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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

Temping Buds 8 'We will make it off this thread Eventually!!'

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RahRah1 · 02/09/2007 19:49

Ready is having difficulty in getting on the other thread due to length of it, so started a new one.

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nh101 · 04/09/2007 16:37

Congrats Zam! that's great news.

I have a question: I forgot to temp this morning until I was just about to get into the shower (I take this as a sign that I am totally chilled about ttc - I keep trying to convince myself I am anyway!), so my temp was 36.6 when it was 36.4 the day before (it is usually around 36.5 before OV). So how reliable is that temp or should it not really matter as I am only on CD9?

RahRah1 · 04/09/2007 16:59

I would say it does not really matter and just adjust the temp to what it was the day before. Then it will not effect your cover line. Highly unlikely you would of ovulated on CD9.

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hanaflower · 04/09/2007 17:02

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RahRah1 · 04/09/2007 18:30

Thanks hanaflower good to get some good feedback. I'm going to look into it and give it a go. Seems to be a lot of multi births going on!

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Ready · 06/09/2007 12:03

How is everyone?

goingfor3 · 06/09/2007 12:56

Hello Ladies, I was wondering if I could have some help as I'm not sure what my coverline is or if I have ov'd. My details are -
CD1 36.6 after that around 36.2 yesterday it went down to 36.09 and today it was 36.4 does this mean I have ovulated already or am about to as I got a opk+ today. I'm really getting confused with this temping!
Good luck to you all and fingers crossed for a healthy pregnancy ZamMummy!

LittleSquirt · 06/09/2007 13:10

Hi everyone, may I join you?

I am CD5 today, 3rd cycle of TTC after MC in June but then I am not sure whether I have ovulated since my ERPC on 2nd July. This is the reason why I have decided to start temping from this month, I am also using FertilyFriend to keep track of it and finding it really useful.
Also, this was my 1st PG after being on the pill for 13 years so not quite sure what my cycle should be like. Was quite happy to have AF 33 days after ERPC and then following cycle was 29 days so I am hoping my body is back to normal now. Fingers crossed.

Congrulations to ZamMummy, so exciting to see BFP's happening on this thread! Baby dust to us all!

NappyValley - ° CD2 LP9 (15th cycle)
LittleSquirt - 36.3° CD5 LP? (3rd cycle after ERPC)
Thinking ? ° CD6 LP12 (2nd cycle/No Longer in Limbo Land)
Ready - ° CD7 LP12 (13th cycle)
nh101 - ° CD9 (1st cycle)
Gracie - ° CD12 LP12 (12th cycle)
Rattling - ° CD13 LP10 (21st cycle)
Rah - ° CD19 LP12 (10th cycle)
Minxi ° CD26 12DPO LP13-14 (15th cycle)
ZamMummy - ° CD29 10DPO LP11? (6th cycle since MC, 2nd cycle TTC BFP
Duchesse - 36.5C CD30 (48th cycle)

LittleSquirt · 06/09/2007 13:20

Sorry, resending with (hopefully) correct CDs for everyone.

NappyValley - ° CD4 LP9 (15th cycle)
LittleSquirt - 36.3° CD5 LP? (3rd cycle after ERPC)
Thinking ? ° CD8 LP12 (2nd cycle/No Longer in Limbo Land)
Ready - ° CD9 LP12 (13th cycle)
nh101 - ° CD11 (1st cycle)
Gracie - ° CD13 LP12 (12th cycle)
Rattling - ° CD15 LP10 (21st cycle)
Rah - ° CD21 LP12 (10th cycle)
Minxi ° CD28 12DPO LP13-14 (15th cycle)
ZamMummy - ° CD31 10DPO LP11? (6th cycle since MC, 2nd cycle TTC BFP
Duchesse - C CD32 (48th cycle)

rattling · 06/09/2007 14:47

NappyValley - ° CD4 LP9 (15th cycle)
LittleSquirt - 36.3° CD5 LP? (3rd cycle after ERPC)
Thinking ? ° CD8 LP12 (2nd cycle/No Longer in Limbo Land)
Ready - ° CD9 LP12 (13th cycle)
nh101 - ° CD11 (1st cycle)
Gracie - ° CD13 LP12 (12th cycle)
Rattling - 36.3° CD15 LP10 (21st cycle)
Rah - ° CD21 LP12 (10th cycle)
Minxi ° CD28 12DPO LP13-14 (15th cycle)
ZamMummy - ° CD31 10DPO LP11? (6th cycle since MC, 2nd cycle TTC BFP
Duchesse - C CD32 (48th cycle)

Temps have eventually levelled out to a sensible level. And we've got an appointment for the fertility unit at long last - just over a month away - got time for 2 more attempts before we hand ourselves over to science

And all signs suggest Operation Shag falls on a weekend this time. All is good.

