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Anyone testing just before Christmas?

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iswhois · 28/11/2019 16:15

Quite upset as the smileys don't have their Santa hats on yet.

AF arrived 2 days ago so I will probably be testing around 21st December (cycles are about 24 days)

Anyone else???

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h19olly · 21/12/2019 14:51

Im etc my first. I'm 3 days past my period being due. My periods have been irregular since coming off the pill but I'm reluctant to test as I don't want to dampen my Christmas!

Haven't got any major symptoms apart from slight headache and a little cramping but not sure if that's just my expected period.
Anyone in the same position?

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Spark27 · 22/12/2019 21:26

Sorry to all the guys that our out this month. I really hope you get your BFP next month. Fx to all those still in.
According to my app my af is due Xmas eve, but it was 4 days early last month so who knows what will happen. But I've convinced myself that it's on its way and it's not going to be my month. Weirdly, since I've convinced myself of that the TWW has seemed to go quicker. Another thing that's spend it up is me having a cold and my OH having D&V for the last 24hrs. Shock

@h19olly how long have you been off the pill? Did you track ovulation? I get why you don't want to test if you're not sure of dates. It can set you on a vicious and be upsetting x

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h19olly · 22/12/2019 21:35

@Spark27 I've been off the pill since Jan! use the glow @Spark27 I stopped the pill in January! Took a few months and my periods came back regular but over the past 2/3 months I’ve been 2-3 days late, early and even 2 weeks late. I use the glow app to track ov but just bought some ov strips to try track things a bit more.

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Spark27 · 22/12/2019 21:36

*a vicious cycle (going to ignore all the other spelling mistakes I've made. It's been a long 24hrs Grin)

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IslayBrigid · 22/12/2019 22:37

Sorry to all those out this month and fingers crossed next month is the one for you! Hope you can all enjoy the holiday season and feel refreshed for January. Fingers crossed for all those who haven't tested, really hope you get a bfp for Xmas 💖

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BoughsOfHolly · 22/12/2019 23:18

@Spark27 @h19olly and others, of course, hope you get your BFPs!! And fingers crossed for everyone next month. I’m still in 2ww, 12DPO and probably going to test on Christmas Eve - expecting my period on Christmas Day. I don’t think I’ve had usual PMS symptoms this month - sore boobs about a week ago til now and they feel bigger, had back ache on and off, some cramping, slight nausea but nothing too much. Looking forward to knowing one way or another for Christmas although I’ll still take it steady on the alcohol even with a BFN as building the illusion that I’m going off it for health reasons...!

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xSLPx · 23/12/2019 07:54

Well this month is the first month I thought we'd missed my fertile window but I'm 13 DPO and got BFP this morning!! SmileI'm scared of getting excited incase it doesn't stick and still in shock!

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Spark27 · 23/12/2019 08:10

Congratulations @xSLPx that's amazing news. I was the same with my first. Had no expectations and then, bamm, I was pregnant. So exciting.

Thanks @BoughsOfHolly. Fx for you too. I'm going the same thing. Gradually planting the seeds of trying to be healthier, secretly switching to decaf, etc x

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Peanutty86 · 23/12/2019 08:10

@xSLPx wohoooo congratulations!!! How exciting! (I thought the same re fertile window. I think I'm still in shock.)

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everpessimistic · 23/12/2019 08:12

Did any of you with BFP get BFN before? 11DPO and BFN on FRER

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Whyhaveidonethis · 23/12/2019 09:01

@everpessimistic snap. So depressing

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Blondeandbroody · 23/12/2019 09:08

@xSLPx omg that's amazing news ❤️❤️❤️

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xSLPx · 23/12/2019 09:14

@Blondeandbroody @Peanutty86 @Spark27
Thank you 😊 I have no idea how I'm supposed to concentrate at work today 🙈

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BoughsOfHolly · 23/12/2019 10:22

Congrats @xSLPx that’s amazing! Did you test before your expected period? I bet you’re so excited 😆 xx

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xSLPx · 23/12/2019 10:32

Thanks @BoughsOfHolly. Yeah I'm due AF on Christmas Day and decided to test this morning as we're having my OH family over for Christmas dinner and I wanted to know whether to expect AF or not otherwise I'd spend all day thinking about it and if I got a BFN then I could just accept it and not be too upset when it arrives. I am really excited but I don't want to get my hopes up too much until I've actually missed AF.

