November Bus - testing first week of November 2019

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Hi all.

I'm out this month so I thought I would start the next bus. I hope it's our month.

TTC #2
Age 33
Cycle 6
Due / BFP 5 November

Fingers crossed for all.

@HopingforfirstBFP when are you due? Why do you think you're out this month? Fingers crossed that's not the case xx

@Nic555 yay testing buddy!

@Nic555 I’m 7 or 8dpo today. Not 100% sure when I ovulated this month though so can’t be certain.

@TeeBagg I’m due either 7th or 8th but could be anytime from 4th as I’m never regular. No particular reason why I think I’m out just don’t think it’s our month. Also don’t want to get my hopes up

This is heart breaking every month! AF has started to show her ugly face!

Congratulations to all the positives guys, wishing you a healthy happy pregnancies

@wantingformytime I'm in exactly the same place as you. I'm 11dpo and at usually arrives 12dpo. I have noticed the usual yellowish pre-af discharge. I know it's not my time. I wonder if it ever will. It's out of my hands. I know there is no reason it should be my time when there are so many people out there that also want the same. Why should it be me? But it's so hard. I'm 34, married for 7 years. I have lots of god children that I adore and lots of friends with babies. This week a friend has announced they are expecting their second. I don't have one friend with just one baby, they're all on multiples. I've never even had a positive test. I feel so sad. But I don't stress about it or obsess, I just ask it be me one day please

Help me decide!!! I'm only 7/8 dpo but couldn't help myself! Partner is on hols for half term with his children this week so I have no one to share with

@wantingformytime @Mycrazylife85 so sorry to hear you think the witch is on her way. It's so easier to think it'll never happen to us but others have felt the same and it did. It may just take us a little longer. Praying you both get a positive soon. Xx

@Crazywheeloflife I think I can see something but it's really too early to tell. Fingers crossed 🤞 xx

@wantingformytime and @Mycrazylife85 I feel so sad reading what you wrote. I really hope it's your turn soon.

I just ran to the toilet convinced the witch had arrived but she hadn't! It must have been CM I could feel or something.

@teebagg I was just the same felt a bit wet 🙈 but just CM can't remember if this is normal for just before AF or not xx

I caved and took a test it was BFN but 11dpo and not FMU. Still got me upset though ☹️

@TeeBagg thanks! I’m actually doing ok, there’s no point on dwelling on it as it was the first month. AF feeling like it’s the worst one ever sitting here with a hot water bottle on my tummy. Best wishes to all you ladies left waiting! Stay positive ♥️

@Crazywheeloflife I think I can see a line!! Especially when I zoom in. Test again tomorrow with FMU. I really hope it is for you.

@Nic555 got everything crossed for you, I'm on cd10 tomorrow so I'm back to focusing on dtd as much as possible. I'm starting my first clear blue opk tomorrow, and I haven't temped at all so this month to try relax me more. Excited to use the clear blue and hopefully get more confidence I'm doing it at the right time.

@TeeBagg I really hope af doesn't show up for you and you get your BFP with @Nic555 fingers crossed girls.

@waitingformyturn I know exactly how you feel, it's been a long journey for me so far and I've never had a BFP. it is heartbreaking every month, but once again af is out of the way you will be back thinking positive again ready for the next cycle, because that's what us women do. We crack on and we will get that baby eventually ❤️

Defo think I'm out did a FRER yesterday and not even a hint of a line. AF feels like she's gonna turn up today - three days early 😡

I’m due Sunday or Monday but I’m pretty sure I am out. My boobs are not hurting (although they are still massive) any more and cramps have stopped.
Whatever will be will be and I’m not going to test early to confirm 🙈 (repeats to self!)

@Maisy24 thank you. It's the exciting time of your cycle at the moment 😊 fingers crossed for you. I quite like the end of the 2WW and finding out either way. I'm 11 DPO today and at this point last cycle I was spotting so I'm pleased at least that my luteal phase is longer.

@SallyCinnamon3009 how many DPO are you? Still time. I've read lots of people felt she was on the way and then got a positive. You really just don't know.

@CouscousEvaporator does sound like you have some positive signs. You're not out until Af arrive.

@waitingformyturn still time for you as well 🤞

Really hoping for some BFP in the next couple of days xx

TTC can be a long and painfully hard journey but keep going ladies, even if we’re out this month keep going and remember we’re all in this together!

Good luck to those with positive tests and positive symptoms!!

Have a fabulous Friday and a wonderful weekend 😊

@Nic555 I'm about 12 days I think. Fingers crossed and thank you x

My emotions are ALL over the place today. Roll on the weekend. FC for everyone 🤞🏼

@waitingformyturn when are you going to test again?

I feel really anxious and shaky today. I'm starting to feel like I could actually be pregnant, so if I'm not it's going to be a huge disappointment. I really don't want to be getting my hopes up but there's no sign of AF still today and my boobs are really sore.

Keeping everything crossed @teebagg

@teebagg are you still waiting for the morning to test? I feel the same I felt so sick all yesterday and throughout the night my mum text to say did I think it was a bug or morning sickness 😂 I feel OK today and sure it was probably just a bug but makes you think and question yourself. I hate the TWW this has been the worse one x

@TeeBagg I'm going to wait until after Sunday now can't face the disappointment again ☹️ really looking forward to the weekend 😃

@CouscousEvaporator thank you!

@waitingformyturn sounds sensible. I hope you've got a good weekend planned to take your mind off it.

@Nic555 I don't know! I'm not sure if I can bear to wait. But on the other hand, I'm scared to not use FMU just in case it makes a difference. I'm buying a test this afternoon and it will be just sitting there calling me! How about you?

@TeeBagg I was the same yesterday and I think I made the error of not using FMU try and hold until tomorrow if you can x

It’s very faint but there’s a definite line there! I tested this morning on a pink dye and it came up negative. This is a Sainsbury’s one which is more sensitive and there’s a line! I’m either 8 or 9 dpo today.