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TTC after miscarriage - May 2020

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SmileyT · 19/04/2020 07:44

I'm CD1 of cycle 2 TTC #1 so thought I'd start a new thread for anybody in the same situation who didn't get their April BFP.

I had a MMC found on a scan at 9.5weeks after seeing HB at 7 weeks 🙁 I had SMM on the 19th March but no luck in my first month and AF got me today. Normal cycles are 28days so I hope to be testing around the 20th May. This month I will be tracking ovulation using CB connected and trying out Preseed for the first time hoping this helps towards my 🌈 but tonight I'll just be having a G&T 💁🏾‍♀️

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2020wish · 11/05/2020 14:36

@Hayleylou89 yay for peak! Yes next 3 days then skip a day and then DTD again

@busby85 OMG so happy for you and slightly jealous lol wish you all the best with this new pregnancy

Hayleylou89 · 11/05/2020 14:44

@VP91
Im cd 19 today so ovulation predicted for weds.... crazy how i had that really big temp drop this morning aswell ...so glad I can get in that tww a bit quicker too :) hopefully my cycles are shortening a bit to a nice 32 day cycle as that what i had the month before conceiving and that looks like what this might be instead of a 38 day xx

SmileyT · 11/05/2020 15:23

@Hayleylou89 yay to peak and a shorter cycle 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 I also had 4 blank circles then I did a cheapie in the afternoon which was peak and was static when I checked CB. When I read up on it, it just said that it's because oestrogen and lh surge are so close together . So Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday and Friday this week for you and you're joining the TWW crew xx

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Hayleylou89 · 11/05/2020 15:29

@SmileyT Its so bad as cb say dnt to test twice if its low with fmu and i wouldn't have tested again unless i was doing cheapies and seen it so strong and read on here that it happened to someone else (was it u) so i could have possibly missed it.
But looks like iv literally caught the start of the surge maybe thats what in thinking, ill do another few cheapies and see how it progresses too as i have plenty of them so glad i started testing early with cb just i case i had a shorter cycle x 🙏 will get between the sheets the next few days 🥰

SmileyT · 11/05/2020 15:35

@Hayleylou89 Yeah it happened to me, because I read it happened to somebody else - this MN thing is a gem. Tbh if I hadn't tested i probably would've caught it the next morning as my cheapies were still peak the next morning but we're impatient and want to catch the start 😂 yes get DTD - so nice that you don't have 2 weeks of wondering this time x

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Renna · 11/05/2020 15:40

Yay @Hayleylou89 to your peak 🙌😁 enjoy the next few days 😉👌 and glad you dont have the long wait you had last month xx
Has your fertiliy cup thing arrived ? If so let us know how you get on 😁 xx

VP91x · 11/05/2020 16:00

@Hayleylou89 I think you get a temp drop pre ovulation dont you? @SmileyT might be able to confirm that.

Glad that you also have a shorter cycle so you don't have to wait as long too! Let me know how you get on with the cup if its arrived for you. Last night was my third time using it! Xx

2020wish · 11/05/2020 16:08

@Hayleylou89 yes it happened to me on Saturday just passed. Negative on both cheapie and digital. Retook that afternoon at 4pm and peak on both

Hayleylou89 · 11/05/2020 16:13

@SmileyT Its so bad as cb say dnt to test twice if its low with fmu and i wouldn't have tested again unless i was doing cheapies and seen it so strong and read on here that it happened to someone else (was it u) so i could have possibly missed it.
But looks like iv literally caught the start of the surge maybe thats what in thinking, ill do another few cheapies and see how it progresses too as i have plenty of them so glad i started testing early with cb just i case i had a shorter cycle x 🙏 will get between the sheets the next few days 🥰

Hayleylou89 · 11/05/2020 16:25

@VP91 thank u, the cup should be here this week so ill hopefully get use out of it at-least once before ovulation on weds 🙏 lets hope so! My ava still hasnt arrived 🙄 ... ah it was you aswell @2020wish that got the peak after the circle like me! So strange we could easily miss it if we didn't decide to test twice x

Renna · 11/05/2020 16:41

Hi all xx just had some pre pregnancy vits arrived. Decided to order the pregnacare ones as I've been using seven seas for months since before I got pg in December. I thought I'd look into trying pregnacare instead as I noticed it does have more ingredients in each pill.
Which one does everyone take and their experience with each of them ? :) xxx

2020wish · 11/05/2020 16:48

Renan I used to use pregnacare pre conception vits but I noticed they lengthened my cycles and made my af really late. So I moved to seven seas. Although when I was pregnant I used pregnacare

SmileyT · 11/05/2020 16:48

@VP91x @Hayleylou89 yep a temp drop in the day before your ovulation is normal 🙌🏾

@Renna I've got pregnacare supps in my Amazon basket for next month, at the moment I'm taking like 6 different pills but think I can get most of it in one, but no advice on the difference sorry 😊

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2020wish · 11/05/2020 16:49

@Renna sorry dunno why it auto corrected to Renan

Hayleylou89 · 11/05/2020 16:53

@renna I know good job i did start testing a bit earlier :) .... i only ordered the ferti lily saturday so hoping it arrives soon, i emailed company ARDO and said I am due to ovulate really soon thinking it would be friday/sat not this soon 🤷🏽‍♀️ haha they said they will prioritise my order 😂...so fingers crossed it comes! X

2020wish · 11/05/2020 17:12

@Hayleylou89 hopefully it comes soon. I love mine lol put it straight in and lie down for 15/20 minutes then get up to loo and do what I need around the house for a bit and completely no mess lol

Hayleylou89 · 11/05/2020 17:26

@2020wish so is this just ur first cycle using it? Xx

2020wish · 11/05/2020 17:29

No I got mine in jan. had a CP in feb, fell pregnant again in March but miscarriage in April so I’d say 4th cycle x

Hayleylou89 · 11/05/2020 17:30

@SmileyT look at this for a temp drop though 🤷🏽‍♀️ it dropped quite a bit this morning, but just shows somethings happening with my body and ovulation i guess x x

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VP91x · 11/05/2020 17:36

@2020wish do you not get any mess with it? I still get a little bit (sorry TMI)

I need to improve my technique lol xx

Hayleylou89 · 11/05/2020 17:36

@2020wish -ahh ok.so sorry about what you have gone through... but u swear by it then pretty much.. thats good! Xxx

2020wish · 11/05/2020 17:41

@VP91x a slight bit but nowhere near as much and bit tmi but when I put trousers back on and walks
Round house nothing seeps out lol but when I’m removing it over loo there can be a bit lol

VP91x · 11/05/2020 17:58

@2020wish ah okay yeah, I get a bit when I am putting it in but yeah after you get up it all seems to stay in! I have been going to sleep after with it in with a pillow under my bum too, 😂 xx

2020wish · 11/05/2020 18:25

@VP91x every little helps lol

Renna · 11/05/2020 19:42

Thanks ladies x x
Well I have the pregnacare in my cupboard to use but I'm not sure I want to use it for next cycle now, if I'm not lucky this month.. as like @2020wish you have said I've seen lots of ladies say on mumsnet that it lengthened their cycle etc and mine is pretty regular so dont wanna mess with that 🤔🤔 but I kind of wanted to try something different see if it helps next month if AF comes.. 🤔🤔 decisions decisions. And I thought pregnacare might be better as it has more in it and higher doses of everything. Like it has l'arginine in it which seven seas doesnt .. which I see some if you referred to before:)
I'll attach pics of ingredients if any one interested . First one pregnacare second purple ones is seven seas xxxx

TTC after miscarriage - May 2020
TTC after miscarriage - May 2020
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