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End of November, jump on board pt 2!

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Skygirl1983 · 14/11/2019 16:24

Ladies from the other thread, we have reached 1000! We need to start a new one!

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mellymoo86 · 20/11/2019 18:10

@Maisy24 it is exhausting, I can't even compare to you so feel bad for feeling down about it. It's the second cycle for me. Have you considered going to the doctors?

I probably shouldn't have tested now. I'm still in Barcelona and OH in UK. I could have distracted myself at least in the UK. Doh! 🙁

Linz2310 · 20/11/2019 18:14

Hey All, I have just join tonight so I am still trying to work out how to use the page and all the short code for things! I am 30 and I had came off the contraceptive pill in March 2019 I decided I wasn't going to start trying until June this year so I have roughly been trying for 6months with no success. It took me 6 weeks to take my first period ( I had been on pill for 16years) and I am only now the last few month feeling my hormones are settling! I never used to have any symptoms of taking a period other than cramp but the last couple of period I have had terrible sore boobs which made me have my hopes up thinking I was pregnant as I had never experiences this before. I have started using ovulation tests from amazon and I don't know if I read them properly as being positive but I have hoped for the best I am due my period this Sunday and I can feel small twinges that it is going to come... I am almost 100% sure I can feel myself ovulating.... I think I am becoming a bit too obsessed and I have booked a doctors appointment to discuss does anyone else think I should wait a while longer before I go to the doctor? I don't know if I am being stupid I knows it's only been 6months and people try for years... I am scared I am ovulating but not dropping eggs? Thanks in advance 😁

PrettyGirl5545 · 20/11/2019 18:26

@RosieCWilliams congratulations!!
@nt1992 @Louu99 you guys are done with AF?

I'm havin ovulation pain. Nd i didn't dtd properly. But im still not sure if i ovulated. Wat do I do?Thinking to buy ovulation strips next month.

Maisy24 · 20/11/2019 18:37

@mellymoo86 don't feel bad, I know that even one month feels like an eternity, and everyone is so light hearted and funny on here it really helps. Hopefully you get your BFP within the next few months.

Yes I've been to the doctors and had every single test; same for DH and everything looks good so we were told to just carry on trying and it will happen, which is more frustrating 😫

9dpo is still really early even for an FRER. Only 50% get a positive at 9dpo. I do think AF is coming for me though i can feel her slowly creeping up! Xxxx

nt1992 · 20/11/2019 18:40

@PrettyGirl5545 I'm not 100% done yet but definitely by tomorrow, apparently I don't ovulate until 30th anyway xx

stepmumma91 · 20/11/2019 18:42

@mellymoo86 don't be disheartened. I was 13dpo and still not getting positives on FRERs! Unpopular opinion but I have def found clear blue much better!

mellymoo86 · 20/11/2019 18:51

@Maisy24 @stepmumma91 I think no matter how much I tell myself to mentally prepare myself it's just never goes that way. It's so annoying!

Just got told my cousin is expecting her second (her first is only 1 year) my cousins wife is expecting, best friend is etc...list goes on, all within 1-2 months. I am over the moon for them but also feel down inside. You all REALLY do help me emotionally and can't thank you all enough 🤗🤗🤗

Skygirl1983 · 20/11/2019 19:20

Cramps and wind are back!! I'm not eating any different to what I usually eat so not sure why these IBS like symptoms have appeared!

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Skygirl1983 · 20/11/2019 19:28

Also my boobs hurt when I lift my arms! Someone please tell me I'm not mad for symptom spotting!!

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mellymoo86 · 20/11/2019 19:57

All good signs @Skygirl1983 😊

Skygirl1983 · 20/11/2019 20:06

@mellymoo86 this is the longest week ever!!

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mellymoo86 · 20/11/2019 20:09

@Skygirl1983 tell me about it 😩

Maisy24 · 20/11/2019 20:11

@Skygirl1983 all very good signs 🙌🏻 hoping it's a BFP for you xxx

CiaraJ01 · 20/11/2019 20:49

Hello ladies!!
Losing the will to live, full blown AF cramps now.. but no AF. Am I broken?!

