TTC FIRST BABY - THREAD NO.8

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Hi all - apologies if I've missed anyone out on here, I'm half asleep 😂

@FlapJackered @BabySquid @BambiOnIce80 @CookieWaffle @Crossfitgirl @Delilah7 @MrsAW2018 @MrsC87 @MrsR16 @EltzBee @FivexFive @ValidUser @RanchoRelaxo @rj995

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Well I woke up this morning with no boob pain or any pain at all. So thought I would save my test. So annoyed! Happy Monday girls. Have a good day x x x x

@DayDreamer1707 I will do one tonight after I’ve nipped to the shop. I showed OH when he came in from work this morning and he can see it too.

Baby dust to you all xxx

Omg! Ok so I'm ridiculous but I'm shaking a bit.
Just went to the loo and wiped and it was pink.
I have literally never ever had any discharge that has been that colour before... if I get spotting it's always brown or dark brown.

If it's implantation spotting I'm literally going to go mental!

Argh!

The FRERS I ordered aren't even meant to come til Wednesday even with Amazon prime cos it's been flipping black Friday weekend! (Don't know why we bother paying for prime when it's never next day anymore)

I can't even help it, my hopes are so so so high right now, sooo high! I'm going to be devastated when I probably get a BFN on weds but.

What do you think ladies?????
9dpo.... x

@sunshine1987 @MrsEG @CookieWaffle thank you xx just shows it can happen for any of us literally any cycle.

@sunshine1987 I bet sunshine vibes helped in Mauritius though 😊 I love the fact that's your name as well.

Got my fingers crossed for all you ladies waiting to poas in next few days. 9dpo-12dpo drags soo much.

@Crossfitgirl Exciting! If it is implantation bleeding you won’t get a BFP for a few days anyway as the HCG doesnt happen until fully implanted. So try and wait just a few days!! Fingers crossed for you!!!

@DayDreamer1707 I would get bd-Ing! Once you have had the first surge you have 12-36 hours before you're likely to ovulate. I have only ever had more than one positive on one cycle so you may not get another one now. As long as it was the same or darker than the control line, go for it!!

@Crossfitgirl it sounds like the right time for implantation bleeding keeping everything crossed for you!!!!
I know it's hard but try not to get too excited, not to be a downer but our bodies seem to find excellent ways to screw us over sometimes too. Just don't want you to be too disappointed if it isn't ❤️

@crossfitgirl I randomly had pink last month and usually get brown too. Your temp chart looks really good aswell though doesn't it?

Did any ladies who got bfp get pink implantation??

So I’m having a weird one today. After my FRER faint line, I then took a ClearBlue digital, which came back negative. I did it at like 10pm last night full of Diet Coke but still, at 13dpo I’d expect a BFP at this stage?

Anyway, AF is due today and my boobs are so, so sore I cannot even touch them. As this is my first cycle post-MC I won’t even mind if this is just a really painful period (I’ll just be glad to have a normal cycle back!) but I have no PMS of AF symptoms at all. A bit baffled! I know I ovulated 14 days ago, as used my OPKs.

Honestly, sometimes I wish I could just shove a camera up there to take a look for myself what’s going on!!!!

@autumnfires Before I was pregnant in October I had kind of brown, rusty stains in my pants at around 11dpo, nothing when I wiped. I think pink is also a sign of implantation too though!

@autumnfires are you 9po too? CrossFit and I are too! I just want to fast forward the next few days. I have an internal monologue on repeat of 'maybe I should poas' 'no it's way too early', 'but maybe I should just for fun'...😂🤦🏼‍♀️
When are you due af/testing?

I know @flapjackered, and thank you - I can't help it, my hopes are totally up, but I know deep down that we probably missed the egg and it's just AF starting and tricking me, I would usually start spotting around now ish anyway - it's just that it's a different colour which is not normal for me, and I just can't help myself!

I'm already well and truly set up for a huge disappointment, but.... argh! I want it so much!!

Youre right though, one month my boobs were so sore the whole 2ww and it turned out was just my body being a dick. Lol!!!

When are you due? It don't be that long after me?

@Crossfitgirl all sounding hopefully to me! Try and keep calm though, easier said than done I know. Maybe it's a good thing the test don't come till Wednesday. I would try an hold out for as long a you can before testing 🤞

@MrsEG I know how you feel with the camera idea 😂. This is also my 1st cycle since my MC in October x

@FlapJackered We DTD yesterday so I will test again today to see if it is still positive and then just DTD again sure the OH won't mind 🙊

Oooh @autumnfires cycle buddies with flapjackered and I!
@MrsEG right there with you on the needing a camera. I mean why can't they let us have home ultrasounds to track our eggies all the time?? Lol! The clearblue aren't as sensitive as some other tests so maybe try a different brand?

Xx

@Crossfitgirl 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻 do you normally get a temp drop before you start spotting? As hopefully it's a good sign your temp is still high?
I am not really sure when I am due. Before the last two cycles my LP was reliably 12 days then the one before last was 14days and the last one was 10! I know LP isn't meant to change but my ov dates are pretty obvious with temp changes and opks.
FF is saying due on Friday which will be 13dpo. So I will try and hold out until then to test as af would probably have turned up by then if I can hold out! It's sooo far away though 😩

@daydreamer1707 i would DTD every day for 3 or 4 days starting the day of your positive test, as ov will be 24-48 hours after the positive, and there's still chance the day after ov too xx

And yes glad the tests won't come until Wednesday. Tbh, I bet spotting and AF will come before then anyway 😭 I hate this! 9dpo is the hardest!!!

@flapjackered Friday does seem ages away! Although for me i would usually be due on Saturday had I ovulated at normal time! So wouldn't even be thinking about testing now on a normal cycle.

My temp has varied, first month temping it gradually dropped after ov and dropped more at the start of spotting, second month it stayed high until a few days into AF, and last month my temp was so all over the shop i have no idea.
This month has not really dropped at all, similar to month 2, in fact it's gone up slightly this morning but only a teeny fraction. I don't think I can trust it as it's been so variable I don't have a "normal" with it yet xx

@Crossfitgirl thanks I will test again and then I can see how long my surge actually is then because i've no idea. Don't know what it means if its a long or short surge 🙈 Don't think like that, keep positive and you might be seeing your BFP soon....Baby Dust 💕

@DayDreamer1707 I can't remember if you said you were temping or not? If you have had a positive I would just make sure you Dtd everyday for the next two or three days then you will definitely be covered. I don't think it matters too much how long your surge is. Even if you get a negative now it doesn't mean you will have already ovulated, if you see what I mean.

@Crossfitgirl it's so hard not knowing isn't it!! I suppose we are going to have to be patient! I am not productive at all today!!! It's such a time-waster the tww 😂

@flapjackered sorry I was confusing 🙈 i'm only cd12, flo says I'm due to ovulate in 2 days. No peak on opks yet. The whole ttc feels like it takes up far too much of my time. Instead of Instagram and dailymail - obsessed with mumsnet and bfps.

@Crossfitgirl I started reflexology last month - cycle 3 for me, then that was first time I had pink cm before af. No idea if it's all linked...

@crossfitgirl sending you lots of good luck vibes. Don’t worry about implantation dips etc as I didn’t have anything like that to indicate anything had happened this cycle xx

Girls I'm shaking.

What the fuck.

Is this real.

Have I really got a chance at having my baby?!!!

@Sullywifey 😍😍😍

@SullyWifey That is definitely a real line!! 😘