New thread for the crazy gang - part 3!

[Beau2020x]

Heyyy girls! Here's our new thread - sorry if I've forgot anyone!

@Katie1109
@Ellsbells112
@Mrslane2019
@BFP2020
@Symptomspotter86
@Ange211
@Mumofboys17

And for the BFPs already who want to keep in touch
@sunflower2019
@quiffy
@fredthespider

@Mumofboys17 😂😂😂 I really wanted to change it to my insts name because its sooo cool I must say and super unique haha defo when we are preggo gang

Hey Girls

So still no af 2 day late bfn 🤷‍♀️ has anyone had any problem taking agus canthus messing with there cycle ??

I just has to scroll back to the last page of posts because I couldn't remember what my username was... It's right above the message box isn't it, d'oh! Can you get baby brain without being pregnant?! 😂🙄

Hey girls, been following the thread for a while and wondered if I could join? We have been TTC for 5 months and absolutely nothing... BFN after BFN despite doing the temping and the LH tests and everything. Feeling really down about it. Feel like I’m going about with a sad face on me all the time. Like a lot of you... everyone around me pregnant. Had to tell my friend recently that we weren’t pregnant when she suspected we were. I know it’s normal to take time but just struggling so much... feel like I can’t face another failed cycle but guess we just have to push on... CD 10 today xx

@Mrslane2019 yes agnus castus can change your cycle length x

@snowwhite2020 welcome. Sorry to hear you're feeling down, we all understand here!

@Mrslane2019 yes agnus castus can change your cycle length x

@snowwhite2020 welcome. Sorry to hear you're feeling down, we all understand here!

@Missgoldilocks this is going to take getting used to! I like it though! @Sunflower2019 glad to hear everything going good for you! And you @quiffy
@Katie1109 keeping my fingers crossed for you! I am writing this cycle off and it has really taken the pressure off! Thinking I might drop the OPKs and all the overthinking next month too! But we'll see how long that lasts! X

Thanks @Missgoldilocks hope it’s going to help talking to you girls

You ladies are honestly the best bunch ever. Thanks for checking up on me and for the lovely messages. I did see them, but wasn't quite feeling up to replying. I had my final appointment at the hospital today, my HcG levels have returned to normal so I'm officially 'not pregnant' any more which is both sad and a relief. I got off lightly if I'm honest, less bleeding than I would get on a typical period and not too much pain either.

OH and I have agreed to take it easy for a few months. No OPKs, no scheduled dtd just taking it easy and seeing what happens. I can't even predict when I'll ovulate this month so that takes some stress away.

Hope you're all getting on ok x

Sorry to have heard about what you’re going through @Fredthespider it must have been really hard xxx

7dpo and nothing whatsoever happening 🙄 used to this now though

8dpo here and nothing new physically, but I had some weird ass dreams last night!

What do you all have planned for the weekend? I'm working tonight (boo) then off to a 1st birthday party tomorrow 🎈

@Fredthespider I just can't imagine how hard the last few weeks must have been. I think a break for you and your OH sounds like a good idea, maybe book a little break away or something if time/money allows? I genuinely hope you're as OK as you can be ❤️ xxx

@LV1987 We've just got some friends coming tonight for a takeaway and they'll probably stop over, so lots of last minute housework and washing for me whilst entertaining my toddler as DH is at work, joy! 😂

@Mrslane2019 the agnus castus did absolutely nothing to my cycles what so ever! I had 3 cycles taking it and 2 off since then and no difference.

@Snowwhite2020 welcome! We all know what the down days feel like. Hopefully you can get some comfort talking to us lot and some support through this pretty shit time! Who thought TTC would be fun eh? 🙈

@Fredthespider oh bless you lovely. At least now there is some closure on it all, good for you for talking some well needed time out and we look forward to welcoming you back when you feel up to it 💕

@LV1987 not much planned for this weekend! Need to do some tidying today and it's MILs birthday tomorrow so no doubt have something planned for that. You are brave, I'm not sure I could tolerate a 1st birthday party 🙈🙈

I'm loosing it with this TTC malarkey! My best friend just asked me if I was free a particular weekend in April (we live far away from each other) and I had to try and politely decline as that's predicted ovulation weekend and swear to god I'm not wasting these precious days when I'm away with work ovulation day this month!! Grrrrr when will this end!!!!

Beau, we don't have the kids with us this weekend so that'll make it a little tougher :( but still, good to see the grown ups as they are very close friends who live too far away!

Next time we do have the kids is my nest fertile window, so they're going to have to have an early night, no matter how much we've missed them 😂

Thanks @Beau2020x@Missgoldilocks still no sign of af and still bfn maybe I shouldn't of taken it just want to try and shift these horrible headache

being a nice sister tonight ad going to VIP meet and greet with Peter Andre as my sister obsessed I'm long forward to it like hole in the head but it keep her happy

Hi ladies x very busy weekend so it will be short x I had another faint line on IC this afternoon, it was more visible than the last one x we had a chat and decided no more testing until af is actually late to avoid any potential heartache x but fingers crossed it will not arrive and line will get darker x

@Katie1109 oh my gosh soooo exciting! When is AF due?? Xx

That's fab @katie1109! Looking forward to hearing more... Keep busy! 😘

Af due on Monday girls x I’ll keep you posted x

@Katie1109 sounds very sensible of you! Really hope it's good news and AF stays away!! 🤞🏻❤️

That’s so exciting @Katie1109 💖💖💖

@katie1109 sounds good!!! Hoping all goes well for you and af stays away xxx

Sorry I've been MIA folks my mobile signal has been rubbish this last few weeks (no WiFi either - proper hillbillies lol)
Helllooo new people 👋
@Katie1109 how exciting - all sounds very promising!
@Fredthespider I'm glad you are finished with the hospital and the physical symptoms, I hope that will give you some closure and a chance to mend mentally. It sounds as if your DH is very supportive. I hope together you can heal and move forward together ❤️
I have genuinely moved on from TTC - I looked in the mirror last month and thought really who are you kidding? I'm too old now. My body clearly knows better we've been TTC for 2 years now and in that time had 2 MC's - it's just not meant to be and I'm ok with that. I'm going to make an appointment to get the depo as avoiding fw isn't the most reliable method - although having a 3 yo in our bed is fairly effective 😂