TTC after Miscarriage

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Hi ladies,

I suffered a silent miscarriage end of October and was just looking to start a thread for ladies in a similar position to me, who are trying to conceive at the moment. Would be lovely to have some support and guidance.

xx

@Em39ma those digital date tests are famously inaccurate, however if your HGC levels are very high, you might be earlier on but with multiples? That would explain AF and then conception. Congratulations x

Yes I know there inaccurate, but I did some research and the more likely to be further along than less.
I never got 2-3 last time, so it could be just right this time for hcg.
There’s multiples on both sides of the family so it has crossed our minds.

I was 2-3 too like JUST 4 weeks after first day of AF

If you google Clearblue pregnancy test with weeks indiactor professional leaflets or along those lines you can see the HCG thresholds themselves which I found quite useful to understand why it comes up the way it does

AF turned up in its glory last night. I knew it was coming. Oh well. On to the next cycle for me. Will try and focus on all the lovely things I have and be grateful.

Wow @Em39ma i think it sounds like twins. Do keep us posted. Great that your HCG levels are as high.

How is everyone else doing? Anyone near test day? Wishing you lots of luck.

How’s it going everyone?
@em39ma, @chocolatecake08
I’m getting over nausea but now oh so tired! Got my private scan this week x

@lnfb

I feel absolutely sick as a dog🤢xx

@chocolatecake08 Oh dear :( My main thing has been food aversion and grumbling nausea which properly reared up about a month ago. Seems to be settling now around the 9 week mark. Have you been to doctor? xx

I’m feeling rather nauseous, keep gagging but not vomiting.
I’m tired, but that could be the thyroid problem too.
Seeing the midwife on Tuesday, because I’m old and after the miscarriage, I have to be seen sooner rather than later.

@Em39ma Hope your midwife appointment goes well on Tuesday xx

@lnfb been to doctors and they said it should ease of but hasnt yet,

Hope all is well for you xx

@Em39ma

All very exciting, so happy for you xx

Thank you @chocolatecake08
I really didn’t think I had fallen this month, just goes if you stop thinking it happens

@Em39ma let us know how you get on x

I'm anxious about my scan on Thursday but trying to be positive about it xxx

I will do.
Just had a bit of a panic.
Just got tummy pain, like when AF starting, I had an upset tummy (tmi)
But I think brain started to think I was , made me feel so bad.
Sorry, think it is all sinking in.

@Em39ma it's a very anxious time and I am the same whenever I get cramps but it's very normal in pregnancy. I've also had a lot of upset stomachs too xx

I know, I think my head just went somewhere I didn’t want it too.
Did wonder if it is related to having higher hcg this time.
Mums morning sickness was very like having gastric flu.

Yeah I seem to be more affected by diarrhoea and nausea but no vomiting. Xx

That what I’m like at the moment. Was expecting the vomiting, but not the diarrhoea. Until now been more the other way.

@chocolatecake08 hey missus, was thinking of you earlier! How's everything going? Ok I hope xx

@Dianebz1

I was just wondering how you were before! Freaky.

All is fine atm had a few scares nothing major. How have you been??? X

@chocolatecake08 that's good! Yeah I'm fine, still no sign of AF since the last time! I took one test 2 days ago but it was negative so maybe my cycles messed up! I'm so glad your ok xx

Fingers crossed for you🤞🏼my period took about 6 weeks to return last time xx

@chocolatecake08 yeah mines always usually returns to normal, I just got me thinking! Usually I get sore boobs, cramping etc when AF is due but so far Iv had nothing so I don't feel like it's going to arrive. It so confusing. I wish I had kept the test as I binned it after a few minutes, time will tell I suppose! I'm 5 days late xx