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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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2020 Bumps (hopefully ;) )

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Skygirl1983 · 16/12/2019 16:00

Thread number 4!!

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MrsC89 · 06/01/2020 19:27

@Ellsbells112 Haha! Thank you. To be honest I dont think I am, I would be pretty shocked, just had a chat with DH, he is getting more excited that I might be, he was like you had a positive test and af hasnt arrived.

itsbeenalongtime · 06/01/2020 19:48

Thanks @MrsC89 typically happens on first day back to work, my husbands birthday etc. Nothing more since this morning... test line still faint and feeling quite crampy. Just wish it would come on and be over with.

Ellsbells112 · 07/01/2020 15:59

@MrsC89 Aww well I wish you the best of luck! Keep me updated :)

Today I'm 7dpo and I had a temp dip by .3 and been cramping today albeit lightly. Trying not to get my hopes up 😩 hard not to, but since this is the first cycle I'm temping I don't know what's normal for me!

MrsC89 · 07/01/2020 18:17

Went to the GP this afternoon, she did a test while I was there, bfn again. She has told me to test in a week and if still no BFP or no AF then I will need a scan. She also told me to leave a test longer than the time limit and see if you can see anything on it then. Apparently she did that when she was pregnant!

Lucy5546 · 07/01/2020 19:12

@MrsC89 sorry to hear your still in limbo. Hopefully this week flies in for you!!

nt1992 · 09/01/2020 19:08

@MrsC89 how you doing any updates?x

MrsC89 · 09/01/2020 20:47

@nt1992 no updates here unfortunately, what feels like cycle day one million and still no BFP or af! How are you doing?

nt1992 · 09/01/2020 20:52

@MrsC89 ah it's such rubbish been stuck in limbo 😥 I done it last cycle up until CD 36 and that was long enough. I'm 3 DPO so 2 WW for me

sh84 · 11/01/2020 09:22

Where is everybody 😫. Where is everyone cycle wise now, lost track over Christmas & have people left because of that horrible poster ☹️

Blondeandbroody · 11/01/2020 09:50

@sh84 a few of us made a WhatsApp group after the drama with that poster. I'm still checking here too though but I think a few aren't after the drama.

I got AF finally and now I'm on cycle day 9!

How are you doing lovely? X

sh84 · 11/01/2020 10:08

@Blondeandbroody I’m all good, dec af turned up bang on time, I’m now 3dpo only managed to DTD twice on predicted ov day so not got much hope, didn’t do OPKs this month just went by my app, trying to be more relaxed.id feel a bit more confident if we managed to DTD before ov day too but I’m trying to look at it like there’s only so much I can do & some things are just out of my control. So you must be waiting for fertile window atm. Such a shame the others aren’t posting here anymore.

Blondeandbroody · 11/01/2020 10:17

@sh84 it only takes one little swimmer lovely so you never know!

Yeah I've started temping and OPKs as it's my first cycle post pill AF to make sure everything's Happening as and when it should XX

nt1992 · 11/01/2020 11:00

@sh84 I'm still here checking in now and then. I'm mainly in the WhatsApp group now after the drama. You're more than welcome to join us if you'd like? Message me your mobile number if you want added in. Hope you're well ❤️

KimMumsnet · 11/01/2020 16:23

Good afternoon, all. We just wanted to pop in with a reminder that we really don't want to see any personal attacks on here - TTC can bring up some strong emotions, we know, but we really would love to see people trying to stay supportive. That's what we're all here for.
Thanks.

PrettyGirl5545 · 28/01/2020 10:35

@nt1992 @mellymoo86 how are you all? Anyone with BFP? Miss ya alll...

Sjk89 · 28/01/2020 13:18

Hi, posted in here in Dec with all my symptoms, unfortunately that resulted in another MC (very early this time - no2) but at least I called it right again, but haven't been keeping track of this thread since. Not sure what has happened...I keep seeing reference to 'the drama'!!?

This month is turning into one of 'those' again but this time I'm 9 days late (usually 30 at the longest but clockwork on this but now CD 39), headaches, so so tired and exhausted, bizarre cramping, metallic taste has appeared the last 2 days and started feeling very sick on Saturday, didn't manage to keep anything down yesterday but doing ok today and boobs of course, but with all of this...BFN?!

This waiting period is so confusing. Has this happened to anyone else that's ended in a BFP?

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MamaSquirrel90 · 28/01/2020 13:25

Hi all, I hope it’s ok to jump on here I’m new to this. My bbt chart has been fairly consistent since ovulation on 21st, today however I have gone from 36.78 to 36.35 which is quite a drop in my opinion as it doesn’t go below 36.70 and this time it’s actually dropped below the coverline but I don’t know what is considered normal or if I’m just clutching at straws?! Could this be implantation? I’m 7dpo today. Any thoughts or advice would be really appreciated! Thank you :)

Blondeandbroody · 28/01/2020 21:24

@MamaSquirrel90 you can get a dip at implantation, see how your temp goes between now and when AF is due... fingers crossed lovely x

Blondeandbroody · 28/01/2020 21:29

@Sjk89 a poster came in and was being rude to one of the girls making her want to leave this group for fear of judgment of what she posts and then another came in being rude to those sticking up for her.... so some of us decided to make a WhatsApp group so we were free to talk without judgment.

@PrettyGirl5545 hey lovely we're all good,

@nt1992 told me to tell you she is good, no BFP for her just yet!! She wishes you all the best ❤️
Mellymoo left the chat group we were in as she wanted to take a step back from certain aspects of TTC but she is well also xx

MamaSquirrel90 · 28/01/2020 22:21

@Blondeandbroody thank you for your reply - I’ll keep an eye but I’m going to be poas first thing lol I’ve heard people getting bfp’s the day after implantation - that and I’m a poas addict! 🤦🏻‍♀️

Blondeandbroody · 28/01/2020 22:41

@MamaSquirrel90 just don't be disheartened if it's a BFN it will most likely be too soon I'm sure people say wait 48 hours at least after implantation x but I'm the same haha so pee away 😂

MamaSquirrel90 · 29/01/2020 06:18

Yup...BFN! I kinda knew it would be but I just couldn’t resist lol I’m going to try and be good and wait to test Friday morning 🙄 thank you for your comments and lots of baby dust to you all! X

Lucy5546 · 29/01/2020 07:33

@MamaSquirrel90 sorry to hear it was BFN. Fingers crossed you just tested a little too early

bee1311 · 14/06/2020 18:34

@Skygirl1983 @mellymoo86 @nt1992 @Blondeandbroody @CiaraJ01 @MrsC89 @PrettyGirl5545 @FutureMrsSmith ladies... are you still around?! It's me, Lou!

FutureMrsSmith · 14/06/2020 18:47

Hi @bee1311 !
@Blondeandbroody has just showed us your message. Some of us are still on the WhatsApp group. Hope you're well. X

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