There is really no point testing right?

mellymoo86 · 20/11/2019 20:58

@CiaraJ01 if there's no AF might be worth giving it another go? Nothing to lose right?

I'm doing a order on Amazon getting ready for cycle 3 but holding off from pressing confirm until AF to be 100% sure. @stepmumma91 giving the zussman recommended vitamins a go.

CiaraJ01 · 20/11/2019 21:09

@mellymoo86 just more disappointment when its negative 😒😒 I've just never had this before its driving me mad.

@Skygirl1983 very good signs I reckon!!

@stepmumma91 what dpo were you when you got a positive?

stepmumma91 · 20/11/2019 21:16

@mellymoo86 fingers crossed you won't need them! God knows if they helped but I felt better for trying anyway 😂 If you go on her Instagram she has a highlights bit of all the women who have conceived with them. I think they're worth a go!

@CiaraJ01 I was 14DPO and I still couldn't see a line on the FRERs, but was managing to get strong lines pretty much instantly on clear blue and positives on their digital ones. By 15 DPO I was getting the most faint line on the FRER (I couldn't see it at all, hubby had to point it out!).

CiaraJ01 · 20/11/2019 21:23

What's the zussman vitamins about??

Does anyone reckoned theres much difference between the pregnacare pregnancy vitamins and TTC ones? Aside some x1.5 the price!

@stepmumma91 I'm 99% sure AF is here but I've had nothing but cramps since Saturday steadily growing in their intensity. It's usually the norm 12-24 hours before but never longer. Now according to the OPK app I'm 2 days late. FRER last night at 13dpo was BFN.

stepmumma91 · 20/11/2019 21:32

@CiaraJ01 if you have a look at Luisa ZIssmans baby blog she recommends some vitamins which helped her conceive.

I had really bad AF like cramps at 14DPO which is the only reason I took another test, I was convinced it was imminent and weirdly thought I'd rather see a negative test first than AF catching me off guard at some point in the day! I'm 4+4 today, still v early but I still have AF-like cramps on and off. I was worried at first (still am a bit tbh) but apparently it's quite common. On a pregnancy thread now and loads of people are having the same thing. It's all the stretching. Don't lose hope yet!

stepmumma91 · 20/11/2019 21:34

@CiaraJ01 www.luisazissman.co.uk/?p=647

CiaraJ01 · 20/11/2019 21:36

Hmm. I've taken some ibu this evening cause I was sick of analysing about them 😂😂 So now I duno if they've gone or masked.
I've 1 FRER left but I'm not bothered trying tonight. If AF still isnt here in the morning I might take it... Thank you 💕

I'll look up on the vitamins too!

Skygirl1983 · 21/11/2019 07:19

Good morning ladies. How is everyone? I have had a good amount of milky discharge already this morning! Really sore boobies last night too. If I get a BFN I'll be shocked and this is some horrible AF symptoms. Especially for a whole week before!

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MrsC89 · 21/11/2019 07:34

Morning! Ended up going to bed at 7:30 last night and didnt want my dinner ( very unlike me)
This morning feeling back to normal, noticed my left boob was really sore when I got out of the shower, also still got the milky discharge here too!

Skygirl1983 · 21/11/2019 07:42

@MrsC89 how many dpo are you? I'm 9dpo and cant help jumping on every single symptom now! I'm going to test tomorrow evening but have already prepared myself for the BFN

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CiaraJ01 · 21/11/2019 07:43

Good morning! Fingers crossed for you @MrsC89 and @Skygirl1983!!

AF finally arrived in the middle of the night!! I'm now a mix of relief and discomfort 😂 But in good news its moved my next predicted ovulation back 2 days... so I'm home from Amsterdam 2 days before its expected! 🥳🥳 So🤞🤞 on our last chance in Dec xx