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Too early for an October bus?

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loveshinealight · 03/09/2018 19:15

My AF arrived yesterday so I'm off the September bus already Sad

Cycle #2
Trying for baby #2
Age 33

This month I am going to track my cycle using ovulation strips. DTD lots last month so I'm gutted but onwards and upwards!

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toomanyflatwhites · 08/10/2018 16:39

My turn for a silly question...
Anecdotally, what does everyone think about how likely you are to get a BFP in a month where you don't feel pregnant, or like you have any symptoms?
I have no memory of whether I had anything when I conceived my daughter, but looking back at the charts I only tested on CD 38/16 days DPO so I'm going to guess I wasn't overwhelmed with symptoms!! (How on earth was I so restrained!!)

AIDE2424 · 08/10/2018 16:40

@MakeAWhish I did wonder if it could be ovulation bleed, I hope so anyways as means I'm still in with a chance this month. X

mussie · 08/10/2018 17:15

@toomanyflatwhites this answers your question!

I 'feel' pregnant
www.countdowntopregnancy.com/early-pregnancy-symptoms/symptom-chart.php?symptomid=32

I don't 'feel' pregnant
www.countdowntopregnancy.com/early-pregnancy-symptoms/symptom-chart.php?symptomid=33

sbhf1987 · 08/10/2018 18:44

@Bethy1995 I tested at 11dpo and I usually have a 28/29 day cycle so the CB digi was 3-4 days before my period was actually due. I track ovulation using OPKs and CM.

@toomanyflatwhites I got my bfp last month, no symptoms at all until 2 days after AF due which was sore sides of my boobs. As the days went on they got so painful. I didn’t make it passed 6 weeks so no sickness or any other symptoms for me. But I definitely did not feel pregnant x

summer28 · 08/10/2018 18:57

@keepploddingalong we are in a really similar position! AF was due for me today, nothing as of yet.... I haven't bit the bullet and tested yet though. Was hoping to hold out until mid-week if I haven't come on by then.....

Have you had any strange feelings at all? X

summer28 · 08/10/2018 19:00

@toomanyflatwhites I really think it's so different for each person. I've heard so many people say they had absolutely no idea until they tested. Our bodies cope with the hormone changes so differently- and I think nobody is out until AF shows up or you're confident a negative test is right! Fingers crossed xx

summer28 · 08/10/2018 19:01

And hope your doing well @sbhf1987! X

sbhf1987 · 08/10/2018 19:10

@summer28 I’m ok thank you lovely. Don’t know how you stay strong enough and not test early!! Xx

keepploddingalong · 08/10/2018 19:54

@summer28 how do you do it! I'm awful for doing a test then I get all confused at what symbol/line is pregnant Confusedhaha.

So far as weird feelings go... I have been really hungry and I have felt a bit sicky/nauseas but not actually been sick how about you ?

Peonie89 · 08/10/2018 20:12

TWW for me too Smile I feel really good about this month, AF not due until 20th which is mine and DP 2nd anniversary. Would be the most amazing present for us both as on Cycle 7 of ttc. Still no BFP for anyone? Hoping it comes soon x

Abzi91 · 08/10/2018 20:45

@Peonie89 i hope you both get a wonderful anniversary present! That would be so lovely!

I'm due on the 20th as well.. on 2dpo. Sorry for tmi (and if it's a stupid question) but do you still get EWCM a few days even after you've ovulated? I've just been following Flo and Clue rather than OPKs, so wondering if I may have missed my Ov date..

KinCat · 09/10/2018 02:48

PaintingOwls 😂😂 omg ok that makes a lot more sense! I read your post sooo many times before I posted thinking "surely she knows 8dpo is not a fertile time?!" Fingers crossed you o'd late and get your BFP soon!

