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14dpo

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gg321 · 09/12/2019 19:51

I’m starting a new thread as got ignored on the one I joined! Anyone else feeling pregnant but bfn 14dpo? AF due tomorrow. Have had faint lines and I mean faint!!! But only after the given time but that is how my other pregnancy started. I hate the not knowing

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Waiting1987 · 09/12/2019 20:03

Fingers crossed! Do you have pics of the tests? Are you sure of when you ovulated?

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gg321 · 09/12/2019 20:15

Hi thanks for replying, was feeling a bit lonely! I did the 10mlU test yesterday and day before and I can see something and I know outside of the specified time but the top one (yesterday’s) looks ever so slightly darker 🤔 unfortunately today the test I did wasn’t as sensitive so nothing on that one, I have so many symptoms, really sore boobs, tired, mood swings, nauseous, been pregnant before so know what it feels like. No idea really when I ovulated, normally on a 28 day cycle, the only time my hubby and I dtd (only once as we aren’t actually trying!) was on day 8 so that’s mega early/too early?!? I’m just guessing my ovulation date to be a few days after we dtd but who knows

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gg321 · 09/12/2019 20:16

Forgot to add pics!

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newmum2020 · 09/12/2019 20:21

Definitely can see lines!! 🤞🤞for you!!

I'm convincing myself right now that I have symptoms but I've no clue if I've even ovulated yet as I had a miscarriage 3 weeks ago. Decided not to wait for first AF before trying so we've DTD a few times. I've also randomly been doing ovulation tests and the first 2 had really faint lines but tonight it was much darker. So maybe I'm just about to ovulate.....who knows but I'm driving myself mad!!!!

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gg321 · 09/12/2019 20:21

Actually it was day 9 of my cycle we dtd, but still too early to conceive 🤔

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gg321 · 09/12/2019 20:30

Aww sorry about your miscarriage but well done for getting straight back to it, why wait! Sometimes I think we convince ourselves we are having symptoms. I’m actually worried if I’m not pregnant what the hell is wrong me as feeling so rough 😕 The not knowing is torturous. I’m going to do another test in the morning, the same not so sensitive one as I did this morning, I’ve got three left of those so if I get through those doing one a day and still nothing I’ll enjoy some Christmas drinking!

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Wise0wl · 09/12/2019 20:46

🙋‍♀️ @gg321 I’m 15 dpo, definitely feel pregnant and BFN on a CB digital. Going to wait a couple of days and get a FRER I think!

Totally agree on thinking I must be so unwell if I’m not pregnant 🤢

FX if you wait a couple of days and take another test?

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gg321 · 09/12/2019 21:02

We must be pregnant feeling this bad then!? Haha if AF arrives and I still feel like I do I’m off to the doctors as I’m not right.
I can’t wait a couple days, I’m a testing addict! Using all my will power not to test again tonight! @Wise0wl are you late?

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Wise0wl · 09/12/2019 21:27

Definitely @gg321 I was thinking this earlier when I was nearly sick on the train 🤢

I went to the pharmacy over the road just before it closed tonight and they had no FRERs and thought it was fate so that meant I should wait another couple of days (tomorrow will be a bad day at work so not going to test tomorrow) but if I could tonight I would!

The timing of this is so tricky as I’m supposed to be having a glass of wine with the girls tomorrow night and at a Christmas do on Saturday. To drink or not?!

Yep I’m late, have had 28 day cycles since I came off the pill in April and now on CD31... what about you?

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gg321 · 09/12/2019 21:45

Ha that’s the same I went to the pharmacy to get a FRER today and they didn’t have any so instead of waiting brought a cheapy which was a bfn. Yeah I’m in the drink/don’t drink situation 🤔 I have 28-30 day cycles, will be day 28 tomorrow so not late yet but have usually had AF cramps by now and haven’t yet. If you are never late and you are feeling pregnant then maybe take it easy on the drinking but one or two shouldn’t hurt?

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gg321 · 09/12/2019 21:53

I’m guessing that by Saturday (the night out!) you will have either had a bfp by then or AF so you’ll know about drinking or not!

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WatchOutLurkerAbout · 09/12/2019 22:01

I'm 17 dpo. Never been this late with the exceptions of pregnancies. I've got one son and had 7 miscarriages.

