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4DPO today - anyone joining the 2ww??

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ElsaTam · 05/11/2019 22:54

Hello! I am 4dpo and already starting to look for preggo signs.. i know i know!..
This cycle I had again tender breasts during/after ovulation, but today at 4dpo I noticed that they are not that “full” anymore (I confess it left me a bit worried!).
Okp positive on 31st Oct and ovulation on 1st Nov. Temperature raised on 2nd Nov and kept high (had a small drop but today even higher than before). All good (I think??) but the breasts don’t seem tender anymore (Although progesterone levels seems good). It is the first month I am checking temperature. We are trying to conceive since July/August. September had a chemical pregnancy.
Whomever is out there in the same boat - please share your symptoms! Also, if anyone had experience with losing breast symptoms after ovulation.. please share your experience! Thanks!

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ElsaTam · 11/11/2019 17:45

@Aggie53 and so sorry for your loss... ❤️

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ElsaTam · 11/11/2019 17:54

@NewUsername0123 good to hear you are chilled! Crossing all fingers for you 🤞🏻 that's the way! No stress!
I am feeling bad about myself that I am eating really way more than normal and getting so fat so quickly (but I usually have to be very careful), but I know this is due to frustration/stress/pessimism... I am really messing my body up and maybe not even pregnant!
I wrote in the previous comment, messing up again, but yes, you are so right about chatting here about all these topics! My husband would be upset with me with this "need" to talk so much about it! Thank you for being there ladies 🙏🏻

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Aggie53 · 11/11/2019 21:06

@justmumming1 good luck 👍🍀

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Aggie53 · 11/11/2019 21:12

@ElsaTam thanks dear ! Maybe this time around I’ll be lucky 🍀

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ElsaTam · 12/11/2019 07:17

Guys I caved in.. :( bfn at 11dpo with a very sensitive test (10miu/ml). I am quite sure I should have by this time a very faint line at least (in September with chemical had a very faint line by 10dpo). I guess I am out..
I measured my temps and had raised 0.3 C (gave me the highest so far 36.9 C whilst before was usually between 36.5 and 36.6, one time or two 36.7). My breasts are still very full, but I didn't fell yet that "nausea" feeling yet. With such a sensitive test negative by this stage, I have not much hope left. 😢

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justmumming1 · 12/11/2019 11:41

@ElsaTam Im sorry hun but it's still early, ive tested a few times and nothing! i do feel sick though, like classic morning sickness but my kids have been ill recently so maybe i just have that bug. ive never had weeks go by so slow before!

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justmumming1 · 12/11/2019 11:50

@ElsaTam i just checked my dates again ! im only 7dpo today! i got so confused i have no odea
now if i can even fall pregnant! last had sex on the 3rd, apparently ovulated on the 5th, and implantatiom is only supposely happening in two days time! so i have no idea now! didnt even have sex on ovulation day! im pretty sure i hVe no chance now. i just feel pregnant though im usually so sensitive to it i just know and i feel the same! but usually only test positive like two dYes before period. so for me thats this sat or sun as im due on mon/tue aghhh what waste of tests!

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Aggie53 · 12/11/2019 12:24

@ElsaTam im so sorry ..and trust me i know how you feel we all here in the same boat ..dont loose your hope tho , if its meant to be this month it will be!!! there is still time !!! only 11 DPO or if not meant to be we need to be strong and take a bull the the horns next month !! hun cheer up! maybe little glass of wine or chocolate you deserve it !!!

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NicLondon1 · 12/11/2019 12:48

@ElsaTam Sorry to hear that... I'd give it another couple of days though, just in case. I also caved (at 8dpo!!!) and it was obviously BFN.
I ate a whole pineapple yesterday ha ha! Crazy times.

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rhirhibumblebee · 12/11/2019 12:55

Guys I caved and I tested today 🙈🙈. I used the first response which says you can do 6 days before your period is due. It looks very positive ?! Omg! I'm so worried now that I've picked up a chemical again 😩. Wish I hadn't tested so early. Period due Monday. What you reckon?? Too early? I can't believe it as I'm scared to

How do I upload a photo? It takes forever !

