ttc after MC July 2007 - anybody out there?

[popsy76]

Hi ladies, our old thread is full and now I can't find anyone
I have posted here and on bereavement thread with same title - come join me if you find this

Good news - my period arrived today. Hurrah! I know it sounds weird to celebrate that but I am glad it has come earlyish as I was told to expect it anytime up to 6 weeks and it has only been 4.

I am aren't I? Hopefully the good luck will extend as far as having a BFP in a few days, but I have to say I think that unlikely. But am so damn cheerful at the moment that I don't really think I'll mind too much (trying to convince self emoticon)

X-post there ladylush - hurrah! Silver linings eh?

Well that is good news. Now you can get down and dirty.

I really should pay more attention to what I type. Ladylush I was referring to you hopefully get down and dirty soon, with your dh, I mean.
Right thats it I give up for today, all over the place.

OMG no one's here and I've just had a BFP! (Sorry wheely found a test and couldn't wait) it came up positive really quickly I really wasn't expecting it so happy and a bit teary and DP is all shocked and going 'gosh am glad we booked the church before we knew gosh'

Oh goodness I am really happy I think but overwhelming feeling is pretty terrified don't want to think about it encase I MC again....very scary...and all the old worries about having no money are returning but I can't help grinning
Can I hang around here a bit? I'm too scared to go to the PG threads as is so, so early and could all go wrong and I would miss you all. I promise to be very quiet and not smug and just sort of hang around and occasionally say hello in a very small and quiet way.
Not sure if DP is as pleased as me makes me all worried too

CONGRATULATIONS ELLIE Very happy for you. I had an inkling but only the test can confirm eh. Your dh is probably in shock, not unhappy - and maybe a bit worried too because of the previous m/c. Please do hang around and we won't think you are being smug at all so don't worry about that.

Ronshar - don't worry I knew what you meant! This week will be practice for the marathon the following week It's my anniversary next sunday which will be CD9 - a bit early but worth a flutter I think.

Thanks ladylush I talked to DP and that's exactly what it was - he's scared of another MC and how will affect me if it happens, bless him.

Congrats Ellie - v. happy for you, well done (I told you whenever anyone's going to test at the same time as me they get a BFP !!) DOn't worry about waiting - AF arrived here yesterday so we both found out athte same time anyway .

we are going away in 2 weeks on a relaxing holiday and I would have spoilt it for myself worrying if I had been pg so probably all for the best (honest...). Also, at least by it taking so long to arrive the chances are my next 'window of opportunity' will be on holiday which will make things all easier.... and thats my last chance to get pg within a year of trying since we started after m/c so positive vibes everyone please !!

Try not to worry too much Ellie and take care of yourself (and keep in touch with us).

OH MY GOD ElLIEG.
Yipee.
Fantastic.
Fantabulous.
I am so excited. Finally someone who mc at same time as me has got preggers!
I am doing funny crazy dance in my chair thing. I cant believe I just missed you on Friday. I got bored talking to myself.
When are you going to believe it is real and how many times have you tested this weekend????
I am so happy for you.
Sorry Wheely, maybe next time it will be you. 12 months is long enough dont you think. Give you body a good talking to and then lay back and think of England. That should do it.

Ellie - it's good you had a chat with your dp and sorted things out. You're both bound to be nervous..............but so excited at the same time. Will be lovely for your sdd to have a brother or sister

Wheely - sorry about your period arriving but at least you can enjoy a few drinks when you're on holiday and not worry about what food you're eating. I was gutted when I discovered I'd had a missed m/c as I had been on holiday the week before in a wine region and had not indulged - I was unaware I'd lost the baby 3 weeks before. Had I known ..............well, let's just say I'd have consumed a damn sight more than 2 units.

Thanks wheely and ronshar!
Sorry to hear AF arrived wheely - but you never know, it was the laid-back stress-free holiday bd'ing that did it for me, so sending some good vibes your way for the same!
Have only tested once this weekend ronshar - AF is very rarely late and I am tired and alternate between feeling queasy and eating like a horse, so I know I am. Trying not to get too worked up though - looked it up on bbc website, and apparently is 'too small for the naked eye to see' at moment, so I am going to try very hard and not get too excited til is a bit bigger. Is hard though! And I have managed not to smoke since found out, and what's more, I don't even want to so am very chuffed about that at least.

Well done for not smoking

Nods head wisely!
Not smoking always a good thing, you dont want you little bean getting any of that stuff.
I am so excited for you. Can I be all crazy and you just keep calm? I love new bfps.

Yes you can - you can be all excited for me, and I can mostly be terrified.

CONGRATUMALATIOOOOOONNNNNNNNNNNNS Ellie
so pleased for you - we were due another BFP don't you think? Hope you managed to get some sleep last night? I know is going to be tough staying calm and not fretting but hope you can enjoy this PG!

I am really rough - got some kind of stomach bug over the weekend - hopefully I'll get all emaciated in time for being a bridesmaid

too weak to remember what I just read but hello to everyone - and a big hug to wheely!

Ellie- that is absolutely fantastic news! what an amazing time you are having, I am so happy for you !

Wheely- sorry about AF but will send you lots and lots of positive thoughts for this month xxx

Thanks Popsy! Hope you feel better soon x

nh hey girl - just me and you left from our original thread baby (ronshar were you on there?) - crossing my fingers that your AF makes an appearance - ignore insensitive friends - they just haven't got a clue! I went to see god daughter and other friend about to drop any minute - was strange cos was only 5 weeks behind her so I would be coming up to maternity leave now . Anyway - I must say feel better about other friend who had baby last week - i don't mind people with babies - I feel i lost a pregnancy more than a baby if you know what I mean?

Can I still come for cake if there is one in October? It might have all gone horribly wrong by then anyway.

course you can hon - we'll be pumping you for info on how you managed it so quickly (for someone "not trying" )

Of course you can come Ellie- we'll all want to rub your tummy for luck!!!

And CONGRATULATIONS You have made my day with your wonderful news....if one of us can do it we all can. Just sitting here waiting for af, sadly, but thinking positive.

Thank you ladies x Maybe 'not trying' was the way forward. Though this month I have to admit I shamelessly lied about my cycle when I knew it was fertile time cos DP hates planning things! He's fine with 'accidental' pregnancies just not the idea of planning them