Morning ladies!
@Boboelephant Great to hear from you! Totally understand that you feel like you're no longer in the same position as most of us on here but we'd love to hear updates on how you're doing. I regularly think about you. Wishing you all the luck in the world as you start IVF 🤞🌈
@KnitKitty You are so lovely donating your blanket to LGBT! Always so thoughtful.
My boobs aren't as sore today so I think you're right. Just psychological but at least I've only got 2 weeks until we'll be trying again. Well, providing DH doesn't change his mind which he's done a thousand times before. I think he knows it will cause huge problems with our marriage if he does!
I had an MRI years ago for my pituitary gland because I had high prolactin levels and my boobs would be sore for a month at a time. Hopefully, like mine, your results will all come back normal. Interesting they did an MRI to look at your womb shape - I've only been offered a hysteroscopy.
I really hope this is your year - once you've settled into your new job and have answers from RMC! Let us know how you get on with your new job 😊 Good luck!
@Lilimum6 How are you doing today lovely? I hope it's all happening naturally for you. Completely understandable that you're feeling numb and questioning if this is enough now. Don't make these decisions yet - wait until you're feeling stronger. Life is so cruel and it's so unfair. Don't give up hope! Thinking of you xx
@TinyPaws I hope you get some answers. I'm on my second round of counselling and it's helping more than the first time. I hope it's helping you too.
@Mistymeow Lovely to hear from you and great news you're starting IVF. Everything crossed for you and sending luck your way too 🤞🌈
As for insensitive friends - it's so so hard. I feel like everyone around me is pregnant and nobody remembers what I've been through when they talking about it all the time. My best friend was a week behind me during my second pregnancy. She's asked me to go to her baby shower next month. I couldn't say no because I'm her best friend but I know it'll be so hard.
@moonpeace Welcome to our little group - it's the worst club in the world but we are all in it together and there's so much support 🐧 My first two miscarriages were very similar to yours. Also in March and July. It is so consuming and hard to think about anything else so we understand. Hope you feel you can talk to us here.
@lilmousey Welcome too. So sorry you find yourself here. I totally understand how alone you feel. When I had my MMC at 12 weeks in March, my husband drove me home from the scan and tucked me up in bed and then went to work. I said it was fine but still to this day I don't understand why he thought it was okay to leave me. He didn't realise how bad I was until after I had surgical management and ended up having panic attacks! Second miscarriage he didn't talk much about it and couldn't understand why I had bought candles for my babies. He didn't like me sharing about my miscarriages on social media - I only did on the Wave of Light day. I think it was just his way of dealing with it and he didn't understand by shutting it all out he was making me feel alone. My DH then decided he never wanted to try again and we argued so much about it. We had a massive row recently and it all came out. He said he has been affected by the miscarriages more than he's let on, so perhaps yours is just not able to talk about it. I was just thinking maybe he didn't have a heart! Unfortunately, the best way for us to deal with it was time. He eventually came around. Now he's agreed to talk to someone - not counselling but a close friend of his. 6 months on from the last miscarriage we are now ready to try again.
Sorry for the long post! I missed lots whilst being busy falling in love with my new guide dog in training! He's 20 months and is in advanced training. He settled well and slept all night. I won't name him as I can be easily traced but here's a pic 😊