November Bus - testing first week of November 2019

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Hi all.

I'm out this month so I thought I would start the next bus. I hope it's our month.

TTC #2
Age 33
Cycle 6
Due / BFP 5 November

Fingers crossed for all.

@waitingformyturn God your sil sounds a nightmare. If you're not using protection then in my eyes you're either trying or you're stupid. Totally unfair to be saying that to you. Very insensitive . X

How is everyone holding up? I'm 6/7 dpo now and the will to test is strong. Although my temp chart is ugly so no real chance of pregnancy again I don't think

@Nic555 @GoAwayAF @MrsD0147 thanks for the support feels good to rant on here 💗

@MrsD0147 I'm massively resisting the urge to test now! Desperately trying to hold out for a missed af.

DH has picked up on how moody I'm being - I think he's worried about me - but I just can't help it this close to af. The rest of the month I'm positive and fine.

I'm always moody at this time of the month too. Too much pressure and anxiety

Well girls, that’s a BFN for me.
It’s weird how it happened, tmi as usual, I peed in the cup and as I was waiting for it to come up, I wiped & there was a little bit of brown CM. So I knew straight away that only one line was arriving on that stick. But if a waste really.
1st cycle so I knew it was going to be a long shot.

Best of luck to you all, you’ve been a great support to me this cycle.

Ah that's really rubbish @Plaw if it helps I've had something really similar last cycle and it's crap. I was so annoyed I wasted a test.

I had a look through my flo app and most cycles af arrives 12 dpo although last month I had brown spotting from 10do until I had fresh af arrived at day 14. I'm 10dpo. We managed to dtd on positive OPK day but that was that. Never mind

@plaw Aw that's so annoying hope you're feeling OK about it? And at least you know more about how your body works ready for your next cycle.

@Mycrazylife85 same here. Af usually arrives 12 DPO last month I had spotting from 10DPO which is tomorrow. I don't mind too much if she arrives but rather it be Saturday so my luteal phase is longer.

I keep thinking she is going to arrive tonight. No idea why. I think I'm imagining AF symptoms like I imagine pregnancy symptoms. I do feel a little more naggy but surely we aren't all just naggy when AF is due and I could just be tired. Last few months she gave me no warning really no pain nothing. Last month I just felt snappy and literally a pain for a second and then she came. Month before no warning at all xx

@Nic555 I’m definitely sad about it but I’m trying to put the big girl pants on and tell myself that it was the first cycle. And I know lots more now, going to order some opks online now so maybe we have a better idea next month!

Hoping to see some positives from you all!😀

@plaw I know how you feel. I didn't expect to get a positive my first month but at same time I was disappointed. It's so difficult. Once AF buggers off again you'll start feeling so much more positive xx

@waitingformyturn how long do you have to wait? AF is due Friday for me but I am so tempted to do a FRER in the morning! Know I shouldn’t though!

My DH is the same he gets worried each month I think but probably because I get more crazy.

@MrsD0147 I'm due on Saturday. Last month af can exactly 14dpo so I'm assuming for the same this month. I'm really not feeling any signs of it so far though. I'm hoping I didn't get my ov date wrong.

@MrsD0147 sorry meant to say Sunday I'm getting mixed up with last month!

@Nic555 that's a true thing. A few days of moping and then I feel better. I'm already feeling really down tonight because deep down I know AF is knocking. I have never ever taken a PT thinking It may say anything other than negative 😔

So I cracked and tested. I’m 7dpo but have been feeling very dizzy the last couple of days. I was doing the children’s bedtime at the time so wasn’t fully concentrating and I was expecting a negative. Nothing appeared in the first few minutes. I stupidly didn’t look at the time and as nothing came up immediately, as it did when I did tests the last time, I put it down. Went to bed two hours later and there is a very faint blue line. It’s possible it’s an evaporation line but these aren’t supposed to be blue. Does anyone have any idea? I probably just need to test again in a couple of days.

@12goldstars ahh I was so excited when I first saw the pic! It might be an evap though I'd test again in a few days if you're only 7dpo. FC for you 🤞🏼

@12goldstars definitely a line there but with it being so early and over the time limit i wouldn't trust it.

I've got the worse sore throat. Still think AF is imminent. I may test tomorrow. First month I've ever had the urge to test and probably because I have some in the house. Would rather wait until Saturday but not sure if I can hold out. Usually when I decided to test AF arrives so she'll probably be here soon 😂 xx

I've got a sore throat today also @Nic555 I woke up a few times with cramp in my left ovary and today I have a bit of a sore back. Nipples feel hot today and sore. 11dpo and period usually arrives 12dpo. I reckon that'll be right. 😏

Is it ok if I join in?

Af due 8th November and I'm 7dpo I think, temping for the first time this month which is really confusing me. Had positive opk on 22nd and 23rd plus a static smiley on 22nd.

Symptom spotting like crazy!! Feel like a crazy lady

@Crazywheeloflife welcome! 👋🏻

I woke up today with a blocked nose and pressing head ache - seems to have got much better now I'm up though. My FMU smelt sweet too!

Normally I drink coffee every morning but the past couple of days I haven't fancied it at all and have switched to tea...

Clutching at straws 😹

@Plaw I'm so sorry to hear that. I hope you're OK xx

My period is due around now. Every time I got for an wee I get really anxious in case I find AF is here. Nothing so far though. The last week or so the area around my old c section scar has got really chubby. It might just be that I've been eating too much! But I do wonder if things are starting to swell inside.

@Mycrazylife85 my sore throat is making me feel Sick . So annoying. I'm off work today and have no plans so really hoping the day doesn't drag. I want to get to tomorrow at least before AF arrives.

@teebagg when do you think you'll test? I'm the same worried AF will arrive keep watching out for any little twinge x

@waitingformyturn I am the same usually love my cups of tea in morning but tasted disgusting today. I'm sure that's just my sore throat though x

@Nic555 if AF doesn't show tomorrow I'll buy a test on the way home from work. Then if she still hasn't shown by Saturday I'll test with FMU Saturday morning. I am applauding my own self control here! You should hang on until Saturday and we can test together!!

Is anybody testing at the start of next week? I’m still unsure when to test. Although I’m fairly certain it will be a BFN anyway so doesn’t matter when I test

@teebagg that's my decision made. I'll test Saturday if she hasn't arrived by then. As that's 12DPO and she usually arrives by mid day. I was only tempted by tomorrow because it's two years since we bought out house.

@HopingforfirstBFP how many DPO are you now? It's so hard to decide. I've never tested before AF always arrives just after I've decided to get some tests. This is the first month I've had some in which makes it hard to resist xx