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December bus - testing first week of december

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ceebee21 · 02/11/2019 09:43

Hi all,

AF arrived today so thought I would start a new thread....feel free to join.

First cycle since MMC and ERPC on 1st October, following BFP straight after implant removal.

Bit odd for me, first proper AF in a few years.

Hoping this is the month!

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LoveRainbow02 · 28/11/2019 19:51

I know, it's just hard to remain positive given my history. Ah what will be will be I suppose 😊🤞

meggybug · 28/11/2019 19:56

@Shuckle congratulations!!

Blooft · 28/11/2019 21:21

@LoveRainbow02 HGC hormone concentration in urine can vary in the early days, meaning that the strength of the line can vary and take until well after missed AF to result in a very dark line. That line is absolutely still very very visible, so don't fret. Easier said than done, I know, especially after MC but maybe take a clear blue in a day or so to confirm, and in the meantime, trust that line! X

Blooft · 28/11/2019 21:27

@AliSxo just been catching up on the thread and remembered we're both 8dpo tomorrow. Are you gonna test? Or wait till Saturday? I'm impatient to know, but I also really don't want a negative or a squinter!

AliSxo · 28/11/2019 21:57

I tested tonight with an IC for bfn!! But it's ok it's evening urine so wouldn't be there anyway as I didn't hold it and I was going to test tomorrow but maybe Saturday would be better? Xxx

AliSxo · 28/11/2019 21:58

I thought I could see a tiny line forming but I think I'm driving myself wild so I think I'll discount that and wait til Saturday although wouldn't surprise me if I tested with another Ic after work tomorrow xx

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AliSxo · 28/11/2019 22:28

I've compared with my OPK lines and there is a line, I'll post a photo tomorrow when I'm allowed to as I've created a new post called shadow line on the conception board if anyone can see and let me know if they can also see it xxx

LoveRainbow02 · 29/11/2019 05:21

I'm out 😔. Af arrived heavily this morning so I've had a chemical 😥. Absolutely gutted. Early mc last month and chemical this month, think I'll make an app with my gp and try get to the bottom of why this keeps happening. I've had 4 pregnancies now and only 1 has been successful. Good luck to everyone still waiting to test and those who have bfp 💕

GiraffesAreTheBest · 29/11/2019 06:46

@LoveRainbow02
Really sorry to hear this. It's such a hard thing that you're going through. Be kind to yourself and take time to rest and wallow if you need to. I hope the doc can find some answers and a way forward for you. Take care

oliwc12 · 29/11/2019 07:56

@LoveRainbow02 I’m with you 🙏🏼 I am not sure but I had brown spotting (TMI) this morning and sharp pains in my abdomen yesterday. Yesterday morning I also had the faintest line but then some family problems happened and stressed so much. Is it possible that it was a chemical?

waitingformyturn · 29/11/2019 08:18

So sorry to hear @LoveRainbow02 Thanks

whatsthecraic91 · 29/11/2019 09:08

@LoveRainbow02 so sorry to hear this, take it easy this weekend with wine and chocolate Flowers

cerios156 · 29/11/2019 09:11

I'm so so sorry @LoveRainbow02. Making a GP appointment sounds like a smart idea. Take good care of yourself and don't give up hope.

cerios156 · 29/11/2019 09:17

Tested with an IC this morning at 10 dpo…negative. Boobs started to get sore yesterday and are more so today, which is a typical AF thing for me.

Feeling distinctly not pregnant, but it’s only our first cycle trying so not a huge catastrophe. Know it’s still early, but starting to sort of mentally prepare for trying next month.

Anyone else testing soon?

Sunshinexx95 · 29/11/2019 11:39

@LoveRainbow02 I'm so sorry to hear :( ❤️❤️❤️

Sunshinexx95 · 29/11/2019 12:00

@cerios156 i am testing in few days.. maybe on Sunday 😭😭😭 but I will then just be 8dpo so maybe I should wait till Tuesday when I am 10dpo

My symptoms are
Lotion like cm since 4dpo and terrible lower back ache and felt weird on the right side then left side of my lower stomach
Bloated since yesterday 5dpo
Today 6dpo I am still bloated and still have lower back pain but not as bad but it is there.. feel cramps in lower stomach...
my period is due in 7 days
I don't have any breast symptoms ..

Jh2019 · 29/11/2019 13:11

@LoveRainbow02 so sorry Sad sending hugs...

I’m out too now, did POAS first thing, BFN, then AF arrived an hour later...gutted. Only 11DPO too, starting to worry that my luteal phase is too short. Oh well, onwards and upwards I guess and at least it won’t be a dry Christmas (looking for positives here...)

AliSxo · 29/11/2019 18:21

@LoveRainbow02 so sorry to hear, be kind to yourself this weekend xx

LoveRainbow02 · 29/11/2019 18:30

Thanks for the kind words everyone 💕. I went to my gp today and she has requested epu to refer me for testing but thinks it is unlikely as I've had a live birth after my 1st mc but had 2 since my ds. She reckons you need to have 4 or 5 before a referral can be made as the testing is expensive. I'm still getting positive tests even tho I've been bleeding heavily all day. With my previous mc's I've always returned to negative the day after bleeding and thats with me being further on 😔. Strangely thought I would have negative tests by now since it's been a chemical.

Sorry for those who have had negatives so far or for those whose af have showed 💕

December bus - testing first week of december
AliSxo · 29/11/2019 21:04

Can anyone else see a faint line, I'm 9DPO tomorrow so testing far too early I know x

December bus - testing first week of december
waitingformyturn · 29/11/2019 21:44

@AliSxo yes I've had similar on ICs though and it was just an evap 😿

AliSxo · 29/11/2019 21:59

@waitingformyturn o god the bloody dreaded indent line!! Thanks for the advice xxx

MrsTwentySeven · 29/11/2019 22:06

Just popped back to catch up on good news for you ladies
@Shuckle I'm so so pleased for you! First try right?? Congrats!!

@LoveRainbow02 I'm so sorry :( Please try not to let it affect you! x

Hitherebaby · 30/11/2019 07:40

hi @Talcott2007, sorry for the late reply and thanks for the welcome! Work has been so stressful and busy ...i've not had the chance to check this forum. Hows things?

I started testing at DPO 5... probably shouldnt have because ive been feeling down from getting BFN. :( My nipples have been feeling a tad sensitive, and im getting cramps a few seconds a day. It's not too bad at all, but usually get all these symptons before AF anyway.

Hoping for good news for us this month!

Hitherebaby · 30/11/2019 08:54

@Shuckle congratulations!!! Xx