Hoping for Brazil nuts and 2019 BFP's 💕

[Scarletrose18]

@cocobana
@pastasaucehoarder
@mfbroome
@blueflower

U are a bad influence - but ur just bringing out my inner tester vibe... i like it hahaha
I need to buy some tests tbh... what were u girls saying about the cheapies from home bargains? I always get clearblues and regret it massively!

We had the most amazing day thank you @scarletrose18
Ahh is that the picture that gave the median and the lowest recorded data? I’m 19dpo today so fingers crossed 🤞🏻
I know I’m the same, tell myself it’s more likely that I am and then I feel a tiny cramp and think OMG it’s coming! Does very light and not painful cramping happen in early pregnancy still? Xxx

Let us know how u get on @Scarletrose18 - think positive @Cocobana it's not over til it's over - @Mfbroome and @Charl28 hope your joining the pasta camp soon hope the same for all of us - hope it's is 3rd time lucky for us coco xxx

Home bargins pack of preg tests are great. I got my bfp with ds at 11dpo using them. @mfbroome

Yes thats the pic @charl28 Yes you can cramp in early preg too. Glad you had an amazing day, I loved my wedding day too, im always asking dh can we grt married all over again 😂

@mummyb I tested after 4 hours 20 mins hold and it was bfn. I think the earlier line was just silvery no colour so not a proper line. Will see what tomorrow brings

I’ve asked my husband that too @scarletrose18 keeps saying no 🙈 haha!
Starting to panic, sorry for tmi but just been to the toilet and as I wiped, the tiniest amount of brown discharge 😓 I hope this isn’t AF!
Xxxxx

Woohoo finally got a smiley face on OPK had a feeling it would be today as faint line yesterday so DTD last night in case really hope it work this cycle coz otherwise its another long wait after AF!! Finger crossed it's not AF @Charl28 and crossed for you too @Scarletrose18*,*@Mfbroome and @Cocobana xxx

@charl28 Is the bleeding still light today?

Woohooo u must be so happy @mummyb lots of dtd for you this weekend then 🙂

I took a test... bfn, yesterdays test was defo an evap line. Will try again tomorrow.

Ah no @Scarletrose18, are you sure it was an evap line yesterday? Definitely no colour to it? Really sorry you got a BFN this morning, how confusing. When is AF due?

Yay @MummyBearBoo, you catch that egg! 🎉

Hows the discharge this morning, @Charl28?

No bleeding this morning @PastaSauceHoarder and @scarletrose18 still a tiny amount of brown discharge but only on the first time I wipe - wee is still clear (sorry for tmi) I am on day 40! Am I just kidding myself that I could be pregnant? This is too hard! Xxx

Oh dear, if it hasn't turned into blood yet it definitely doesn't sound like AF! How confusing, @Charl28!! I don't suppose you took another pregnancy test this morning?

@charl28 The fact that AF hasnt arrived is great! Maybe you did ovulate later than you thought. So confusing for you. When did you last test?

@pasta no it was evap, i researched on what evap lines look like and it was one, silvery sort of. Im not giving up hope, 10dpo today and AF due around Monday. At least if its a bfn again I dont have long to wait until AF.

How was your appointment? Was she nice?

Ah how unfair! Bloody evap lines. Still, you're not out yet and all your symptoms are looking good! 10DPO is still early, I didn't get my BFP until 11DPO.

She was lovely yes, seems really nice! She said she'd do all of my appointments at home which is great. Took my bloods yesterday so I guess this is the real deal now!

I hope not 😓
@scarletrose18 @pastasourcehoarder - took one this morning and it was negative, I just don’t know what to think anymore. Maybe I did ovulate later than I thought....that would mean I’m not pregnant wouldn’t it? If this isn’t positive, then I’m going to have to start using the ovulation sticks, can’t do this every month 😓
Xxx

Hi ladies, just trying to catch up with the messages. Sorry I didn’t reply last night, somebody I know (not really well) but devastating none the less is very poorly at the moment and it’s put all the ttc stuff into. She’s young and hasn’t even had kids yet, the poor girl. She is super fit and healthy and we just couldn’t believe it. God having your health really is everything. x

@scarletrose18 don’t be disheartened because it is still early for testing and the HCG may not have built up enough. You still have a great chance of BFP! x

@pastasaucehoarder I’m pleased your new Midwife is nice and it’s great she’s going to do home visits, that’ll feel so much more personal, how lovely. I used to have to go see mine at the surgery. 💖

Pleased you’re doing well and hoping you get your BFP soon @mfbroome ✨✨✨🤞🏻

@Charl28 as long as you DTD ovulating later just means implantation could be later hence a later BFP. Good luck ✨✨✨

@MummyBearBoo woo hoo for your +opk I’m so pleased you finally have it and will be in your TWW soon! It’s great you DTD and it gives you such a good chance! ✨✨✨

into perspective* it should read

@pasta thats so good that shes coming to your house!! Means you dont need to worry about taking dd up to hospital or getting her babysat. Im so pleased for you that you got a good one! 🙂
Yes I still have hope, if bfn tomorrow will loose all hope I think lol.