Hello to LittleSquirt. What is ERPC?

LittleSquirt · 06/09/2007 15:13

Hi Rattling. ERPC is Evacuation of Retained Products of Conception - sometimes also known as D&C.

rattling · 06/09/2007 16:08

LittleSquirt - Sorry, just re-read your post and realised it was clearly related to your MC. Was thinking it was some form of contraception I'd never heard of.

Hope we lose you from this thread very quickly

Gracie14 · 06/09/2007 19:19

NappyValley - ° CD4 LP9 (15th cycle)
LittleSquirt - 36.3° CD5 LP? (3rd cycle after ERPC)
Thinking ? ° CD8 LP12 (2nd cycle/No Longer in Limbo Land)
Ready - ° CD9 LP12 (13th cycle)
nh101 - ° CD11 (1st cycle)
Gracie - 36.26° CD14 LP12 (12th cycle)
Rattling - 36.3° CD15 LP10 (21st cycle)
Rah - ° CD21 LP12 (10th cycle)
Minxi ° CD28 12DPO LP13-14 (15th cycle)
ZamMummy - ° CD31 10DPO LP11? (6th cycle since MC, 2nd cycle TTC BFP
Duchesse - C CD32 (48th cycle)

Hi all, hope you all okay

Well I'm struggling abit today just found out a very close friend of mine is pregnant (she doesn't know I have been trying) she only came off the pill a month ago - I'm so happy for her but feel like I could burst into tears any moment and very .

I was doing really well this month as well thinking positively and now I'm completely thrown. I suppose I'm going to have to come to terms with the fact that something could be wrong with me and will have to go to the doctors and get myself sorted soon - what if there is something wrong I feel sick even thinking that could be possible. Obviously sticking my head in the sand isn't going to help either. I don't know whether to wait until the new year and carry on hoping that it happens before then or not.

Sorry to bring the thread down I just san't talk to anyone about this in RL.

Gracie14 · 07/09/2007 09:21

NappyValley - ° CD5 LP9 (15th cycle)
LittleSquirt - ° CD6 LP? (3rd cycle after ERPC)
Thinking ? ° CD9 LP12 (2nd cycle/No Longer in Limbo Land)
Ready - ° CD10 LP12 (13th cycle)
nh101 - ° CD12 (1st cycle)
Gracie - 36.27° CD15 LP12 (12th cycle)
Rattling - ° CD16 LP10 (21st cycle)
Rah - ° CD22 LP12 (10th cycle)
Minxi ° CD29 13DPO LP13-14 (15th cycle)
ZamMummy - ° CD32 11DPO LP11? (6th cycle since MC, 2nd cycle TTC BFP
Duchesse - C CD33 (48th cycle)

Morning all, sorry about blip yesterday. Had a good talk with my DP yesterday and have decided that will carry on temping until the end of the month and then have a break until the new year and see what happens then. I still haven't ovulated yet but will be difficult now as DP is working all weekend.

Anyway enough about me, how are the rest of you?

Minxi and Duchesse - Any news?

Rattling - Hows the bding going? Hope your getting lots in

Littlesquirt - welcome to the thread, hope your stay is short

Hi to everybody else

nh101 · 07/09/2007 14:50

Gracie, are you able to pinpoint ovulation? if not, then don't get down about ttc. Maybe you are not OVing at all - if so then it is no surprise you are not PG! If you are not OVing don't worry - there are drugs to help you do that. Get off to the doc's and get yourself in the system. I only had to see a private consultant once and then pay £18 for my drugs to go on Clomid. Don't know how much the doc cost but can't have been more than £150. Well worth it to get OV drugs.

Hello goingfor3 and littlesquirt - I had MC in March. Good luck! Goingfor3 if you got OPK+ then you are about to OV. With temping, you need three consecutive daily high temps to be sure you have OV'd as one high temp might not be accurate. Try fertilityfriend.com to help with charting.

NappyValley · 07/09/2007 15:36

NappyValley - 36.48° CD5 LP9 (15th cycle)
LittleSquirt - ° CD6 LP? (3rd cycle after ERPC)
Thinking ? ° CD9 LP12 (2nd cycle/No Longer in Limbo Land)
Ready - ° CD10 LP12 (13th cycle)
nh101 - ° CD12 (1st cycle)
Gracie - 36.27° CD15 LP12 (12th cycle)
Rattling - ° CD16 LP10 (21st cycle)
Rah - ° CD22 LP12 (10th cycle)
Minxi ° CD29 13DPO LP13-14 (15th cycle)
ZamMummy - ° CD32 11DPO LP11? (6th cycle since MC, 2nd cycle TTC BFP
Duchesse - C CD33 (48th cycle)

Ooh I disappear off to Lytham for a few days and all hell breaks lose!!

