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Anyone testing just before Christmas?

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iswhois · 28/11/2019 16:15

Quite upset as the smileys don't have their Santa hats on yet.

AF arrived 2 days ago so I will probably be testing around 21st December (cycles are about 24 days)

Anyone else???

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TunnocksTcake · 19/12/2019 09:48

@IslayBrigid @Peanutty86 yaaaay! I am so so happy for you both! @IslayBrigid that is just perfect timing for the 2 of you! Proper Christmas magic 🎄🌟💕

TunnocksTcake · 19/12/2019 09:50

I have posted a separate post about this but curious to what you guys think... these are all my frers (and today's ic - the first one I got any kind of line on!) one a day from 12dpo to 14dpo. Today's frer line is a bit broken/ incomplete... has anyone had this? It's freaking me out a little bit and that ic is soooo faint but reminding myself I am due period today so not even Late yet and the colour is good...

Anyone testing just before Christmas?
Bbutterfly · 19/12/2019 09:52

Congratulations on your bfps ladies!! What amazing news and congrats to your sister too!
Im now thinking even more that I'm out since I am 13dpo and bfn today  af due in 2 days time. @LizzieLottie88 I'm in the same boat as you, recently come off the pill and I'm already a maniac going nuts testing buying more googling stuff so I can really sympathise with the ladies who have been trying for a while. We will all get there what's meant for us won't pass us. Xxxx

Peanutty86 · 19/12/2019 09:54

@TunnocksTcake thank you. And congratulations to you too! Don't worry about the line looking odd, it's chemicals after all. You've got some super strong lines there 💪🏼

Bbutterfly · 19/12/2019 09:56

@TunnocksTcake I wouldn't worry about the broken line! I saw this on another post too congratulations. Loving all these positives! Maybe there's still hope for me if you tested from 12dpo I am 13dpo and still getting bfn. Xxx

TunnocksTcake · 19/12/2019 10:01

@Bbutterfly yes definitely still hope if you are using ICs, I was v shocked at how unsensitive they seem to be when they advertise otherwise. If you can get your hands on a FRER or Superdrug early I have heard are good too... Otherwise wait a couple of days and try again [Smile]

Thanks for the reassurance ladies, any little thing was always going to freak me out!

HerondaleDucks · 19/12/2019 10:02

I'm 14dpo tomorrow. I don't think I'm pregnant. I think my hormones are all over the show though.
Is it even worth testing if I don't think I'm pregnant or should i just wait for AF which is due on Saturday.

Bbutterfly · 19/12/2019 10:06

@HerondaleDucks I would wait if I were you, It will save your mental health haha! You will only think you've tested too early then keep testing as I have done.
@TunnocksTcake thank you, I used frer, I think I'm just going to wait for Saturday to see if af comes then if not will test again. X

IslayBrigid · 19/12/2019 10:13

Thank you everyone for the kind words and congratulations! It's so reassuring to hear you think it's positive too :) I still can't quite believe it. My sister is also in shock haha. Pretty amazing!

I'll test tomorrow to see if it's a bit darker. Will tell DP tonight when he's home from work. Luckily I am working from home today - would have found it so hard being in the office. I'm very happy but just gobsmacked :) :)

@Peanutty86 definite line there! FRERs are quite magical aren't they. How exciting!!!

@TunnocksTcake I think the slight wiggle in the line just looks like a bit of a design flaw. I highly doubt it would pick up on anything strange happening... it only picks up on the hormone and it's a dark colour so I think you can definitely relax and stay positive :)

I've finally realised IC means internet cheapie, am I right??

@ceebee21 Do you think you'll test before AF or wait till AF is late? Exciting! Sending you baby magic xx

@LizzieLottie88 I would wait till at least 10dpo or 11dpo... with FRERs it says that they are accurate for 96% of women 5 days before missed period. So that's five days from the day after your period is due. So today, 10 dpo, is 5 days before missed period for me. But I guess it also depends on how long your luteal phase usually is?