I'm totally totally lost. Did two clear blues this weekend as no frers and both negative. So I went out and got drunk - planned Christmas night out lol.

How you ladies holding up?

DiaryOfaTTCer · 09/12/2019 22:32

I’m 19 DPO and terrified to test. I started temping for the first time this month and all of my temps since ovulation have been high. Because it’s the first time for me temping I’m not sure if that’s normal for me for them to stay up so high in the luteal phase!

My cycles have also been irregular the last few months (20 days, 25, 26, 15!! 22) and now on day 31. Prior to starting to ttc (on cycle #3 now) I had on average 28 cycles. Had a blood test for PCOS but came back clear. I don’t have any symptoms apart from backache & slightly tender boobs.

I’ve decided I’m going to test in the morning but don’t think I’ll sleep a wink! I’m so nervous because all I can visualise is a BFN. I’ve never been pregnant before so can’t imagine it!

Wise0wl · 09/12/2019 23:20

Haha @gg321 that’s mad we had the same situation! Yep, agree one or two will maybe be fine, and time will tell about Saturday too.

Hello @WatchOutLurkerAbout ! FX for you, especially after your miscarriages. And I’m so glad you went out and got drunk! Are you planning on getting hold of a FRER?

Hello @diaryofattcer 🤞🤞🤞 for the morning for you and I hope you do get some sleep tonight!

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gg321 · 09/12/2019 23:23

Good luck for any morning testers! But don’t despair @DiaryOfaTTCer of it doesn’t happen for you, it takes time or can for a lot anyway. I’ll let you know how my cheap treat goes in the morning 😬

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Blondeandbroody · 09/12/2019 23:27

Just popping on to remind you that you're not out until AF shows 😘

Fingers crossed for you all.

Brookepardoe1 · 10/12/2019 06:46

I wonder if i can have advice, trying to conceive baby No3 and it doesn't seem to be happening. :(
Tested at 10dpo on a cheapie and thought i saw a line and again this morn at 12dpo with a clearblue and absolutely nothing feeling realky disheartened could it have been an evap line. (Pic below)
AF due in 2 days.??

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Blondeandbroody · 10/12/2019 06:59

@Brookepardoe1 I read somewhere that the clearblue aren't sensitive. Have you tried a FRER? I see a line and it has colour, so it's looking good but it's still extremely early x

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gg321 · 10/12/2019 07:09

Clear blue aren’t sensitive like @Blondeandbroody says, just wait but that line looks promising! Well I did another test this morning and it didn’t work, not even a control line, so that’s fmu gone for today, I’m so tempted to hold off from doing for a wee for the next 6 hours or so and buy a FRER, what do you think, so hard to wait til the morning!

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Brookepardoe1 · 10/12/2019 07:18

@Blondeandbroody i havent tried anuthing else aoart feom cheapeis reli. With my last two pregnancies i think I tested posirive earlier so i wanst sure if that was me out and me just imagining it. Thougjt i would hsve had a bfp by now.

Wise0wl · 10/12/2019 07:25

@Brookepardoe1I’m sorry, @Blondeandbroody is right though. I think all of us on here need to get a FRER!

@gg321 if you can hold your wee for 6 hours you’re a stronger woman than I am!

I’m not feeling so confident. Still feel sick and not right, but this is my 4th day of brown spotting (only when I wipe, sorry if TMI!) 😕 going to wait until at least tomorrow to test again, fingers crossed if you test again earlier all!

Blondeandbroody · 10/12/2019 07:32

@Brookepardoe1
I'd try again with a different test, every pregnancy will be different, you're not out until AF shows.

@Wise0wl I've had some brown spotting last 2 days but really minor 🤔 trying not to think into it too much! Key word is trying!

I have my FRERs ready and waiting haha I went a bit nuts and bought 4 different brands of tests so I have good stock!

I get up and wee quickly in the morning so that I resist the urge to test as it gets closer to my AF due date.

Brookepardoe1 · 10/12/2019 07:35

What's a FRER trst? Lol

Blondeandbroody · 10/12/2019 07:36

It's a first response early response test. It's the most sensitive one you can get I think? @Brookepardoe1

Brookepardoe1 · 10/12/2019 07:39

Ah yeah silly me..
I may hold out a couple of days I'm not hopeful though.