Hoping for a new year miracle!

[Jonesbabynumber1]

We’ve had some beautiful success stories so hoping they continue.

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@BabyB19 honestly every mum I've met tells you how their births went and I'm deffo not excluded in that love talking about it 🤣 wish people didn't use bad experiences in such a negative way though doesn't help ftm

I'm happy to use the graduate bfp post to chat I'm conscious not to upset anyone chatting about pregnancy

@october18 congratulations I'm 14 weeks on Wednesday so we are both due around the same time ! 😁

I completely agree @MrsCl19 that's why I set it up but then everyone here seemed to get their bfps here but I think I will move back over to the other one, I'll make sure you're tagged in it x I love hearing the stories from other women of their births I feel more in control x

Yes please both @Tbug and @BabyB19 ow gosh yes don’t add me to that yet I’m happy to be ignorant to that at moment.

Morning! How is everyone?

@dizzy85 how are you ? Are you still bleeding?

@MrsCl19 morning starting to feel more relaxed now I’m over AF which was due yesterday. Working from home is helping as feeling like I don’t have to put a front on in work so that’s a silver lining. I have lost my appetite and feeling nauseous but managing to eat some Food, still waking up early but just retrying to remain relaxed. I’m suddenly very conscious of what I’m eating any one else felt like that? How are you today?

@Jonesbabynumber1 if you are nauseous my advice is eat little and often and whatever you fancy.. I lived off chips the first few weeks 🤣

I'm feeling good! Last day of my first trimester today which I'm glad about! Can feel baby wiggling now to which is nice.

@MrsCl19 good advice, at moment the thought of fatty foods makes me feel even more nauseous. My husband cooked bacon the other day i had to open every window in the house before I boffed 🤢

Wow that’s amazing!

I second @MrsCl19 I loved on beige foods the first trimester, basically bagel for breakfast sad which for lunch and something on toast for tea. I just didn't want anything. If I didn't eat as soon as I opened my eyes I felt sick all day so had a packet of ginger biscuits down the side of the bed and as soon as the alarm went off I just had like two biscuits and it was enough until I had my breakfast. I'm finishing the same now with the heartburn if I start to get hungry it kicks off terribly x

How is everyone today ladies? X

Hey good morning sorry I've been quiet just had to give my brain a rest from everything. I'm doing ok, the bleeding is just spotting now. I've not tested for a few days so don't know how the tests are going but I'm gonna get some more today coz if still positive on Sunday then I'll have to have that scan. I'm still waking up feeling sick everyday so I'm thinking my bodies just being very slow at making my levels come down.
How are you doing? X

Morning @dizzy85 you're doing well not to test! I think the sickness is still a good sign you know because you've got to have quite high levels to make you feel sick! I really have everything crossed that you're wrong and the bleeding is just like what I had. I think I feel positive because I know how convinced I was that I was MC until 10 weeks and I was wrong. 🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼 x

Morning! Thinking of you @dizzy85 ❤️ I feel groggy today :( no appetite and so tired xx

@BabyB19 aw I like your optimism but I think with all the bleeding/clots I had there is no chance. Be a miracle if there was I'd say at this point. I think I just have that type of body as when I had my mmc I still felt pregnant when I had my scan and they said the baby's heart had stopped a few weeks before yet I was still having symptoms.
I've ran out of tests otherwise I'd be testing everyday until Sunday, am gonna get some more today and expect tomorrow's one will be lighter by now. It is nice to think otherwise but I'm fully accepted of the fact that it's happened. It is strange why I still keep feeling sick after all the bleeding but I don't think it's unheard of after a mc, have been googling lots of people's stories as you do xx
@Tbug Thankyou ❤️ hope you feel less groggy soon xx

I think it's good you have prepared yourself for that news but I don't think it's 100% until you get that negative test so I will keep everything crossed for you and send positive vibes. How many is this for you will you be referred now? @dizzy85 hope you're ok @Tbug I always used to feel hungover for the first few months so I get what you mean by groggy x

Hi All,

Not going well for me.

Started spotting and think it is going to be another MC!

I have an appintment with the fertility dpt tomorrow, so at least I can discuss everything there

xx

Oh @ceebee21 not you too after such a promising week of bfps! I reiterate what I've said to @dizzy85 that I thought the same too after spotting until 10 weeks so it's not over til it's over 🤞🏼❤️ xxx

Hi all, @BabyB19 all ok with me at moment still testing cause I can’t help myself I did a clear blue digital which came back as 1-2 weeks so that was reassuring I did it In the afternoon so glad it picked it up.

@dizzy85 and @ceebee21 that must be so difficult having spotting as it’s such an anxious time, but @babyb19 so right I remember when she was spotting so I can understand your worries and why your thinking the way you are because your trying to protect yourself. All you can do is self care. I’m glad your both getting the help to move forward. I watched a programme I think was called life and birth and so many people had multiple miscarriages but in the end they came out with a baby. Don’t stay silent keep us updated and I pray that this is your body reacting to the pregnancy.

Hi ladies sorry didn't see the messages @ceebee21 @dizzy85 sending lots of support for you both 💕 and a hand hold if you need it!

@Jonesbabynumber1 nice you got a pos digi makes it more real I believe! 😊

Thanks girls, it is rubbish!!

I still have a bit today, but not a lot really only tinge when I wipe.

Very frustrating, can't help but think the worst!

x

I literally bled more with this pregnancy than I did with the MC so i really don't think it's a strong indicator. It's just frightening because blood is usually a negative thing! It's a good sign it's stopping though @ceebee21 keep us posted! Xx

Wonder if anyone can help me :(

I've been getting faint BFP on IC since 8th April and my period is now 10 days late, have checked with a clear blue and FRER yesterday all negative :( don't know what's going on, this is my faint BFP from a few days ago. Got a positive OPK on 10th April and 26th April, and I'm so so confused. My OPK today was completely negative.

Hi @mrsgtobe97 I would say that the frer is the most sensitive and I would trust that and the clear blue over a IC. Did you use your first morning wee. I personally couldn’t ever make sense of OPKs.

@ceebee21 glad your spotting has lightened, let us know how you appointment goes x

@mrsgtobe97 it's confusing because normally ICs aren't as sensitive, I think I would be calling gp to ask for advice on this one I'm afraid as you may need bloods doing. Have you got any symptoms? X