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everpessimistic · 23/12/2019 12:49

@xSLPx congratulations on the BFP! It’s gonna be so hard to keep it a secret or are you going to tell them? Had you tested before today or was today your first test?

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xSLPx · 23/12/2019 14:05

Thanks @everpessimistic. We don't plan on telling then until nearer 12 weeks, I'd like to wait until we've had the first scan but not sure if we'll be able to keep it a secret for that long but we'll try. Christmas period is going to be the hardest as it's not like me to pass up a glass of wine!
This was my first test this month, I've been trying really hard not to test early and if it had been any other month I wouldn't have tested early this time either.

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Jh2019 · 23/12/2019 20:44

Congrats @xSLPx, amazing news! Enjoy your Christmas and good luck with trying not to rouse suspicions turning down the wine Wink

I'm testing tomorrow, which will be 11DPO - based on previous cycles I'm due AF either tomorrow or Christmas day. Feeling so nervous, worried I won't cope well if it's disappointing news...but will try really hard not to let it ruin my Christmas. Good luck to everyone else who is testing, and all the best for next month for those who are out this month

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IslayBrigid · 23/12/2019 22:35

Congratulations @xSLPx!! So exciting! Isn't it so funny that it can hit when one least expects :)
I just got through my period "due date" which was today so feeling happy about that! Aside from a bit of anxiety about whether yoga us ok I'm feeling good. Haven't really had symptoms yet except sore boobs and more hungry and tired.
Will definitely look into getting an early scan... does anyone have a clinic they recommend in London or Milton Keynes? X

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Lexie365 · 24/12/2019 00:47

congrats to everyone who got their bfp!!Smile deffo think i got my ovulation dates wrong the first time and judging by ovulation pain and cm think i ovulated around the 15th although had the pain until 17th. took a test today and could swear i could see the faintest of faint line lol when i checked again after half hour was deffo a line but that had not been there after about ten mins so not counting that. will test again xmas morning so fingers crossedGrin

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Spark27 · 24/12/2019 07:29

Fingers crossed @Lexie365.

I'm out this month. AF has just showed up. Least it means my cycle was more predictable this month. And it was only my first month TTC so I'm not surprised it didn't happen. I'm going to enjoy the holidays and get back on it in the new year.

Congrats to all those who got their BFP and fx to those still waiting xx

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BoughsOfHolly · 24/12/2019 08:18

I got a BFP this morning - OH is in shock but had a very strong feeling the last few days based on my symptoms. Just crossing everything that it will go smoothly now!

@Spark27 fingers crossed for you next month!

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Ziggystarduck · 24/12/2019 08:43

Congratulations @xSLPx and @boughsofholly! What an exciting Christmas you're going to have!
I think I'm out this month. My temps are dropping and AF feels imminent. I'm 11 dpo, been spotting since yesterday, which happens every cycle. I had my hopes up as I was having some crazy dreams, insomnia and mega night sweats. A bit of nausea too. But feels like games over looking at my chart

Anyone testing just before Christmas?
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TunnocksTcake · 24/12/2019 08:47

Just thought I would check back in to see if anyone had an Xmas eve bfp and so happy to see 2 new BFPS!! @BoughsOfHolly @xSLPx CONGRATULATIONS! 🍾🎄🎅🏼 what an amazing Christmas gift for you both! Good luck hiding it over Xmas if that's what you choose to do! We are telling immediate family over Xmas just because if we did mc then we would tell them anyway and we want to share the joy while we can 😁 DH already told his sister because she is also pregnant! 12 weeks along. His parents are going to flip!

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IslayBrigid · 24/12/2019 09:02

Such great news @BoughsOfHolly, so happy for you ! When you posted about your symptoms I thought as much but didn't say anything as didn't want to put my foot in it :) similar to my symptoms before BFP, mild but definitely there.

So sorry @Spark27 and @Ziggystarduck. I hope you can enjoy Xmas and restart the process feeling refreshed in January. Fingers crossed for you! X

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