I've heard that it can take a few cycles for ones body to conceive after coming off the pill but I've also heard of people getting PG straight away. Like everything on this journey it seems a bit of a mystery! Everyone is so different. I haven't been on the pill for years and been temping for a year as contraception so maybe that did help, I'm not sure.

Also re CM, I found mine was drying up a bit yesterday so I thought oh, that might mean I'm out.... but clearly not. Shrug. It's all a gamble till that positive test comes. But now I know I am I am looking back on my symptoms and there were a few there but they were not strong so I could equally have been imagining them.

Hoping my line gets stronger and sending good luck to you all xx

IslayBrigid · 19/12/2019 10:18

@Bbutterfly you might have only implanted on day 12, and then it takes a couple days for the hormone to show :) don't lose hope for this cycle yet! xx

Bbutterfly · 19/12/2019 10:27

Thank you for the encouragement @IslayBrigid will just wait until Saturday to test if af doesn't make an appearance. So happy for you and your sis. What lovely news for Christmas! X

ceebee21 · 19/12/2019 10:33

@IslayBrigid well I am temping, so if it drops below coverline, that is pretty much a certain BFN.... so if I am still above coverline the day before I will have to take one haha.

I have a short LP (well have done last two cycles), so imagine I will know on Xmas eve...

So pleased for you on the BFP - and your sister as well, amazing!!

There have been so many BFP's recently.

debbs77 · 19/12/2019 11:02

I'm due tomorrow, just did a FRER and negative. So disappointing.

Ziggystarduck · 19/12/2019 11:20

Hmm I just did a post but it seems its not here, sorry if it comes up twice!
@TunnocksTcake it must feel amazing to see those two lines, what a collection of BFP's!
@debbs77 I'm sorry, hope you're doing OK. 😘
I'm 6 or 7 dpo, honestly time is passing so slowly. I'm feeling crampy still, but I've got a strange sharp shooting pain from my perineum inwards. Anyone had this? It's probably just my temperamental bowels 🤷‍♂️

LizzieLottie88 · 19/12/2019 11:37

@IslayBrigid thank you! Well frer coming tomoro. Well I think my first stage was longer as took 2 weeks after withdrawal bleed after finishing my pack of pills the weeks before for me to then ovulate - pretty sure due to cm (used this method when conceiving ds1) but never thought to see what it was like after I ovulate before so I dunno is clear is normal for me never mind a symptom of pregnancy or not 😂 so 2 weeks after the date I ovulated is boxing day so it's all a bit of a guess really. Only been back on the pill for about 8 months I think so hopefully it won't take too long! Anyway, 10 dpo (when I got my faint bfp with ds1, and that was with a cheapie and cb!) will be Sunday. So not sure whether to test Sunday or try to wait longer?! Decisions....
Congratulations to more bfp!! Such happy news in time for Christmas, must be a lovely feeling 😁 praying I'll be joining you, otherwise I'll be posting a picture of my bfb (big fat baileys)😂

FlamingoG88 · 19/12/2019 14:43

I'm wondering if any of you ladies can give me some advice!

Came off the pill back in June and have tracked my cycles ever since, with what seems to be a 26 day cycle (always starting my period the day the app predicts).

Started TTC after the end of my last period (end of Nov) and am now currently on CD29 with no sign of AF.

Did a FRER this morning (the first ever pregnancy test I've taken in my life!) and got a BFN.

Is it likely that AF is just not showing up because I'm thinking about it too much or is it worth testing again in the morning? New to all of this and trying not to drive myself crazy with it all!

IslayBrigid · 19/12/2019 15:07

@LizzieLottie88 sounds like you could test Sunday if you got a faint bfp with your son! As long as you reassure yourself that if it's negative it might be false and then you could try again a couple days later. Definitely wait til Sunday at least. The longer we hold out the more likely I'll be positive and be a true result!

