Two week wait...again

[BabyB19]

Hi mums/mumstobe, I’m currently in the two week wait after having a MMC (missed miscarriage) in June at 12 weeks. After a 10 week bleed I have settled into what seems to be a normal cycle again appx27/28 days. I’m saying I’m in the two week wait but I’m unsure if I’ve even OV. Anyone want to keep me company as I’m going out of my mind and feel like I’m boring the real people in my life 🤦🏽‍♀️

@tbug @BabyB19 @ceebee21 I was due on yesterday IC still negative still no AF if I haven’t come on by tomorrow I’ll do a frer Thursday.It’s had to keep hopeful. I’ve been a moody cow so I expect AF to come. @tbug what are you testing with

@BabyB19 no idea really, last month it came 11DPO, so may well be tomorrow... other than that no real AF in years due to implant.

I agree @ChampooPapi as soon as you have done one, there is no stopping you. I would love to just hold out until AF is late, although I would also love to know when that is.

I guess if AF arrives tomorrow, I know I have a 25 day cycle, and if it doesn't who knows!!

ICs but ran out so had to use a CB lol what a waste xx

@tbug this being late is horrible especially with bfn as well when will you test again.

Af has arrived, why am I so relieved and happy 🤔

Really wanted to get started again as soon as I physically could after d&c, just wanted to be pregnant again so much. But now I am so totally relieved I'm not.

This is a confusing and conflicting feeling. I still despairatly want to get pregnant and have another baby, but I am so pleased to be ttc conceive I'm December. I really think it's to do with maybe knowing my body is back to a regular cycle perhaps? And being capable over Christmas , I am useless in those early pregnancy stages.

December bus here I come ladies

@ChampooPapi sorry to hear AF arrived, but glad to hear you are ok about it. I was in a similar position after my D&C.

The desperation of wanting to be pregnant again is significant, but it is also good to know that your body is actually back in it's cycle... you hear of so many people having D&C's/MC and AF not arriving for months, which really must be torture.

At least you know you can try again now, and can enjoy the December festivities without having to worry (too much!).

x

Sorry for the bfns and af. Still got my fingers crossed for you waiting. Day 3 for me of an extra heavy af which is always fun. Bring on the tww again😂haha x

Well I'm in a pickle. I had one day of spotting last week and that was it but today I've had more bleeding, which seems to be a tiny bit heavier, so should I count from last week or today as day1? 😭😭😭 why is nothing ever straight forward!!!

@BabyB19 ahh no idea?! Are you doing OPK's this month... I feel like you should just so you know what is going on!
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I started this morning funnily enough @ceebee21 I would say this should be more like the right time as it's 29 days, whereas last week was 25/26ish. I'd be happier with today tbh as it seems like a better cycle length doesn't it x

@ceebee21 oh absolutely , you've got the nail on the head. I was starting to worry that I'd test in a couple of weeks and it would be negative but still no period would show. Now that is not a good situation. You either want to be pregnant or not, not in purgatory. That must be so awful.

It was really good to see your response @ceebee21, I appreciate you taking the time to empathize with me, I needed that without knowing it today. How are you getting on generally? Was your d&c back I'm September?

@ChampooPapi That's no problem, as bad as it sounds, it is nice to know you are not alone with what you are going through, and that it really is very common.

I have mine on 1st October - I went for a scan at what should have been 9 weeks on Friday 13th September.. and it dragged from then. I managed to go privately through my work health insurance, otherwise NHS couldn't get me in until 8th October!. Generally I am ok actually, I wasn't ok on that Friday, nor the Saturday, but after that something just clicked and I accepted what had happened, and was very ready to move on.

But now, I am struggling to accept that it is not going to happen as quickly as it did before - that is just painful x

@ceebee21 that is a grim situation, so much time to think and feel, so much time to be in that limbo. Its over now but somehow there is that nagging feeling that it'll never be over, maybe we both think another pregnancy will make it come to some kind conclusion, but I think realistically it's a time issue more then anything. It's just going to take time, so having each other is a god send because it just gets us through those days, tland more importantly, those hours where we just feel overwhelmed & frozen in those moments of remembering.

I'm back at the start now officially, so I really feel like I've gone backwards, but I am looking forward and that is the most important thing to do, keep trucking ✊🤗

@ChampooPapi yes, we went for follow up scan the week after on the 20th and because there was a 1mm change (bearing in mind I'm already measuring at 5 weeks, let alone 10 weeks), the wanted me to come back 2 weeks later!!! I rung them after and said I cannot wait 2 weeks, and made them change it to the week after where it was finally confirmed on the 27th!

It just felt like such a long process, and I was just ready for it to be over with and have some kind of closure. It is hard. xx

Its good to hear everyone’s experience with trying to conceive and to realise that everyone’s journey is so different. @BabyB19 yes I’d count from today as it’s heavier. I’m on cycle day 28 but still waiting for AF.

That would put me exactly back on track with you then wouldn't it @Jonesbabynumber1 which is where I should be going from our last cycle. Which makes me much happier as it was so early last week x

@BabyB19 yes same cycle. I won’t be surprised if I’ll be joining you with AF tomorrow.

Somethings got to give either way for you soon hasn't it @Jonesbabynumber1 either way, AF so you can move on or a bfp!

@BabyB19 yes one needs to give and soon 😩

@BabyB19 don’t want to get too excited but looked at my IC From this morning and there is such a very faint line and after about ten which have been totally blank it’s hard not to be excited. Aw god I hope this isn’t false hope

Ahh I really hope it is! Fingers crossed @Jonesbabynumber1 let us know immediately in the morning!! 🤣🤞🏼

@BabyB19 Thank you. I haven’t even told DH. So you are first to know. yes I’ll be breaking out the frer tomorrow. It’s so hard not to get excited but after the CP. God I hope it is

@Jonesbabynumber1 Ahhhhh yes use an FRER ASAP!!!

fingers crossed it is a BFP for you xx

@BabyB19 @ceebee I’m at cinema I’m going to try and may try and hold wee and do another ic when I get home my hearts racing but good that I got a distraction for hour or two x

@Jonesbabynumber1 I'll be watching for your update 😆. Got everything crossed for you xx