TwittleBee · 09/10/2018 05:32

Abzi91 I've found my ewcm dries up day after ovulation and goes sticky

CD5 today and looks like AF is gone already. Whoop!

toomanyflatwhites · 09/10/2018 06:37

Hmm temp drop this morning so I reckon that's AF on the way today... I have to say, inaccurate as my current temping may be, I much prefer having that warning rather than just a nasty surprise when it turns up during the day.
I must buy a decent BBT thermometer though!!

ronniemipperton · 09/10/2018 07:26

CD21 and still no temp rise. Think I might have to give up on this one as an anovulatory cycle :(

@toomanyflatwhites I’ll keep my fingers crossed for you that it’s an implantation dip. I agree about the warning though, when my bbt/cycle is playing along it’s super handy - has saved me a few wasted tests as well.

Wishful30 · 09/10/2018 07:43

Morning ladies. Hope everyone is doing ok.

Does anyone on here take cyclogest, and does it make you feel really miserable?

I had it last cycle but I don't remember feeling so fed up. I'm really snappy, and so not interested in dtd either 😐🤷🏻‍♀️

Peonie89 · 09/10/2018 08:17

@Abzi91 yay cycle buddies Smile I really hope so, I have such a good feeling about this month! And yes, the EWCM started around my 2nd smiley this month and continued for about 4/5days. I am using clue as well for the last couple of months. It seemed to time my opk smileys with it this month perfect so fingers crossed. If it happens this month, not only will it be our anniversary when I find out, my 12 week scan will be the week before Christmas and I can tell everyone then! I'm a little too excited... I know I shouldn't be. Does anyone get symptoms during the tww?

everycloudetc · 09/10/2018 08:17

Hi can I join? chocolate and sbh we must be cycle buddies! I got the static smiley yesterday too. DTD in sunday, yesterday and planning to do it today and to tomorrow too (my poor DH!)

I'm 35 TTC DC2. First DD is 2.

Looking forward to joining you for the 2ww

toomanyflatwhites · 09/10/2018 08:58

Thank you @ronniemipperton but I'm wondering if I had an anovulatory cycle too, nothing really quite adds up between my lack of peak OPK, very little EWCM, and weird temperatures. So silly but I'm really trying to avoid a July baby as we have a full month of family birthdays I i was hoping we would slide in there for June instead - spring babies are the best!! But am hardly going to skip TTC next month for that reason...

KinCat · 09/10/2018 09:04

toomanyflatwhites me and DH's birthdays are two days apart (and his dad's is on the day in between us, his grandma's two days after his and my brother's one day after that). DH wistfully talked about waiting to TTC so we could have a baby with the same birthday as all of us! I told him it didn't work like that...

It's funny how the birthdays cluster in families though. Fingers crossed for your June baby!

Chocolate89 · 09/10/2018 09:05

Welcome @everycloudect! Delighted to have another cycle buddy! I am the same going to dtd tonight and wait and see if i get a temp rise tomorrow then will just rest, as hopefully will ov today. 😊 so romantic.
😂
How is everyone getting on in the TWW? any early testers? Would love to see some bfp for you all ❤

toomanyflatwhites · 09/10/2018 10:02

@KinCat it's so funny! In July we have 5 family birthdays and in May there are 4, and it's funny how mine and DPs family seem to have similar birthdays. My mum always said "no more July birthdays!!" So she would be a bit cross with me if I make another one 🤣 though if she knew I was hoping for an April one but had an early loss I guess she wouldn't be cross any more... I don't think June is going to happen unfortunately, though I suppose it's not over till AF appears!

Bethy1995 · 09/10/2018 11:26

Just an update, I'm not 13 days late. absolutely extreme tiredness today to the point where I almost fell asleep at work and my eyes are stinging...is this a sign I could still be preg? I slept well last night and went to bed at 10.30.

Bethy1995 · 09/10/2018 11:26

Sorry that was meant to say I'm now 13 days late

toomanyflatwhites · 09/10/2018 11:30

@Bethy1995 and still getting BFNs? Can you get a blood test?

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