TTC after Miscarriage

[pandaobsessed]

Hi ladies,

I suffered a silent miscarriage end of October and was just looking to start a thread for ladies in a similar position to me, who are trying to conceive at the moment. Would be lovely to have some support and guidance.

xx

Good morning all
Well today’s my birthday (40) OH way for work, puppy doesn’t come home until tomorrow.
So what am I doing with my day.
I’m cleaning, picking up my van from the garage ( I run my own company, designing and making children’s clothes)
Doing the weekly shop, and running outside in just a dressing gown, because I forgot to put the bins out.
I seriously live a very rock and roll lifestyle 😂😂😂😂
Hope you are all living the dream too.

Morning em39ma
Not a good day today, its my girls due date today :(
Also, 3 days since the 2 year anniversary of my miscarriage of my twins. Just checked my ovia app and realised that my next period is due 22nd February, which will be the one year anniversary of the miscarriage i had last year.
Got the funeral on Monday, and everything just seems so shit.

@chocolatecake08
The NHS are sticklers-I think it's three consecutive miscarriages that warrants further investigations and additional testing in pregnancy. So difficult for the people who go through these losses though :(

How are you getting on @chocolatecake08? xx

@ironytheoppositeofwrinkly
So sorry, I had a moment yesterday when shopping with my mum
Saw something in a shop that set me off.
So getting to anniversaries is always hard

@Em39ma HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!

@Ironytheoppositeofwrinkly Hope you're doing ok. Thinking of you x

Thank you ladies. How are you all today? Where is everyone in their cycles? Anyone close to testing?

Did op test, not yet. Which is good, as OH isn’t back until tomorrow.
I’m checking each day to hopefully get a positive

@lnfb feel really poorly today☹️

@Em39ma good luck xxx

@chocolatecake08
Sorry you are feeling poorly today

@chocolatecake08 awww I'm sorry you're not feeling well :'( xx

@Em39ma

@lnfb

How are you all?? X

I’m good today @chocolatecake08
Just picked the puppy up.
Will do another OV test later, I don’t think it is due for another couple of days, but want to see if I can see a positive ov

@Em39ma is the puppy home for good now? X

Yep, all 8 weeks of squishy ness.
Going to introduce her to mum cocker spaniel, he stayed with my mum when we moved as there inseparable

@chocolatecake08 I'm doing okay thanks, how are you? It's so cold though, just want to stay in all the time. I've been having major food aversions for the last week or so xx

She is adorable!! Hope everyone is doing ok and has a nice weekend ahead of them x

Aw cute🥰 @Em39ma

@lnfb Yeah me too, felt really poorly with head aches and things🤢

@Kelpies you too! X

Hi ladies, I've been a bit dormant from this post after receiving my positive pregnancy test (which I posted on here). After having a MMC in November, it seems I'm currently going through another miscarriage/chemical pregnancy. I'm roughly 5weeks along and I've had some heavy bleeding, which started lightly last night. Having sharp cramps now too. Can't help but think we got pregnant too soon 😢😢 or that my previous c-section has had something to do with it? 😞

@pandaobsessed

💔💔💔

Have you spoken to hospital or anything?? X

@chocolatecake08 no I haven't yet. I know with the MMC at 11 weeks (even though baby had stopped growing very early on - as nothing was in the sac), the hospital really wasn't much help 😢 until I had the surgical management. I have an appointment booked with my Dr on Tuesday, so may speak about the bleeding then. Not sure what a hospital could do for me? 😞

@pandaobsessed previously i had to have a scan to make sure everything had been passed naturally.

Other times i was treat awfully at the hospital so do what you feels best x

@chocolatecake08 I'm hoping the doctor can refer me for a scan. But when I went to the EPU before, they couldn't get me a scan until a week later. It's such a shame. I know the NHS are having cut-backs and are under pressure, but the way miscarriages are dealt with are really quite poor 😞 the nurses do try their best though. Not sure what is best 😢

@pandaobsessed that happened to me when i was bleeding i had to wait a week for a scan i ended up paying for a private.

If you feel you need to know and can afford get a private scan x

@pandaobsessed I'm so sorry to hear this hun, you poor thing. Please don't blame yourself or think you did anything wrong at all. These things are so sadly completely out of her control and nothing to do with falling pregnant too early or previous c-section etc. Sending you cuddles, take care of yourself xxxxx