11DPO and still getting BFN :( is there still a chance this cycle?

[HalfPenny28]

I’ve been testing since 8DPO and have had consistent BFN and a couple of evap lines. Since we BD I’ve had consistent cramping - particularly bad around the time implantation would be happening but I’m worried I’m looking for symptoms! Has anyone else got their BFP after 11DPO? I feel like I’m going mad!

@halfpenny28 Awesome I will follow her and check it out.

I know what you feel like I feel the same but we can only do what we are doing and by the sound of it we are pulling out all the stops this month.

Good luck penny atleast we are in it together x

@rosie990 I've ditched the temping already 😂 it's too much for me!

Oooo no. It didnt appeal to me either tbh.

I am just coming into my fertile window now. Used my cup last night it wasnt very attractive however got worse when my other half woke me up early hours so I had to mess about with it.

If it helps I will do it.

How are you feeling. I followed what's her name on insta going to check her out later

Xx

@rosie990 all my plans shot to shit this month.

Think I ovulated late yesterday or today. Not dtd a lot this month - DH has really struggled with the pressure this month.

I've been taking the tablets I bought and still using preseed but it's been a struggle this month.

Not holding much hope. Just a bit fed up with it all.

How're you? One week to go?

@halfpenny28 sorry to hear things havent gone well. It's getting hard isnt it.

I am due to ovulate tomorrow but I think I ovulated early I also feel the pressure is getting to much.

My partner is getting annoyed that I dont relax but how can you when you do everything around the house and work full time with a toddler.

I hope it's just the stress getting to him but I am feeling down about it

I also dont feel much luck this month x

@halfpenny28 how are you feeling? Xx

@rosie990 feeling a bit desperate - I'm 4dpo today and just don't know how long I can just 'keep trying'.

If it doesn't happen this month or next (6 month mark) I'm considering going to the GP just to check everything's okay.

It just feels like EVERYONE around me is pregnant at the moment which isn't helping.

I'm trying not to think worse case scenario but I'm starting to feel like I'll never fall pregnant at this rate. Sorry to be a Debbie downer 😭

How are you my love? How many dpo are you?

@halfpenny28 I feel the same. My sister just announced she is pregnant after 6 weeks with a random man. They arent together now either. I dont know how I feel about it all.

I wish I could go gp but ivf and that sort of help isnt available where I live so no point even trying.

Do you have any signs? Sore boobs etc

Xx

@rosie990 so hard isn't it 😭 I hate feeling resentful but I can't help it so just accept it now.

Oh that's such a shame 😟 it's so weird how there's different rules for different parts of the country. I think you get 2 ivf rounds funded where I live but I'd really really love to conceive naturally.

I had a dream last night I tested positive so was even more gutted when I woke up.

No symptoms at all, and I'm trying not to spot them if I'm honest as it just leaves me more disappointed than the last time.

How long have you got until you can test?

@halfpenny28 it really is post code lottery for ivf at the moment. Tbh I have a long way to go before I think about that.

I am also not looking for signs because each month I have felt different so god knows what I will be like the month it happens.

Did you amend your diet? I have eaten a whole pinapple in 4 days because it's supposed to be good for post ovulation.

I cant test until weekend of 23rd when period is due but I am going to wait until after and see if i am late this month. That's based on an average 37/38 day period and I know I ovulated early this month.

When can you test? Xx

@rosie990 my diet was worse last month than it was Over Christmas 😂 although I have been eating pineapple as I heard it helps implantation too!

Other than that I've not changed anything about my diet other than I don't drink now.

I don't know if I'll be able to wait to test this month, af is due 21st feb but I think I can test from Saturday with FRER.

I'm just so so bored of ttc now. I go through waves of being super down about it to not caring so I'm all over the place!

@halfpenny28 I am with you I have been so snappy this week. Trying not to symptom spot and then feeling like I should not shouldn't feel something if I was pregnant.

I dont know how much more I can try and its upsetting that it isnt happening.

I am going to wait as long as I can to test so I dony get to upset.

Just wish it would happen xx

How you feeling @rosie990 xx

I am ok @halfpenny28 how about you?

Dont feel like I will get my positive this month. My sore boobs have disappeared.

How about you? X

@rosie990 tested this morning and bfn 😟

@halfpenny28 how many dpo are you? It could be to early xxx

@rosie990 9dpo today so I think it should show - just so tired of it all xxx

@halfpenny28 I think 9dpo is still very early. You could be implanting now?

I have had abit of spotting today completely out of the blue so god know whether it's a good or bad sign xx

@rosie990 spotting seems like a good sign!

I'd like to think it was just too early but I always think that and it's never positive, I'll just wait to af now I think.

Got my fingers crossed for you 🙌🏼

@halfpenny28 I have my fingers crossed for you too. I would wait a few more days and see.

My spotting got a it heavier last night and slightly red. I put a tampon in over night and its barely there so used a pad this morning and it's literally just there when I go to the toilet.

If it's my period early its 8 days early which makes no sense and means we totally missed ovulation.

I feel really deflated like my body is out to get me at the moment. 😩

@Silvafamilia, I also stopped the pill in November and still waiting and driving myself crazy looking for symptoms, and having them, I am trying to relax now at least until af is late, I guess I didn't have periods for so long I just feel weird

@rosie990 thanks my love, been a bit down today. I know there could still be a chance but I just feel in my gut it isn't our month.

I'm really hoping this is a good sign for you 💕 have you had any other symptoms?

@rosie990 any news my love? How're you feeling? X

@halfpenny28 I am ok I have come to terms with my body playing games and my period being super early. Now focused into trying this month.

How are you doing xx

@rosie990 sorry my love :(

Af is due Friday - testing bfn so just focusing on March now. Going to look at booking a holiday for may to keep myself occupied but I'm really hoping next cycle is the one that sticks and it'll be a waste of money!