TTC after Miscarriage

[pandaobsessed]

Hi ladies,

I suffered a silent miscarriage end of October and was just looking to start a thread for ladies in a similar position to me, who are trying to conceive at the moment. Would be lovely to have some support and guidance.

xx

@pandaobsessed hope you feel better shortly ❤️

@pandaobsessed I hope the bath helps you feel a little better xx

I’m having a really tired day.
Can’t blame the puppy she is really good and sleeps through.
I assume it is the thyroid problem, it like I’ve been drugged.

Is it an over active thyroid? X

@Em39ma

Please can I join you?

I'm 31, TTC#1. Had a CP at 4 weeks, a CP at 5 weeks and a MMC at 6+3 (discovered at 11+6). This has all happened since June, and I'm exhausted.

Today we met a family member's new born baby for the first time (lots of holding baby and posing for pictures) which was tortuous - although obviously I smiled and participated as expected.

We decided to try one more time this month, before our first RMC appointment at the end of next month. AF is due tomorrow and I got another negative test today. So I'm quite tearful this evening and DH doesn't understand (and I think he's given up trying to to be honest).

X

@jacquesjacques

All my love ❤️

You will get there xx

@jacquesjacques so sorry for all your losses, can understand how you feel exhausted. And the baby holding is so draining isn't it? I've been tearful all day after a dinner with friends where there was non stop baby talk. My DH is amazing but just says we need to be patient, but each month feels like torture. Totally get you xx

Underactive thyroid @chocolatecake08. Means losing weight is hard and get tired very easily.
Not use to it, I’ve always been known as the energizer bunny.
Up until October I was always out exercising, working, running my business along side. Finding the tiredness quite debilitating.

@Em39ma i had an over active thyroid and had surgery to fix it, is that an option?

Thank you @chocolatecake08, laid in bed with af cramps feeling so desperately sad, your kindness really means a lot.

@glowingtwigs big hugs to you, it's just so hard and the sadness can feel very isolating. I know the world cannot revolve around our situation, but sometimes it feels like everybody has forgotten how much you're hurting.

@chocolatecake08
They are just watching it at the moment!
Will give me medication and other options if still a problem in 3 months.
Trouble is when you are TTC they say it might not be possible,if you have an untreated underactive thyroid. So I’m going back to see someone again next week and see if I can something done sooner rather than later.

@jacquesjacques let me know how you get on xx

@Em39ma

Hopefully you will get it sorted xx

A little update from me. I was rushed into hospital by ambulance last night due to extreme cramping and sharp pains. So much so I was projectile vomiting from the pain. They did a pregnancy test in the hospital and it was negative, with my blood test only showing a low level of pregnancy hormone. So looks like bad news after all the bleeding, which we completely expected to be honest. Got to take a pregnancy test again in a weeks time just to double check. It’s try again for this lady 💕

Oh @pandaobsessed I'm so, so sorry. I know how exhausted you must be feeling, and just want to give you a massive hug. Please be kind to yourself and let DH take care of you, it's a horrible, shitty thing to go through anyway but sounds like you've has quite the shock on top of it all. Here whenever you need a rant or a cry.

I’m sorry @pandaobessed
I was rushed to hospital with mine too, so understand it’s not the best feeling.
Hopefully after a few weeks you can get back to ttc.

@pandaobsessed so sorry that you have had to experience such a trauma. Hope you get some time to take it easy. X

So, so sorry to hear this @pandaobsessed. Take good care of yourself xx

@pandaobsessed 💔

Take care ❤️

Thank you ladies 💕 DH has been absolutely amazing bless him. Don't know what I'd do without him. Been sleeping most of the day thanks to my mum who has been here looking after my son. I'll be joining you on the TTC journey soon 😊

Where is everyone in their cycle at the moment? Anyone approaching AF?

@pandaobsessed look after yourself. What a horrible start to the week. It can only get better x

I did a test yesterday and it was negative (the first negative since the mc). I knew it was going to be negative but was still in a super bad mood all day. Poor DP for having to put up with me!

I’m half way through my fertility window according to my app.
So will be starting my 2 week wait soon

Glad you're looking after yourself and being looked after @pandaobsessed xxx
I'm 6 DPO... trying and failing at not symptom spotting.

Thinking of you @pandaobsessed. Hope you are recovering well lovely xx

My 2 week wait starts today. Will have to see is AF turns up on time this month