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End of November, jump on board pt 2!

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Skygirl1983 · 14/11/2019 16:24

Ladies from the other thread, we have reached 1000! We need to start a new one!

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Skygirl1983 · 21/11/2019 15:08

@MrsC89 how many dpo are you now?? The FR website says I can test from today!! But I'm too scared to!

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Skygirl1983 · 21/11/2019 15:16

I'm now debating whether or not to use my one and only FRER this evening and then hold off after then if its BFN

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MrsC89 · 21/11/2019 15:17

@Skygirl1983 I think I'm 8dpo, and will now continue to go mad until next thursday when af is due

Skygirl1983 · 21/11/2019 15:42

@MrsC89 that's good going then if you are getting something that early. Fingers crossed it does come to something!!

Should I use mine tonight???? I'm torn now!!! And feeling really nervous all of a sudden!

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sh84 · 21/11/2019 15:42

@Skygirl1983 I’m 13dpo, AF due tomorrow. I’ve got a boots digital that I’ve been saving, last month when I got a BFP I tested with second MU using FRER & boots digital at 13dpo, maybe tomorrow I’ll use it, got 1 FRER left too.

@MrsC89 I saw your other post & was like I’m in exactly the same boat, I thought that if any kind of line shows within the 3mins then it’s a line but I also thought that it’s the hcg in urine that reacts with the line & turns it pink therefore if it’s not pink then it’s not a true line.

These things need to be more idiot proof for people ttc/desperate for a BFP/lines eyes/crazy women in the tww lol

MrsC89 · 21/11/2019 15:52

@sh84 this is going to sound proper crazy, but I checked today's test against my previous positive test (pregnacy ended in August due to TFMR) and the line is in the correct place.
When is a line not a line? Some sort of not funny joke for us TTC!

mellymoo86 · 21/11/2019 16:20

@Skygirl1983 do itttttttt!!!! Don't be scared, at least you'll know and like you said test again later or wait for AF. I have a good feeling about this one anyways xxx back in the UK whoop whoop!!!

Maisy24 · 21/11/2019 16:23

@mellymoo86 welcome back to the UK!

@Skygirl1983 I'd be so tempted if I were you, all your symptoms sound good!

I'm 10dpo today, I usually start a period between 12 and 14dpo. My FRERs have arrived today , so I will be testing tomorrow but expecting BFN; will keep everyone updating first thing!

Xxxxx

sh84 · 21/11/2019 16:33

@MrsC89 yep already compared it to previous positive test today too. I’m really sorry for being ignorant but what’s TFMR?? I think if they’re grey/white they’re not classed as positive, I think that’s what an evap/indent line is they have to be pink/blue to be a true positive as it’s the hcg that turns the line pink or blue but I was also under the impression that evap/indent lines only show after the timeframe not within it. So basically what you can take away from this is that I’m totally clueless, hoping, clutching at straws & imagining lines that may or may not be there lol

Maisy24 · 21/11/2019 16:38

@sh84 🤣 don't worry we are all there with you! This ttc sends us all insane! Xxxx

MrsC89 · 21/11/2019 16:49

@sh84 termination for medical reasons. At the 12 week scan we found out I was carrying conjoined twins, they shared a heart and had no chance of separation if they made it to full term, but that looked extremely unlikely.

Skygirl1983 · 21/11/2019 17:06

Did it. Zilch. I got myself all worked up and there was nothing there. I should wait for AF really. I hate doing this so much.

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MrsC89 · 21/11/2019 17:08

@Skygirl1983 you arent out yet though!

sh84 · 21/11/2019 17:13

@MrsC89 I’m so sorry, must’ve been awful for you, I lost my little boy in August, managed to conceive again in October but was a chemical so desperately hoping for something this month, if AF isn’t here by tomorrow think I’ll just do the last FRER & boots digital so I’ve got no more tests in the house & im not checking for a line every 5 mins then I’ll just wait it out

MrsC89 · 21/11/2019 17:19

@sh84 I'm sorry to hear about your little boy.
I had one frer left from earlier in the year, I have got another 2 pack sat in a drawer, I will not test now until probably Sunday. May make DH hide them from me!

Skygirl1983 · 21/11/2019 17:28

@MrsC89 I know, I'm still only 9dpo but feel so deflated now. I need to switch off from it. I got myself so worked up and now I just want to go to bed.

I'm so sorry to hear about your losses ladies. Well done for keeping strong and carrying on!!

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sh84 · 21/11/2019 17:29

@MrsC89 Yes it’s still early for you, hold off as long as you can or you’ll spend your days like me looking at what appears to be a negative test desperately trying to see something

Jam234 · 21/11/2019 18:10

Hi everyone. Im back 😁 wow i feel like i missed a lot the last few days. Trying to catch up. Sorry about all the losses and BFNs. I have my fingers crossed for everyone due to test soon and of course congrats to the BFPs.

I had a great few days away. Took my mind off TTC and symptom spotting!! And over indulged in the wine and food 😂. So im on CD24 no idea of DPO. Barely and CM in comparison to last week. Cervix is still very high but not as soft??? Im not sure if thats just normal for me though. No other symptoms at all. Think im out this month!!

How is everyone else?

mellymoo86 · 21/11/2019 18:27

@Skygirl1983 you're definitely not out yet, you've still got like 3-4 days to go until AF but I do understand considering the symptoms you've been having you were hoping to at least see a faint line. Try to relax and get a early night, I did that ydy and feel a lot better today. Chin up 🤗

mrsio · 21/11/2019 18:31

I just got another very faint line on a One Step cheapie. @nt1992 are they the ones you were getting faint lines on? I think they're just evaps coz they're like a shadow with no colour. If it was BFP it should have at least got a tiny bit of colour in 24hrs.

I think AF would be due to start Saturday so I might do a cheapie if I don't start. I'm then away for the night so won't be able to test again til Sunday afternoon/evening.

Fingers crossed for those who have very faint lines with a bit of colour in. They're almost definitely BFPs x

nt1992 · 21/11/2019 19:22

These are the ones that gave me the evap lines or literally every single test! @mrsio xx

End of November, jump on board pt 2!
nt1992 · 21/11/2019 19:25

Ovulation tests came today 🎉 apparently I don't ovulate until 26th when should I start taking them?xx

mellymoo86 · 21/11/2019 19:26

Counting on you girls to give us BFP's, I've given mine up for you lol! 🤗🤗

mellymoo86 · 21/11/2019 19:27

@nt1992 I normally ovulate cycle day 15 so start testing from cycle day 10.

Bunny2006 · 21/11/2019 19:27

I feel bad not replying and then asking for advice, trying to keep up with everyone! Best of luck those yet to test/are waiting for poss lines to get stronger!

I'm now 5 days late, never late!! Had lots of cramping/bloating in past week, achey/sore boobs today. But my FRER on Tuesday should've surely shown something. I have another FRER left but scared to waste it and see another negative! Temps are still high too but just waiting for AF to turn up :(

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