Off the mini pill this summer trying for bfp this autumn

[claireb707]

@CouscousEvaporator @Luxoire @MrsSkr

Think I'm out this month, now turned to pink spotting and my bbt dropped this morning 😢

But on a positive note, if this is my period on its way it's a week earlier than expected which means we may be able to try again this month afterall

@claireb707 is it ur period? My period was due on Tuesday and my son had surgery on Monday and i had pink and brown spotting through out the Sunday and the Monday but had no period on the Tuesday... Ur nlt out till period comes babe

I went to the toilet a couple of hours ago and when i went to wipe I had bright red blood...i have checked since and had pink cm an hour ago but nothing since...should I be worried? Go to a&E or leave it for now and see..i am still getting apasns but also had mild cramps today 😟

No I don't think it was as it had stopped by 10 am

Oh gosh @Luxoire bright red doesn't sound good

Can you ring 111? (Not sure if you are England or not as I know it's diff in Scotland)

Maybe ring 111 @Luxoire. Could it be something like fibroids?x

@claireb707 I don't know if this remotely helpful or not, my friend had awful cramping type pains after her IVF implantations. The embryo that took was more painful than the one that didn't, so maybe this might be a symptom for you?x

It is thanks @Kiki275

Just waiting and hoping again now... Will dk another test in a few days.
I'm having a glass of wine tonight and have ordered an Ava bracelet to see if it can help with the randomness of my bbt tracking

Ladies.... I had pink but nothing since then..nothing now I just checked..i am in 2 minds now as to whether to just leave it and see hoe it goes or call 111?! I am quietly anxious if that makes sense...my hubby thinks what will be will be and me stressing is not going to help matters... Hospital is a good 20mins drive I don't really want that far go sit in A&E for 3hrs only to get home at midnight and be told nothing...i just had a bar of chocolate to calm my nerves 😆

@Luxoire sorry I missed your update this morning. Hope the spotting has eased this morning. How are you? Totally understandable about not spending Sat night in A&E. Can you get an OoO GP appointment through 111 today? They might be able to refer you for an early scan?x

@Luxoire I had red spotting with my first. I went docs who sent me to the early pregnancy unit I had an internal scan which confirmed everything looked ok but had to take pregnancy tests every day to keep an I.
I am sure everything is ok, but if it was me I would call 111 just to chat for advice and to get an idea what I should keep an eye out for.

But i was very nervous pregnant women with my first.xx

Looks like period is making an appearance (bad period pain now and more heavier spotting). Which would make this cycle 26 days (last 2 have been 32 and 34).

Oh nooo @claireb707 , as you said though if it's early at least you have another chance before your cruise x

Yep it's arrived, so guess the 32 and 34 days before were just after effects of the pill, always normally around 28 days so it's still settling down there.

But yes we have another chance now before cruise

Sorry to hear that @claireb707 🙁

How are you @Luxoire? Has the bleed stopped?

Was wondering that too @CouscousEvaporator

@Luxoire how are you doing? Has the bleeding stopped?

Ladies mood sqings and spotting here still...so the red apotting stopped and turned to dark brown..lots of it...aorry TMI... So i rang 111 yesterday and they told me to go out out of houra doctors.. He basically refwrred me to the early pregnancy unit and said they'll call me today for a scan

So they call this afternoon and offered me a 9.20am scan for tomorrow morning! So thats where we are...im the meantime still have dark brown spotting...i am just gonna see how it goes

2 weeks waiting list for a booking in appointment woth the midwofe at my local GP so booked that in for 20/11

I forgot how pregnancy can take over your schedule!

I'm just exhausted and moody but generally ok...no sickness or nausea or any such thing

I'm glad you're being seen @Luxoire though it must be a really anxious wait. Hope you're holding up okay?x

Hope your scan goes ok tomorrow @Luxoire
How are you feeling?

@kiki275 I'm ok.. I think I just feel so tired and I have just resigned myself to what will be will be...like I can't control what is going on inside of my body..i am trying to not worry and leave it all to God!

@Luxoire hope everything is ok 💕

@Luxoire thinking of you. Hope all ok x

Hi everyone, I'm so sorry for the long disappearance, I have been working through a bit of a hard time and worrying alot about everything. It is definitely caused by my anxiety flare up but I think I am getting a bit better. Tbh we stopped trying as the thought of being pregnant terrified me but now I am in two minds. I havnt been tracking anything or using opks so no idea where I am but we dtd on Sat night and I realised afterwards I am in my fertile window. I had brown discharge on Sat and Mon....

Anyway, enough about me!! @Luxoire CONGRATULATIONS!! I'm so sorry it's so late and I'm sorry you are having some worries. I hope your scan went well today? I had bleeding throughout pregnancy with my daughter but I know how worrying it can be. I hope you are ok?

How is everyone else getting ok? xxx

Welcome back @MrsSkr glad you feeling slightly better with things. Fingers crossed for you.

We were going to give this month a miss because if I was to conceive due date would be a week before my sisters wedding, however today I have so much ewcm more than usual, and I keep wondering whether this could be a sign that it could be a good month to conceive lol. If I was to be 11 days early like my first it would be perfect timing lol.

Welcome back @MrsSkr sorry to hear you've had a tough time

@Luxoire how was the scan lovely?

I'm on cd3 and have had 2 days of the most horrendous period pain I think I've ever had. Been heavier than I am normally too so no idea what's going on there. Hopefully will be done by tomorrow 🤞

@Zm2019 I think the babies know when they have to stay in. Two of my friends both went into labour immediately after weddings (I think the dancing encourages them). My niece was due two days before mine; brother was giving me away, SIL originally a bridesmaid and oldest DN was a flower girl. I had a word with bump and she dutifully arrived 3 weeks early x

LADIES ALL YOUE MSGA HAVE MADE ME SIT HERE BLUBBERING...YOU ARR THE BEAT SISTERHOOD OF SUPPORT ANY GIRL COULD HAVE IN THE VIRTUAL WORLD.. I hope you all catch.

My scan went ok...so baby is fine...ot was tucked away in a corner so they couldnt really see iy but could see the rapid heartbeat ehich ia great news...however they found a tear in the uterine linning..it ia not near the sac so they are not overly worried yet! Bcos my cycles are so short 27days they think if it were any kind of implantation wound it ahould have healed by now....thwy want to keep monitoring the wound to make sure it heals and keep an eye on the baby to make sure it ia not affecting anything...ap I am due to go in for another scan in 2 weeks!! I know there is nothing I can do about it really!!!

@MrsSkr its great to have u back and feeling better...aww babe. Good luck I hope u catch in thia fertile window sometimes not trying means ur more relaxed! I know what u mean though about being scared I am still processing my anxiety and fear at having 3 kids and coping with being pregnant and having 2 kids lol..so far this one has been kind and no nausea aickness or abything just the tiredness and slow digestion

@claireb707 @Zm2019 @Kiki275 thank you all so much. How are you all? Sorry i have been quiet, trying to process things lol