don't think temping is for me either don't seem to see much of a change and have been temping at 6:15 when OH wakes me up when he goes to work but I need more sleep 😂

My AF is nearly non existent today too, although managed to DTD last night and this morning just incase the test was right yesterday 😂

@KRK05 yay for AF leaving the building 👌🏻onto phase 1??? The waiting 🤨

I seem to have ewcm today I can def stretch it! But a O on CB this morning so do we think it might come over the weekend? I hope so 🤞🏻Or....is there another TMI explanation...could it be from DH last night from DTD?? Is it that similar? I mean I’m obviously NOT trying to second guess EVERYTHING, but if I were 🤔could it be his stuff??

@lucyrp I've been doing mines at 7 & I go to sleep about 2 so that 5 hours & it's not interrupted sleep or anything, as long as its 3 hours that's apparently fine but who knows maybe they will start being regular temperatures but at this point there up & down so if I was past ovulation u wouldnt be able to tell it from my temps 🤦🏼‍♀️

@Minster2012 Well yeah the waiting now 😭 but I'm excited to start all my OPKs on Monday & me & OH half have planned a big walk tomorrow with DS & dog then a date night at night (it's a surprise apparently) so thatl kick start things off 😜

Oh yeah your CM sounds promising that youl be expecting that smiley anytime soon 🤞🏻 although I do agree theres always more after DTD recently, that is why I just dont track it cause thatd just cause me a whole lot of stress I do not need 😂

@Minster2012
Wow, sounds like you’ve been through a lot already. And thanks, 🤞🏻for you toox

@Skip86
Thanks, you too. Sorry to hear about your MMC as well, not nice at all. Yeah I would love to feed through a pregnancy and to tandem feed so 🤞🏻.

@Minster2012 I once asked DH if he though his jizz had any resemblance to egg white 😂 I think it was when I DIDN'T want to get preg and freaked out when I saw it down there after sex, even though it wasn't anywhere near my fertile time. He was like 'no way!', but I'm so sure it was his business and not my own CM, so yeah I reckon at times you could get the two mixed up 😝🍆💦

Ooooo @KRK05 loving the sound of date night how exciting! Kicks things off well!

@Skip86 according to dr google the deposits from our wonderful OHs can indeed look like ewcm so I think I may have been feeling his contribution which somehow weirdly I find more disgusting than me going looking for mine in the first place 🤔however I loved what you said about Sex Ed, I don’t know about others on the thread but I’m gonna turn 36 in July & we def weren’t told anything about the “proper inner workings” of the amazing (& v complicated) female body!

@Minster2012 haha Dr Google is the guru. And agreed it seem way less weird studying my own fluids than his 😂

And @KRK05 that date night sounds amaze! What a star your DH is, he could give mine some tips 😏 He's out tonight and I'm actually enjoying having monopoly of Netflix and eating all the chocolate alone.

@Minster2012 @Skip86 Looking forward to it actually, been a while since date night even if were stuck in the house with lockdown having it 😂 hes always really thoughtful not not always this cute planning surprise date nights, probably away to try butter me up for something 🤷🏼‍♀️

@Skip86 Not gonna lie Netflix & chocolate ALONE sounds perfect, I cant wait to my DS can go stay at grandparents house for the night & hopefully OH goes out or something so I can enjoy some alone time, sounds the dream justnow 😂

My OH was meant to be away for a few nights in March, which subsequently got cancelled due to early days of Coronavirus worry and I was GUTTED 😂 felt so bad because obviously didn't want him to put himself or anyone else in any potential danger, but also had been waiting for my few nights alone for MONTHS 😫

Omg I sound so different to you all I can't wait for OH to get home from work I get lost at home since he's gone back to work 🤣

@lucyrp Hahaha really! I did love my OH been furloughed for 5 weeks but was also glad he was back at work tbh, as much as I love spending time with him I'm really independent I love my alone time like when he goes out or being able go out with my friends . My OH is more needy than I am 😂

@KRK05 I sound so needy but I'm not that bad (I think) tbh normally I don't mind him going out for the night or whatever because I've been working and do like a pamper night by myself or popping round to my friends she literally lives 30 secs up the road😂 don't mind w night out either! but i had to finish work because of covid earlier than him as I work in tourism and he's a carpenter I've been off 8 weeks or so I think now and he's only been off 6 but I did enjoy the time together at home don't think we've ever spent that much time together 😂 my PFB literally loves him too so when he's not here he's asks when he's coming home like every half hour it gets tiring 😂

I think I’m prob the worst then, @Ltay2 & @KRK05, my OH has been in work throughout the whole thing, trying to keep our company going/afloat which included when I was having miscarriage & had toddler around & 2 dogs he literally was the only one in so it was horrendous timing. HOWEVER, we are independent & I love it when he has nights out, he also goes on weekend away & a week long Boys trip each year (which with DS now I told him wasn’t going this year but he ignored)....but he keeps saying “oh god this isolation is awful what are we going to do today?” Every single weekend...I have to remind him he’s NOT ISOLATING he’s working & WTAF do you think I do every day....go spare!!

But I agree with @lucyrp that our DS is a very daddy’s boy & after 10 hours I can’t wait for him to get home so I can have some peace. 😂🤦🏼‍♀️

He’s still not home now despite going at 7, we were meant to all eat together at 6pm hmmmm

@Minster2012 Strong mama going through all that along with everything else 💜

@Ltay2 @Minster2012 Weve totally made ourselves sound like were not too keen on our OH 😂 I promise I do actually like him hahaha.... being independent & doing own things is just normal I think though, I totally thought it was normal to be like 'yay I'm alone' when he goes out 🤷🏼‍♀️😂

@lucyrp U dont sound needy dont worry! Me & my OH been together 10 years, all our friends circles are the same so we do spent ALOT of time together plus everything we do is with our DS so I'm not gonna lie when our DS is away for the night & my OH decides to go to his friends I am loving life on my own with peace & quiet 😂 our DS is such a mummy's boy, only a daddys boy when its football, toy fighting etc but hes so protective over me & joint at my hip 🙈

@KRK05 me and OH have known each other 8 years and were together at the beginning then we went our different ways but have been together for 5 years now in September! He is not my PFB father but is totally besotted with him and they love each other to bits! I only have a small circle of friends at Max I would say I have 2-3 close friends and my OH has one friend who he's been friends with since they were kids and he has two little ones and a mrs etc. He did have a few others who showed their immaturity as they are still single with no kids etc and caused a lot of hassle so he ruled them out 😂 sounds very sad but we don't bother with many people as most around here are too busy causing trouble for everyone else 😂

I need to stop writing essays I'm gonna get kicked off 😂

@lucyrp you are like me! Except my DS is genuinely a daddy’s boy, literally pushes me away & says “stay there!” As soon as daddy is home. It’s a bit upsetting but I know from his kisses & cuddles it’s more novelty as he works hard...

Man I love time on my own...if DH was isolating with me & DS we prob would be divorced 😆

Just doing my morning catch up!
I spent iso mostly alone with two young kids, which was very challenging to say the least! I lost my job and DH has been working on average 7am-9pm to keep our business afloat! So while I do like it when he finally comes home, we both just want to pass out on the couch.
We are very fortunate in west Aus to have gotten on top of covid early, and have restrictions lifted now so kids at school/daycare 🙌🏼🙌🏼 and I'm back working in the business alongside DH. Howeverrrr... now I miss being in iso!! Haha. It's made me realise how awesome it was to be forced to slow right down, have no timeframes or daily agenda. The grass is always greener huh?!