Anyone around 9 dpo?

[lavenderlove]

Hi wondering if anyone is around 9dpo and wants to join me for the agonising wait? I'm trying to hold off from testing until at least 12dpo but it's so hard! I've never obsessed over something so much and I'm only on my 2nd cycle

Sorry @sunshine1987, I hope you're ok. Do something to treat yourself tomorrow.

@Lubilu28 I only have a 10 day lutheal phase unfortunately, not the usual 14 days

@Lubilu28 thank you though lovely. Hope this month goes well for you x

@ChaosMoon thank you, wishing everyone else the best of luck, just wasn't meant to be

Ahhh sorry @sunshine1987!! Well hopefully next month is your month 🤞🏻💐 x

Has anybody had a duff test that has just done nothing? Caved and used one of my Superdrug tests this morning but nothing happened, it just stayed white.

Ignore me, I shook it and it eventually worked. BFN

Not used a SD one begore..wonder how reliable the result is though if it didn't show initially? Where are you in your cycle @squ1ggle? Xx

AF due today or tomorrow I think

Did another cheapie test today and BFN going to try and stop testing now and just see if AF turns up on Saturday

It's rubbish isn't it @lavenderlove.

@Squ1ggle so rubbish, I'm sick of thinking about it!

@Bellafreud congratulations on your BFP 💐
@lavenderlove now I am 10 dpo, still peeing on sticks like crazy 😔 done a frer at work yesterday and bfn.
This is my 4th cycle ttc and first one where I am not experiencing any symptoms at all!! Usually a week or so before af I get sore boobs and cramping but this time nothing.. if only I knew how stressful ttc is I would of started waaay earlier.
Sorry to hear about your bfn, but if af is due Saturday it might be too early for testing so fingers crossed for you 🤞

A bit fed up today, after cramping since ovulation and getting my hopes up that I meant implantation. I now seem to be getting my normal pre Af cramps. I know I shouldn't give up hope yet but it's hard not to!

I've got some FRER so I think I'll test tomorrow with FMU and see. AF due Sunday xxx

Congratulations @Bellafreud

Did you have any symptoms xx

@sachabloom how many dpo are u??

I’m holding out getting tests till next week! I’m only 5dpo but I’m getting the same dull cramps and painful bbs!! Hoping these are all positive signs but I’m pretty sure it’s just my body getting ready for af :(

This tww is going so slow!!

Im 9dpo. 4th cycle. Getting cramps. I think that probably means AF is on the way which really sucks as I thought we had timed DTD perfectly this month. Sigh.

@Lubilu28 I think I've messed it up and I think I'm actually only 9DPO today. I'm a bit confused this month as I've had some interesting opks. So at the earliest I'm 11DPO, latest 9.

Trying to not get my hopes up but it's hard! Xx

The girl who sits next to me at work just told me she's pregnant. Tbh I am buzzing for her coz she's an amazing girl, but I'd be lying if I said I wasn't a little bit sad I couldn't say "yeah me too!" 😞 bad day today!

@Akasia a woman on another thread just got her bfp and this was her first month without any symptoms too. You never know!

@lavenderlove that sounds wise off you can do it. Sometimes poas feels like I'm adding a layer of torture. Which is why DH talked me out of testing this morning.

@sachabloom that sucks, however pleased for her you also are. One of my best friends just announced she's having her second. Caught first time, again. And yes I'm happy for her. But...

This could still be your month though!

@ChaosMoon thank you for understanding, do feel a bit of a dragon! Although it's nice coz I have been trying for so long I'm quite in the know about policies etc so I've been able to help her as this was not a planned pregnancy so she wasn't as prepared.

Been having bad cramps all day and for me this is usual AF symptoms but I have two FRER at home so I might do one tomorrow morning 😂xx

@Akasia if this month feels different to the rest that could be a good sign! It's so stressful isn't it. Wish I was one of them people who could think "it will happen when it happens" but I'm 100% not haha. Yeh I'm hoping it was too early but we will see, I feel like AF is approaching to be honest

@sachabloom hope AF doesn't arrive for you! I'm due Saturday so we can be moody together on Sunday if she arrives for us both

@ChaosMoon it is torture. I keep putting myself in a mood every morning so I'm going to stay away now until I'm officially late