ZAMMUMMY I am soooooooooo pleased for you. I hope everything goes well for you.

Gracie sorry you felt low. Don't give up hope but some of the girls have found that stopping temping for a while has really helped their morale. It is really hard when it seems all around can get pregnant.

Thinking - good goal setting. Fingers crossed on those. And that there is no more limbolond for you.

Welcome LittleSquid. Good idea to temp and get a better understanding of your cycle.

As for me well we are off to the consultant on tuesday. but since we know now there IS a problem we are very relaxed about it. I to say having done some research I have to say that I think i AM ovulating but that I do not have enough progesterone to sustain a pregnancy. But we shall see.

Maybe I should join rah on the wacky weed and acupuncuture it is always worth a shot.

TTFN

minxi · 07/09/2007 16:58

Minxi 36.3° CD2 LP14 (15th cycle)
NappyValley - 36.48° CD5 LP9 (15th cycle)
LittleSquirt - ° CD6 LP? (3rd cycle after ERPC)
Thinking ? ° CD9 LP12 (2nd cycle/No Longer in Limbo Land)
Ready - ° CD10 LP12 (13th cycle)
nh101 - ° CD12 (1st cycle)
Gracie - 36.27° CD15 LP12 (12th cycle)
Rattling - ° CD16 LP10 (21st cycle)
Rah - ° CD22 LP12 (10th cycle)
Minxi ° CD29 13DPO LP13-14 (15th cycle)
ZamMummy - ° CD32 11DPO LP11? (6th cycle since MC, 2nd cycle TTC BFP
Duchesse - C CD33 (48th cycle)

Back to the beginning for me...5 cycles of clomid - perfect beyond belief cycle last month - with timed dates and extra bd'ing and 28 days bang on!!!! HSG is now booked in for Tuesday (Ready - what really happens and does it hurt, have two lots of antibiotics for infection?!)

No clomid this month as not supposed to actively ttc but if the procedure is on day 6 then surely there is another week to go before day 14 - unless i guess there is anything wrong...have no idea?! slightly stressed but am ok
Hope everyone else is alright...

Ready · 08/09/2007 12:37

Forgot to temp this morning. Slap wrist.

Welcome (delayed) to the thread LittleSquirt

Gracie - Sorry you are feeling down. It's awful when a close friend is pregnant, especially without seemingly trying. Kinda sticks in your throat. Look for the silver lining, at least they don't know you are trying. My BF caught really quickly, and she knows I am ttc. Our friendship is not what it was
I think having a break from it all sounds like a good idea. And you know what, you will probably fall when you are not thinking about it. It's such a cliche, but it does happen. Take care of yourself

Minxi - Sorry flower, I meant to tell you all about the HSG last post, but forgot. I am rubbish aren't I? How are you? Sorry that your clomid cycles are up. Good luck on Tuesday... here goes.

It's like having a smear in a way. You are on the table, legs bent at the knee, laying there in your hospital gown, feeling very vulnerable.
The radiographer and doctor will be there, and talk you through what will happen.
The speculum goes in (a la smear test) and then a little bit of antiseptic (!). Then they insert a fine tube (canula), that has a balloon attached. Don't panic about the balloon. It's inflated to keep the tube in place. It didn't hurt, it just felt uncomfortable for a minute - much like a smear. Once the canula is in place, they pass the dye through into your uterus. I was told this would hurt - but I didn't feel anything more than butterflies. I have read about people in lots of pain, so I was scared that it would really hurt. But luckily for me it didn't.
I was told to put my legs down. A little strange with the speculum still in place . Then they take the x-rays. I got to look at the screen and see the dye in my body. Which was weird, but kinda cool. I could clearly see my uterus and tubes You have a couple of films taken, I was asked to lift my left side and then my right (not sure why?)
Then they take out the tube and the speculum. I found this the worst bit if I am honest, like pulling out a plug . Don't be alarmed if you bleed. I looked down and saw a bit of blood and the radiographer saw the panic in my face. It's very common.
They gave me a pad, and told me to go the the toilet. There was a little more blood. Then I had to get dressed, sit out in the waiting room, have a cup of tea, and after about 20 minutes they take one last x-ray to see how far the dye has "spilled". In my case, my tubes were clear, uterus was perfect, and the dye spilled very well [smug] - you will get the official results from your consultant. But the radiographer was able to tell me that I had "filled and spilled" - which is essentially what they are looking to happen.

