End of November, jump on board pt 3!

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All ready for when we reach 1000 on the other thread!!

@CiaraJ01 WOMAN!! Lol. Try a FRER when you have one. Hopefully as AF is days away it should give a more accurate reading 🤗

😂😂 @mellymoo86 I've bought loads of them, thought I might as well use one! I'm sure I have a FRER in the house. Will wait till the morning, will be 12 DPO then..

I don't know why but i don't feel like dtd.

@FutureMrsSmith sorry to hear that but don't worry darling. You can enjoy now!! Have fun

@PrettyGirl5545 are you in your fertile window now?

@CiaraJ01 Yeah closer the better. Don't blame you I would have most likely done the same lol

@mellymoo86 : ( yes Sisso! I'm on CD10, app says that i ll ovulate on CD14

@PrettyGirl5545 Aww it's ok if you don't feel it. You still have time. Watch some porn or have a drink that'll help 😂 I laugh but it might. Lol

Bottom of my back is killing & im having on/ AF like cramps xx

@mellymoo86 how are you dear? And how many dpo are u n? Was inactive during AF and I have lost all your data😂

BFN on FRER today, 11dpo according to Ovia only as didn't tear and AF due Wednesday.

Not looking good but I think I'll be okay with it because my AF will bring me clarity of my cycle after being on the pill for so long.

Just going to enjoy Christmas and then do everything I can to give us the best shot next cycle!

Didn't test lol

@PrettyGirl5545 I'm good thanks hun. I am 3/4DPO today so still early. Just counting down to Christmas now. Planning to have a lazy build up to it 😊

I think I'm out🙄 I'm major crabbit just done a Superdrug own brand test BFN! So I'm expecting AF anytime now

At least we can all enjoy Christmas and know 2020 is our year!! I'll possibly test Tuesday while waiting for AF on Wednesday-ish. Very slight dull aches this afternoon that may be a sign of her arrival. I think I convinced myself already it wasnt to be so I'm not too upset, but will still test if she hasnt arrived by then.

@PrettyGirl5545 dont beat yourself up about it. Just try create the mood and enjoy it rather than focusing on the TTC bit. Enjoy some Christmas festivities and throw around some mistletoe 😂

We're pretty much in the same boat @CiaraJ01

I'll test closer to when AF due Wednesday but convinced myself I'm not pregnant this cycle so I feel like I'll be okay about AF when/if she arrives x

@nt1992 dw darling try drinking a lime juice

@PrettyGirl5545 what will that do x

Are we all trying to fool ourselves by thinking it's not going to happen and still getting a bit down when we see the BFN lol @CiaraJ01 @Blondeandbroody All this ttc sucks! Bleh!

@mellymoo86 @CiaraJ01 haha I think so I reckon we're trying to not care so we don't actually care when/if we get BFN but let's face it, we will care 😂😭😖 it's the worst!!! So many people in this world have kids and don't want to or frankly don't deserve to and here's us lovely bunch all trying our hardest and getting nowhere. I'm saying this in my first ever cycle so I'm not really one to talk, but I still feel the struggle already!

@Blondeandbroody I know the feeling. Feel like each month should get easier but it really doesn't. If anything the more months that go by the more I get irritated because I don't know what else to do.

@mellymoo86 I just wish I could be more relaxed about it but after waiting years with my OH to start trying it's all come down to this infuriating game of luck and chance and I feel so helpless in it all. My OH is blissfully unaware of any of it, meanwhile I'm POAS 3x a day lately just for something to do and feel productive whilst I wait for the very likely BFN and then repeat the process all over. It's actually the most depressing thing ever haha which hopefully eventually gives you the greatest and happiest thing ever.

I'm considering getting a menstrual cup purely for TTC. I read on another thread that if you insert it right after DTD it keeps all the lil swimmers where they're meant to be instead of them sneaking off! 😂

@nt1992 O my god! I meant don't worry not DARLING WIFE! If your husband sees this he'll be lyk Wtf who the hell is this.. Lol!

Btw it relaxes the cramps and if you are pregnant and the cramp is because of the heat, it might help your pregnancy!

@Blondeandbroody totally know the feeling, I've got my previous sticks in a sandwich bag under the bathroom sink. When we put the bin out I quickly throw them too 😂 Literally been driving myself nuts. I've been doing a BBT chart this month and it's helped me not pee on as many sticks but it's just another form of stress. That's why I'm looking forward to Christmas, meeting up with friends etc so I can keep my mind off it.

When did you stop the pill?

@Blondeandbroody I already use a soft cup. They give me some reassurance I'm making entire use out of those little swimmers.