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Lammoshay · 06/01/2019 16:38

Hi lovelies
Started actively trying this month so thought it would be nice if anyone wanted a journey buddy.
I’m 35, DH is 42.
Had 2 pregnancies in past (2002,2011) ending in MC
Married now for 9years so yeah looking to start a lil family.
Currently 2dpo and wait is already horrendous and symptom spotting is in place 😂
So tell me all about you and your journey 💋

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Lammoshay · 15/01/2019 13:52

I hear ya ladies about limbo land, I know af is coming but again I felt sick- I’m going to be so cross at her when she is here!

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hopeful31 · 15/01/2019 19:13

@Lammoshay is ur af due tomorrow? There's hope. It ain't over till she cry's her bloody river 😂😂

Louise392 · 15/01/2019 20:58

@hopeful31 its due on Saturday, i have a load of one step tests still left from last month that i am slowly burning down, all bfn's so far!
Ordered some FRER today ready.
What tests have you been using?

@lammoshay i hate it! How many dpo are you? Hopefully she doesnt show.

hopeful31 · 15/01/2019 21:08

@Louise392 I've been using frer too. I'm out a small fortune . I'm going to try to hold off now until Thursday or Friday. I'm due tomorrow and all my cramps have totally disappeared so I'm hoping it's a good sign! Good luck!! Keep us updated.

I swear I feel pregnant and my boobs r really sore

Louise392 · 15/01/2019 21:36

@hopeful31 some people have said on here that they lost all of their symptoms and still got a BFP so fingers crossed its a good thing for you.
My hunger has ramped up today, had cereal before the school run then had a maccys brekkie on the way back lol.

My taste buds have gone weird too, Had my usual soup for dinner tomato and basil and it tasted horrible, threw it away and vimto which i usually drink loads of doesnt taste the same either so switched to strawberry Ribena, thats ok for the time being.

What symptoms have you had up until now?

hopeful31 · 15/01/2019 21:41

@Louise392 that seems like good signs for u!! Fingers crossed!
I've had cramps. A light pink bit of spotting 10 days ago. Sore and sensitive nipples. Lots of nausea ( although im a teacher and when there's bugs going about I seem to get little tasters so it could be that) only time will really tell for me now . And I don't have great patience for things I can't control lol

Louise392 · 15/01/2019 21:50

@hopeful31 You have had some good signs then, I have had so many cramps, sharp pains etc but have not had any pink/brown spotting only some yellow tinged cm on dpo 4 and 5.

That is the problem with working with kids, i used to work in nurseries and schools as a TA and used to get their germs.

I am the same, hate being out of control, wish it would just show on a test already!

Lammoshay · 16/01/2019 00:19

@louise I’m due AF tomorrow and according to flo 14dpo but still getting BFN even on clearblue and FR :(
I have cramps as if period is coming, sore underarms but not boobs which is usually the latter, and sicky feeling.
Surely at 14dpo something would be showing so that’s why I think I’m out x

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Katie199 · 16/01/2019 02:59

In my opinion there is no point trying to symptom stop during the 2ww as every pregnancy is completely different, take it from me in my first pregnancy which ended in mc at 5 weeks I had every symptom in the book by 3 weeks, I am currently 7 weeks pregnant again and have no symptoms what so ever yet only now starting to feel a little bit pregnant but wouldn't of know I was pregnant if I hadn't missed period as there was no signs and thought I'd notice as iv been through this before, so just hold back and stop worrying as hard as it sounds every person has a different experience and every single pregnancy is completely different :)

hopeful31 · 16/01/2019 06:55

@Louise392 @Lammoshay at least the wait is almost over for us and we should know soon enough for this month. Xx

@Lammoshay I'm 19dpo but I'm holding out hope until af shows x

foreverthe2ww · 16/01/2019 07:19

@hopeful31 any news? .. just been reading through this post so now im curious haha :) fingers crossed for you and everyone else in this January tww x

hopeful31 · 16/01/2019 07:41

@foreverthe2ww not yet. I'm going to wait and do a test tomorrow. But I've woke up with no Af cramps so please let that be a good sign because I would usually get plenty of them.
I'm so afraid and excited, mainly anxious.

hopeful31 · 16/01/2019 07:41

@foreverthe2ww how are u getting on?

foreverthe2ww · 16/01/2019 07:55

@hopeful31 good plan, holding off just makes it better all around, gives the hcg time to build up or af to show without having to see a bfn, it sounds pretty promising from what I have read with the hot nipples! ha ... i am due saturday and currently still feel nothing either way, im starting to think maybe i didnt even ovulate or something and maybe i just wont even have a period either lol but also :,( .. i tested this morning on a boots own cheapie and it was very much a bfn .. not even shinning a torch on it showed any glimmer of a line haha

Louise392 · 16/01/2019 08:13

@foreverthe2ww you are due af the same day as me.

@hopeful31 yes not long now, be glad to know either way at this point.

foreverthe2ww · 16/01/2019 08:16

@Louise392 ah awesome, .. have you tested yet? .. any symptoms? .. i feel nothing and no symptoms :/

Louise392 · 16/01/2019 08:17

@Lammoshay hopefully you will see something soon. I've seen people on here find out as early as 7dpo but then others really late, like a week after their af was due.
Suppose every one is different with their levels.

Fingers crossed for you! Your not out yet 😊

Lammoshay · 16/01/2019 10:14

I’m out- witch came this morning :(

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hopeful31 · 16/01/2019 10:40

All my af cramps r gone! And that's very unusual. I'm so excited but i will cry if I get a bfn. Lol it's torture

Louise392 · 16/01/2019 13:12

@Lammoshay sorry to here she has arrived

@hopeful31 no not tested again yet, waiting for my frer to come, should be here at some point today and I'll test tomorrow morning with fmu. I've been so busy this morning not thought about symptoms, feel very 'wet' down there (sorry tmi) and had a fuzzy head all day, when I woke up this morning i was heaving, felt really sick but seems to have passed now.

Louise392 · 16/01/2019 13:16

Sorry that 2nd bit was meant to be a reply for @foreverthe2ww 😊

Any symptoms returned yet @hopeful31?

foreverthe2ww · 16/01/2019 14:01

@louise392 eek that sounds promising! xx

hopeful31 · 16/01/2019 15:21

@Lammoshay so sorry to hear that. Just try to be positive, have a glass of wine and think of next month xx

@Louise392 I'm going to test in the morning too so let me know. No I feel totally fine. No af cramps. I hope it's not in my head lol x

Louise392 · 16/01/2019 20:16

@hopeful31 I will do :) scared now incase its bfn.... I know its still fairly early though but would be nice to get a bfp in the morning,

Fingers crossed, let me know how you get on too x

Lammoshay · 16/01/2019 22:31

Yep it is what it is- cramps are a bitch this cycle, but my amazing hubby has taken me away for
2 days to a beautiful castle in Wales x

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