@charl28 If you ovulated later than you though could just mean you are less days po than you thought. I hope something happens for you soon either way so that you will know, you not knowing for so long must be driving you insane.

Its been a tough month for you, but If this isnt your month, if you start opks, next cycle wont be like this, you will know exactly when you ovulated and when to test etc. It will be easier I think.

Thanks @Scarletrose18 I will check them out - I'm trying to stay away from the shops so I dont tempt myself - I know as soon as I purchase one, it'll be ripped right open 😂👍🏼
I'm sorry to hear about your bfn but what one of the girls said is right it's only 10dpo so your still in beautiful lady ❤️❤️❤️

@MummyBearBoo ahh fantastic!!! Happy DTD!!! Fingers crossed you are successful 👍🏼🤞🏻❤️ so good to know where ur at isn't it :)

@Cocobana your right sometimes some things in life that you hear or go through does put things into perspective we just have to be thankful everyday for our health and love ❤️ how are u feeling today?? Are your symptoms still lingering?

@PastaSauceHoarder great news about the midwife - so handy!
How are u feeling xxx

@Charl28 I hope that your spotting eases away?!
Scarlet is right if you end up ttc for another cycle defo try opks, I didn't when I joined this chat but after a confusing first cycle the last two have been so much easier to record and follow! It just gives u more answers 🙂 how are u feeling xx

Thanks guys @Mfbroome When are you thinking abut testing? Xx

@Mfbroome no symptoms today, ive been quite preoccupied with ds because he’s abit snuffly and his molars back on hurting him bless. how many dpo are you today? We certainly do 💖

Lol. Make sure you buy plenty so you can go a bit crazy with them after behaving yourself so far in your tww @mfbroome 😂 Yes im hopefull but if tomorrow is bfn again then I feel im going to be out this month. Af due Mon so not long to wait thankfully.

@coco awwk poor ds, hopefully its not going to turn into a full cold. Im sure you havnt had much time to get alot done today if hes not well. How has his sleep been lately? Its tough when they are sick or not themselves isnt it.
ds up alot of the night and has woke up with a bad cold so been crying alot of the day, He has just had what I thought was a cold last week so it seems hes had 2 in a row...normally doesnt get sick much but I think his immune must of been low from last time so caught another.
Im sorry about your friend. Sometimes when you see others and their problems it makes you thankful for what you do have like you said.

Thank you @MummyBearBoo @Mfbroome @scarletrose18 and@cocobana ❤️
Still trying to get my head round it all - this week has been awful. Still no sign of AF and the discharge seems to have stopped 🙄 if I don’t laugh I think I’ll cry ha!
Xxx

@Scarletrose18 thanks it was short lived and ds is a lot better thank you and has been full of beans and his usual self this evening. He has been very restless at night but I think he’ll sleep better tonight. I can’t complain because ds is very rarely unwell. I think he has more than enough teething to make up for that though bless him. Oh no hope your ds is feeling better too. It’s so hard when they’re in any sort of discomfort isn’t it because we want to fix it and we can’t. I think when they get abit older at least we can explain abit better what’s happening but at this age they’re still so tiny bless them.
How are you feeling? How many dpo are you now? ✨✨✨I’m 6dpo tomorrow.

I’m sorry to ask such a bizarre question but I’m still get used to all of this - I was supposed to ovulate on the 5th of January, If I have ovulated later, is there a way of working out when the last date could have been just to see if this could be implantation bleed? I hope that makes sense xxx

@Charl28 awitjout OPK it's difficult to tell did you get EWCM you usually get that around ov and it changes after.
Sorry about your friend @Cocobana
So guys after my positive OPK yesterday I did one this morning and It was negative does this mean I've already ovulated or will be ovulating sooner than 12 hours?

@charl28 I agree with @Mummy there is no way of telling without opks but you could look at any symptoms you had to gain a rough idea.
@MummyBearBoo that sounds like you’ve already ovulated, how many days did you get a +opk for? I’d put the day the line was the darkest as your ovulation day. As long as you DTD around that time you have a great chance still...✨✨✨✨