Sorry about that long ol' diatribe.

How is everyone????

minxi · 10/09/2007 09:26

Oh thank you Ready doesn't sound so bad but but not pleasant either...what happens with you now...is it just a waiting game? Also where you allowed to resume sex after - I will be cd6 tomorrow and so don't want to waste a cycle if all ok....hoping to start cd10?

Thanks for the advice - must go as house a tip (visitors all weekend!!)

Hi to everyone else...will let you know how it goes tomorrow

RahRah1 · 10/09/2007 10:38

minxi - best of luck for Tuesday. I had a lap and dye and then caught that month with Bertie. I think I read on another thread that it increases the chances of conceiving for the first 3 months after the procedure. It must be the clear tubes and easier for the little men to get up!

Hello to everyone else. Nothing to report this end. Had a busy weekend looking at kitchens for our new house. I don't like the kitchen that the builders have put in, but we have looked at the option of ripping it out and its rather costly. so instead we are going for some upgrades on the kitchen, so hopefully we will like it more. We are going to have a lovely glass cooker instead of stainless steel and have the worktops changed and some more units put in to define the kitchen from the dining area.
Sorry for my kitchen waffle... but its all exciting stuff. I saw th most fab kitchen with white gloss cupboards and this mineral work surface that is like glass. I am in love with a kitchen! (Will it give me babies though [humm] ).
I also went to the tile place and looked at tiles, a 30th birthday and then did a car bootie over the weekend to get rid of our attic junk. (Not a big fan of car boot sales, but a good way of getting rid of junk)

Anyway better go, before I put you all to sleep... Hope all is well for everyone.

Anyone seen Duchesse????

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nh101 · 10/09/2007 10:44

Minxi 36.3° CD5 LP14 (15th cycle)
NappyValley - 36.48° CD8 LP9 (15th cycle)
LittleSquirt - ° CD9 LP? (3rd cycle after ERPC)
Thinking ? ° CD12 LP12 (2nd cycle/No Longer in Limbo Land)
Ready - ° CD13 LP12 (13th cycle)
nh101 - ° CD15 (1st cycle)
Gracie - 36.27° CD18 LP12 (12th cycle)
Rattling - ° CD19 LP10 (21st cycle)
Rah - ° CD25 LP12 (10th cycle)
ZamMummy - ° CD35 11DPO LP11? (6th cycle since MC, 2nd cycle TTC BFP
Duchesse - C CD36 (48th cycle)

Hope I've updated everyone OK.

I am very excited cos after a mc in March and a 12-week cycle last time I had a raise in temp this morning so hppefully I have OV'd. Day 14 and everything! I feel like a normal person or something. Been on CLomid this month so fingers crossed.

Gracie14 · 10/09/2007 13:18

Minxi 36.3° CD5 LP14 (15th cycle)
NappyValley - 36.48° CD8 LP9 (15th cycle)
LittleSquirt - ° CD9 LP? (3rd cycle after ERPC)
Thinking ? ° CD12 LP12 (2nd cycle/No Longer in Limbo Land)
Ready - ° CD13 LP12 (13th cycle)
nh101 - ° CD15 (1st cycle)
Gracie - 36.66° CD18 LP12 (12th cycle)
Rattling - ° CD19 LP10 (21st cycle)
Rah - ° CD25 LP12 (10th cycle)
ZamMummy - ° CD35 11DPO LP11? (6th cycle since MC, 2nd cycle TTC BFP
Duchesse - C CD36 (48th cycle)

Hi all, well I'm back abit happier have had a relaxing weekend and have been trying to get things into perspective which for me is a surprise. I think I have already said that this will be my last month temping and I proberly won't post after this month either and then will see what happens naturally until the beginning of next year. After that I don't know but I need to take one month at a time really. So I want some BFP's from you all before I go

nh101 - so pleased for you I hope that your cycles are getting back on track for you. I think that I ovulated yesterday as well as I had a temp rise this morning but will wait to see what fertility friend says so we will be cycle buddies by the looks of it

Ready - Thanks for your kind message - I need to realise that stress is doing me no favours in baby making or work/home life and I'm not going to change anything by allowing this to happen. I have been looking into reflexology and may give it a try over the next couple of cycles and see how I feel after that. How are you doing?