Thanks @ceebee21 is very surreal 🙃 sounds like a good idea to test again when AF due if your temp hasn't dropped! Fingers crossed for you!

@flamingog88 sounds like the test might not be picking it up. You might be in the 1% that it doesn't work for! Esp if you often aren't late. Maybe try another brand or test again tomorrow... If implantation was late for you it might not yet he concentrated enough! Do you have any other symptoms? X

FlamingoG88 · 19/12/2019 16:16

@islayBrigid

Maybe? I think I've convinced myself it's just my body playing a cruel trick as I honestly don't think I'll be so lucky to have fallen in the first cycle! Having said that, my last period started the day before my wedding and all my friends told me that I'd be so stressed it wouldn't turn up when it was due, but it did, bang on time.

I don't seem to have any symptons but I don't really suffer with my periods either apart from some light cramping on the first day.

I'm trying to tell myself I should wait until Monday to test again (if AF doesn't arrive) but I am a very impatient person so that might be easier said than done Grin

IslayBrigid · 19/12/2019 16:40

@FlamingoG88 Hmm interesting. Yes could just be a weirdly long cycle that's definitely a possibility. It's my first cycle TTC and I got a faint but visible BFP this morning so it can happen :) Esp if you have been a few months off birth control.

Did you pee on the stick or dip it in a cup? I think dipping in a cup is more effective. Did you use first morning urine? Also sometimes the line is super faint and you have to squint.

Maybe try again tomorrow / Saturday with first morning urine and perhaps by tomorrow it'll be more concentrated.

FlamingoG88 · 19/12/2019 17:02

@IslayBrigid oh wow, congratulations! Just before Christmas too Smile

I peed on the stick, or tried to Blush so if AF hasn't shown up in a couple of days I'll be trying by dipping in a cup instead! POAS seemed pretty difficult tbh but I did use FMU.

IslayBrigid · 19/12/2019 17:17

@flamingog88 thank you :)

Keep us posted and good luck! xx

Jessmary94 · 19/12/2019 21:09

Hey! Haven't checked in for a while, been so busy getting ready for Christmas!

Massive congrats to everyone that got their BFP's I'm so happy for you all!

I tested yesterday morning which I think was 10dpo and got bfn BB it going to test again tomorrow and if any different but I'm not hopeful as I haven't had any symptoms at all 😔

Jh2019 · 19/12/2019 21:32

Wow, came back to this thread after a while off and so amazing to see all these BFPs - huge congratulations @TunnocksTcake @Peanutty86 @Mystie and @IslayBrigid ! So happy for all of you Grin

I think I'm currently 6DPO, AF due on Christmas day so trying to hold off testing until the day itself! It's the first time I've tried temping and had a bit of a weird pattern...temp didn't rise until 4 days after my positive CB digital OPK, though it has stayed consistently high since so hoping that still means I ovulated? I've never really found EWCM either, so just rely on the OPKs...

@ceebee21 sounds like we're at a pretty similar stage, I also have quite a short luteal phase (10-11 days) and due on Christmas day. Fingers crossed for both of us!

Lexie365 · 19/12/2019 22:49

congrats to everyone who got their bfp'sSmile ok so im starting to think i didn't actually ovulate until a few days ago. i thought af was due 23rd because thats when it came on last month but that was because they were 3 weeks late due to stress i guess. so af due any time between 23rd/31st so ovulation could have happend anytime between 8th/16th. and considering i had sharp ovary pain on the 16th/17th i think it was then...ugh so there is a good chance im bearly into my 2 week wait. been cramping all day though like i usually feel few days before af due?

LizzieLottie88 · 20/12/2019 06:45

My temps gone up to 37 last 2 days, was quite high before 36.8 or 9. Anyone know is that's a sign of af or pregnancy?! 9dpo today. I'm not ill at all but glands are very sore 🤔

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