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Need some TTC buddies

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Lammoshay · 06/01/2019 16:38

Hi lovelies
Started actively trying this month so thought it would be nice if anyone wanted a journey buddy.
I’m 35, DH is 42.
Had 2 pregnancies in past (2002,2011) ending in MC
Married now for 9years so yeah looking to start a lil family.
Currently 2dpo and wait is already horrendous and symptom spotting is in place 😂
So tell me all about you and your journey 💋

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hopeful31 · 13/02/2019 08:33

@Lammoshay have u tested again?

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Lammoshay · 13/02/2019 11:32

No @hopeful I’m going to wait a few days as see what happens with this spotting as it’s not going red so far just a horrid brown and only when I wipe x

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Lammoshay · 13/02/2019 11:34

Welcome@Iilana
Awe hope it’s not a cold and is some symptoms of bfp- that would be ace first time! Fingers crossed.
Are you tracking on an app or doing ovulation sticks x

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MumsTheWord92 · 13/02/2019 11:41

Hi everyone I'm 26. I had my daughter in August of 2017 and I stopped with the pill again early January to start TTC for our second. Just started my first period since so I'm happy that my body seems to have gone back to normal quickly. I fell pregnant with my daughter as soon as I came off the pill last time so have to admit it's abit deglating for that to not happen again haha. Fingers crossed we all get our BFP soon 🤞

ImMeantToBeWorking · 13/02/2019 14:07

@Lammoshay the first ones definitely look positive to me. Eeeek Congrants and fingers crossed for you!!

@Lousie maybe it's a bit early for some of them.

Welcome new girls.

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Lammoshay · 13/02/2019 15:36

AF is now bright red :( next month try again 😢 stupid tests!

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hopeful31 · 13/02/2019 17:09

@Lammoshay sorry to hear that x

Iilana · 13/02/2019 18:26

@Lammoshay I feel fine today so no idea. 🙎I didn't know a cold could be a bfp sign so that's good to know 😊.
I'm using clue app and also noting EWCM, ov pain etc.
Not temping or using sticks yet. If it gets s few cycles in and no luck then I'll probably start getting a bit more technical. Don't wanna scare DH yet. 😂
Do you temp, track, use apps, sticks?

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Lammoshay · 13/02/2019 18:52

Hi Lilana- I think just the feeling of rundown can be a sign.
Yes i app and sticks also.
This is my 3rd month trying but going to do the sperm meets egg plan this month so hopefully it works x

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Iilana · 13/02/2019 19:17

@Lammoshay what's sperm meets egg plan? I'm new to this so I'm not down the terminology yet.

Louise392 · 13/02/2019 19:59

@lammoshay Sorry to hear the witch got you this month, we were so hoping you were going to be the first with a BFP.

Having cramps all day today and boobies are so sore, felt a bit emotional today and tired too, hoping they are all good signs.
Also had some yellow cm and some creamy cm today

hopeful31 · 13/02/2019 20:23

@Louise392 this all sounds like very good signs!! Fingers crossed for u!

Louise392 · 13/02/2019 21:19

I hope so @hopeful31 but dont want to get my hopes up as i had a positive last month and had lots of signs but ended up with af.

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Lammoshay · 13/02/2019 22:06

Iilana- google it hunni xx

Thanks Louise, it’s ok though i believe it will happen when it happens and looking forward to trying the sperm meets egg plan 🙈👌😂

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SuziQ10 · 14/02/2019 02:30

3 days late for AF but could be down to stress. Have been TTC for many months, it's been emotional and stressful. Away on holiday at the moment which could also contribute to why AF is delayed. Have tested this evening (couldn't wait any longer). Got this .. immediate thought was BFN again but looking closely there may or may not be a v v vague 2nd line. DH doesn't think so, and thinks I'm just trying to cling on.
Any thoughts ?

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hopeful31 · 14/02/2019 07:14

I think I see a line!! Try again this morning or tomorrow!!!

Iilana · 14/02/2019 12:14

@lammoshay sorry to hear the witch arrived, hope you're ok. I googled SMEP, not sure I could get DH to DTD that much with his working hours.
@Suziq10 I think I see a faint line. 🙏

hopeful31 · 14/02/2019 12:21

Does anyone know how ur cm should be if u have conceived and ur in the tww?

Louise392 · 14/02/2019 18:24

Mine is up and down so far @hopeful31. Had some EWCM then some white creamy cm, then watery. Think from what i have read the more cm you have the better as you apparently dry up towards your af.

hopeful31 · 14/02/2019 18:36

Thanks @Louise392 sounds like u r having good signs this month.
Mine was quite thick and creamy this morning but has gotten very watery

Louise392 · 14/02/2019 20:00

@hopeful31 Some days i think that i am but dont want to get any hopes up as i thought i was last month then i wasnt and was gutted so not thinking too much into things this month, going to try and go with the flow and see what happens.

Think the CM varies as some people say they are dry others are very wet etc so think its more personal.

ImMeantToBeWorking · 14/02/2019 21:22

@Louise392 fingers crossed for you, seems like a good sign.

@SuziQ10 I can see a second faint line. Congrats.

@lilanna welcome.

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Lammoshay · 14/02/2019 22:47

We so need a BFP in here🤞 ❤️

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Lammoshay · 14/02/2019 22:48

One of my clients came in the salon today and she is 4, pregnant 1st month of trying- wanted to hug her and also sucker punch her at same time 😢😂❤️

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Lammoshay · 14/02/2019 22:49

*41yrs old x

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