Need some TTC buddies

[Lammoshay]

Hi lovelies
Started actively trying this month so thought it would be nice if anyone wanted a journey buddy.
I’m 35, DH is 42.
Had 2 pregnancies in past (2002,2011) ending in MC
Married now for 9years so yeah looking to start a lil family.
Currently 2dpo and wait is already horrendous and symptom spotting is in place 😂
So tell me all about you and your journey 💋

@Kingsbury982 I can see a slight line but I'm in no way an expert. Sorry.
Try again with a clear blue maybe? Good luck

Hi All,

I am only in my first month of TTC. I'm driving my boyfriend absolutely insane with my impatience so need some other ladies in the same situation to chat to, as I imagine I will just get worse every month.
I'm currently 6dpo (not testing ovulation so that's an estimate) got a long 8 days until AF due. I keep inventing symptoms and I have already wasted a test because I was so impatient lol x

Hi @Pika88
It's so hard. I've honestly done about 10 tests lol. It's like u can't settle with out trying.
I hope that u get ur bfp sooner rather than later x

@hopeful31 Yea, it's so frustrating, I just want to know. Even though I knew when I tested it was very unlikely implantation could have happened yet I just couldn't help myself lol.
I'm clinging onto every little sign, an ache, a burp etc haha think I'm just setting myself up for disappointment this month.
I hope you get your bfp soon x

Have u had many signs?

@kingsbury I can deffo see a line on that test! Fingers crossed it shows again when you test over next few days x

@Kingsbury982 I def see a line! Fingers crossed over the next few days you get some good news! @Pika88 Every month so far I've convinced myself I'm pregnant, take about 10 tests and end up disappointed! It's a vicious cycle. I'm now trying to take my mind off it and just let it happen naturally. Not that it's easy what so ever. Booking a holiday for distraction. i even nearly convinced myself yesterday I was pregnant and literally just come off my period!

AF is due in 3 days and I can feel the bitch is on her broom 🧹 making her way! 🥺
But all positive for next month hey ladies.
@kingsbury and @hopeful have you tested again yet?
X

@Kingsbury982 Oo lovely, a holiday should help you take your mind off things.
I'm sure it must be really difficult. As it's my first month ttc I know that my wait is nothing compared to many others who go through this every month, I guess its just a mixture of excitement that I could be and worried that I'll be disappointed that I won't be, its a tricky bunch of emotions to manage and patience is something I lack x

I tested yesterday. Bfn. I was due af yesterday and no sign yet although I am having lots of cramps on and off. I usually get mad headaches before af which I haven't had. Does any one know if u can get moderately painful cramps and still be in with a chance of a bfp?? I'm going to wait and test tomorrow again. My nipples r very sensitive too so I'm confused

Yes you can still have cramps hunni x

@Lammoshay thanks. I know that they can be mild cramps but have u or anyone else experienced cramps that r more painful that just mild and perhaps be in with a chance of a bfp x

@cosycashmere

Will be intrigued how you get on. I was the same conceived my first on first cycle but now on 3rd cycle trying to conceive number 2. I think it's the shock of knowing it worked first try and then not working with number 2 & immediately thinking something must be wrong but I know it's normal to have a few months of trying

@Explorers10 I actually got a positive yesterday, so surprised and realise how fortunate it is- hoping everything works out but also now aware how things can do easily go wrong.
Understand what you mean- I think being successful first time with your first almost gives you this belief that of course it could happen again even though you also don't expect it to? Objectively it's easy to say three cycles is still so early but I understand how the frustration can creep in. What CD are you on? I will be keeping my fingers crossed for you, and hope you get the rest you want really soon xx

@cosycashmere

Congratulations! Thats fantastic news! Thank you for getting back to me.

Yes you are so right, it gave me the belief that it will happen again and then when it didnt work first time, I wasn't prepared and was a shock. Silly I know. Your right, Early days and I will keep trying.

What does CD stand for? Sorry not clued up on the abbreviations

Has anyone experienced hot nipples ? One of my nipples feels hot to touch.

@hopeful31 I have read before that nipples can feel hot during early stages. And breast changes are often the first sign of pregnancy.
Got everything crossed for you

Thanks for your reply. I really hope it's an early sign!! I'm having some other strange signs like legs cramps at nights, I've had spotting last week. Ahhhhh

Feel sick today so tested an BFN :(
AF due in 2 days! X

Afternoon Everyone!

I am 7dpo, first 3 days after ov had sickness and really bad headaches, they are still here but mild, had yellow tinged cm 4dpo.
On Saturday and yesterday, had really bad pain on my right side of pelvis and lots of cramping in lower abs then had a blob of white creamy tinged cm last night. Nipples are starting to become a bit tender this morning also,

Due Af on Saturday, done a one step test and negative, I know its early but cant help myself.
Just want to know now!!

Good luck @Lammoshay xx

@Louise392 I hope you get ur bfp with those signs .

My af due between Saturday and this Wednesday. Had cramps yesterday and they r completely gone. Nipples are sensitive and at times sore and hot to touch. I'll test again tomorrow and see

Good luck every one. We all need some bfp!!!!

I hope so @hopeful31 Been cleaning my daughters room with her this evening and now i have a pain under my armpit, really weird!

So are you past your AF due date? did you say between last sat and this weds?

My BBS have hurt really bad the past 3 months every time after ovulation but this time they are only just starting to to be sore, just under my nipples, hoping that is a good sign as its not the usual for this far into the 2ww.

Fingers crossed you get a BFP tomorrow!

Yes I was due between sat(past) and this Wednesday. I can be irregular. Is it weird that I FEEL pregnant? Like I think I could be but it just won't show up. Also I might just be going crazy lol

I really hope that it's a good sign for u!! Fingers crossed

Not at all @hopeful31, I am convinced i am but then i take a test and its negative and i just think to myself 'oh well maybe next month' when i know its probably too early really to test at 8dpo, I am due AF Saturday so its only 5 days away, feels like a month!

So only 2 more days and you are late (the latest) for AF then, Did you test again this morning?

That armpit ache really hurt last night and started down the side of my boob too, its gone this morning though. Feel like i have loads of symptoms, then they all disappear and i think i am out then i have more and think maybe i am.

Hate this limboland!!

@Louise392 I didn't test this morning because I couldn't bare to see the bfn again. I'll test tomorrow. I will cry if it's a bfn.

When is it ur due??