Hope everybody else is okay

One quick question I know it is normal to vary on ovulation days but I have ovulated over the last three cycles CD23, CD12 and now possibly CD17 , my luetal phase tends to be about 12 days. Any advice will be appreciated. Thanks

rattling · 10/09/2007 14:32

Minxi 36.3° CD5 LP14 (15th cycle)
NappyValley - 36.48° CD8 LP9 (15th cycle)
LittleSquirt - ° CD9 LP? (3rd cycle after ERPC)
Thinking ? ° CD12 LP12 (2nd cycle/No Longer in Limbo Land)
Ready - ° CD13 LP12 (13th cycle)
nh101 - ° CD15 (1st cycle)
Gracie - 36.66° CD18 LP12 (12th cycle)
Rattling - 36.7° CD19 3DPO LP10 (21st cycle)
Rah - ° CD25 LP12 (10th cycle)
ZamMummy - ° CD35 11DPO LP11? (6th cycle since MC, 2nd cycle TTC BFP
Duchesse - C CD36 (48th cycle)

Was caught off guard with a slightly early ovulation - so most of our activity over the weekend was entirely entertainment rather than procreational

Having tried not temping (didn't like that at all) I am going with a new method this cycle. I'm going to take my temps - but not look at them, hand them over to DH to note down so that I'll have my charts eventually, but not worry about tiny degree fluctuations. So I'll be merely lurking for the next couple of weeks.

Sounds like everyone is reasonably upbeat at the moment. Long may that continue

Ready · 10/09/2007 23:06

Minxi 36.3° CD5 LP14 (15th cycle)
NappyValley - 36.48° CD8 LP9 (15th cycle)
LittleSquirt - ° CD9 LP? (3rd cycle after ERPC)
Thinking ? ° CD12 LP12 (2nd cycle/No Longer in Limbo Land)
Ready - 35.93° CD13 LP12 (13th cycle)
nh101 - ° CD15 (1st cycle)
Gracie - 36.66° CD18 LP12 (12th cycle)
Rattling - 36.7° CD19 3DPO LP10 (21st cycle)
Rah - ° CD25 LP12 (10th cycle)
ZamMummy - ° CD35 11DPO LP11? (6th cycle since MC, 2nd cycle TTC BFP
Duchesse - C CD36 (48th cycle)

Sorry to hear that your ovulation caught you by surprise Rattling - but there's nothing wrong with a little recreation as opposed to procreation from time to time How are you?

Rah - OOoooooh KITCHENS!! Hope you find something you like Well done on the car boot - you are braver than me getting up early on a sunday morning
It's funny you mention Duchesse - I was thinking about her this morning... I wonder if her ears are burning

Gracie - I don't think there is anything to worry about if ovulation differs. As far as I can recall, the LP is the important part really. Lots of things can affect when the eggs come out, stress etc. And who here isn't at least a teeny bit stressed??
I think reflexology sounds like it will be good as a relaxation tool at the very least. Hope you get on well with it

nh101 - Fingers crossed with you that you have ovulated. It's been a long time coming for you hasn't it!! Hopefully this is the sign of good things to come!

Minxi - If you are checking this before your appointment, good luck today!! If you've been, then I hope that it went well
It's a good question you ask. I wondered myself. I even started a thread, but unfortunately didn't get many responses. Lissie said that she caught but miscarried in the month following, and she thinks the mc could have been due to the dye. So she suggested giving it a break.
I was quite tender for a few days afterwards, and ovulated the day after the procedure, so we kind of had a forced break - but my cycle was a bit odd, and I did wonder if we had caught . I am not doing a good job of answering your question am I. I am not sure really. Might be worth asking the Dr when you are there? Something I should have done!

nappyValley - I think I missed a thread of yours saying that you had a problem? Either that or I have forgotten - good luck with the consultant. Do let us know how you get on. Lytham you say? As in St. Annes? Well you probably drove past me on the way then

How is everyone else??

RahRah1 · 11/09/2007 09:14

GOOD LUCK MINXI FOR TODAY!!!

I'm in a sulk, my temp has dipped and have cramping, so AF is due

Gracie, my ovulation always differs so it does happen. LP is normally quite static unless my body wants to give me false hope

Nappyvalley, when is your appointment? Good luck!

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minxi · 11/09/2007 10:11

Thanks Ready and Rah...not going until this afternoon - not looking forward to it (also on my own so bit nervous) but hey better to know than not if anything is wrong...guess I will probably see how I am as cd6 still potentially a week to go before I ovulate so dh on standby for action...?!

Sorry to hear af may be on its way Rah !

Gracie I agree with Ready LP is the important bit - usually stays about the same length after ov...

Nappy Hope all well with you

everyone else hi - will let you know how I get on later....