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rhirhibumblebee · 12/11/2019 12:56

@ElsaTam with my second I didn't show up in a test until day after my period due! So for. Give up hope yet xxx

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ElsaTam · 12/11/2019 13:19

Ladies, OMG you are so amazing! Thank you for the supportive words!!! ❤️❤️❤️
Yes, i will not even test more because the white-white from the test is painful! Exactly! I can wait a fee more days, will keep taking the temps and let's see! I feel it is a bit too late due to age maybe (but my body is working so regular and ovulating normal!) and I will have another months of course! I willl only quit by the end of the year, so in fact only one more month for the "opportunity" to have maternity leave. I might not even be able to get preggo due to the stress at work (although this month i pushed the "I don't care" button).
Wishing luck to all of you to get your BFP very soon! ❤️
@rhirhibumblebee congratulations!!! 🤞🏻 it will be alright! Wishing you all the best and dark lines quickly!

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justmumming1 · 12/11/2019 13:25

@rhirhibumblebee congrats babe! i feel nervous for you! upload a pic!!!

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rhirhibumblebee · 12/11/2019 13:27

@ElsaTam Fingers crossed, you've definitely got the right attitude! Good luck with quitting work, that will be a nice break for you for a while.

I had positives last month and then AF came as usual so I'm just worried it all happen again 😓. Hopefully not! I had a scan last week which determined I have pelvic congestion / varicose veins in my pelvis. So I'm hoping the mild pain I'm experiencing is from that and not AF! Again

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rhirhibumblebee · 12/11/2019 13:28

@justmumming1 what's the best way to upload? When I try I have to take a pic on the Mumsnet app? Then it just swirls around and around and nothing happens . I tried copy and paste and that didn't upload either 🙈

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justmumming1 · 12/11/2019 13:33

you go to type a messGe and click the paperclip button to upload it. but if you are new on mumsnet it wont let you post for a few weeks! really annoying! @rhirhibumblebee

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rhirhibumblebee · 12/11/2019 13:33

This is on safari instead of the app. Let me know if you can see it xx

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rhirhibumblebee · 12/11/2019 13:36

I did a first response and an eBay cheapie. There’s a line on the cheap one, but it’s not in the right place. Looking on google this sometimes happens? I did the cheap one first and was like what is that line doing over there ! Lol then cracked open the first response a day early 🙈. Oh I hope it sticks this time and not another chemical 😓😓

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NicLondon1 · 12/11/2019 13:51

@rhirhibumblebee Yay congrats!! Please don't worry yet about chemicals... it is still a positive! Enjoy it! x

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justmumming1 · 12/11/2019 15:02

ohhh @rhirhibumblebee 😍😍😍😍thatd an amazing line well done! i know yoi can relax just be so kind to yourself! lots of tea and sleep and vitimins! ahh so happy for you hun! im so nauseous now i threw up and my boobs are throbbing! and feel really full! im going to test on thurs and again on sun so we will see!

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NewUsername0123 · 12/11/2019 15:16

@ElsaTam don't worry your not out until af arrives so you've still got a chance hold off to test a couple of days if you can try
@rhirhibumblebee that's an amazing line congrats!!!!
How many dpo are you?
I've had a few cramps today and feeling sicky so rested but nothing I will deffo wait now until af arrives!

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rhirhibumblebee · 12/11/2019 16:16

@justmumming1 Thank you! Fingers crossed for you!!

@NewUsername0123 I'm 9 or 10 DPO so I was pretty surprised to see a line already. Thank you, fingers crossed

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gemini1234 · 12/11/2019 17:00

Congrats! Smile

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ElsaTam · 12/11/2019 19:18

@rhirhibumblebee that is such a great line! So strong! Dear, we are all with you! 🤞🏻🍀
@NewUsername0123 thank you so much hun! Ok maybe I have still a small hope inside my heart.. let's see ❤️ everything happens how it should, all is right how it is.

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justmumming1 · 13/11/2019 08:45

morning guys! anyone testing today. I feel very sick again, verge of throwing up! cant decide if i should test today! tingly nipples too and propper mood swing rage ( there may have been some road rage... i know) any one have any symptoms!
lots of love guys
think ill buy a test and do it tomorrow morning with fmu
x

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