TTC First Baby. Anyone else?! New Post

[Delilah7]

Hi ladies. We reached the max posts!! @BambiOnIce80 I'm feeling ok, just feel abit silly. My flo app says I'm due tomorrow but I am always 28 days and always have cramps which I don't have yet. How about you xx

@Whowouldhavethoughtit that did make me laugh! I've tried it this go and got it in before DP noticed so as not to dampen the mood. He didn't notice! But it is quite icky, have to make sure there's tissues about!

I'm 7dpo and going a bit mental today. Luckily work is looking busy already today to keep my mind off things!

@CookieWaffle @Whowouldhavethoughtit @BambiOnIce80 morning ladies. Not to bad, bloods still bad but pain isn't. Unfortunately my disgusting sister still hasn't messaged me two days after I told her. My whole family is disgusted with her.

Hope you're all ok x

I'm a big fan of "you can choose your friend's but you can't choose your family" @Delilah7 😔 Just focus on yourself now lovely. Your sister's fully responsible for her own behaviour.

@CookieWaffle, how's today been? Have you managed to stay sane?!

@BambiOnIce80 thanks lovely. I'll try x

Hey @BambiOnIce80 still a bit mental. Tho I'm feeling very not pregnant right now. The cramps have stopped tho the backache is still there. I know I'm gonna cave in this weekend and test...

@CookieWaffle, if it saves your sanity then go for it 👍 Just beware of the false BFN...

Yeah part of me is a bit scared after what happened last month and the other half can't deal with the wait. Think I'm swaying toward the latter at the moment.

Good god. There's one in every family @Delilah7, though I realise that doesn't help at the moment. I'm glad the rest of your family is rallying.

I hope everyone else is doing well.

It's a total head 🤬 isn't it? I can't imagine how much worse it is after what you went through last cycle 😔

Happy Friday everyone!
Delilah7 hope you are doing well
CookieWaffle when is AF due?
Hope everyone is doing okay, think my period is nearly over and we have got a clear blue ovulation kit to use this month (got it on special offer from Amazon last month) I am looking forward to using that instead of the usual cheapy opks!
Whowouldhavethoughtit your post made me laugh 😂 I didn't realise you had to use preseed like that, thought it would have just been like any other ordinary lube!

@ChaosMoon she's something else. Bare in mind there's a lot of built up hurt I have for YEARS and this has just topped it lol.

@RanchoRelaxo I'm feeling ok thank you, still getting my head round not being pregnant but it's getting there.

Hope all you ladies are ok. Feel I've dampened the mood of this thread abit :( x

Thanks @BambiOnIce80 :) yeah that was a bit of a roller-coaster!

@RanchoRelaxo FF seems to think I'm due Thursday though I'm not convinced as that would make it a short month. Could be a week away. This TWW is dragging on so much....

@Delilah7 you are integral to this thread and we're here for you. No dampening. We're in this together. X

Cycle one here. My fertile window is approaching. Hopeful but apprehensive. Using OPKs for now because of irregular working hours but will revisit bbt if required!

@ValidUser thank you xxx

Morning ladies. @Delilah7 Don't be silly, its what we are here for! How are you this morning?

@ValidUser am also hopeful but scared. Sorry if tmi but I have EWCM today and no positive OPK which is weird/annoying.

Everyone else ok? Fingers crossed for those doing tww

Hi ladies, AF showed up yesterday - 6 days late. Oh well! Here’s to August

Hi everyone. I'm new to this forum.
I'm 30.. 31 in 11days. Eek! TTC 1 Cycle 1. This is all new to us. I came off the BCP last September 2017 so it's been a good 9/10months for my body to get back to normal. AF are spot on every month, same day the app says it's due and lasts around 4 days , 29 day cycle. We wanted to TTC in June on holiday but we hadn't planned it properly and wasnt O on holiday so we tried in July. We only got round to BD twice during the fertile window but I feel really positive. It's weird before we decided to TTC i thought it may take forever, may not have much luck etc but since DTD i feel different. I didn't want to stress out about it cycle 1 so I've not got any OPK, i have however taking pre natal vitamins for a few months and used conceive plus lubricant the 2nd time we BD and made sure i stayed lying down for a good 20mins haha. So I've somehow managed to get through the 2ww. My AF is due tomorrow. I've not tested once. I've just been using Ovia app to track symptoms etc. Since not long after O I've had v tender breasts (i only ever had this during the week before AF due not 2 wks before everyday!) Ive been exhausted on another level!! I mean it could be the heat but everyday i just feel like i need a nap all the time. I work 8 til 4.30 and work from home so i sleep a good 8 to 9 hours and im still exhausted!! I mean work is also stressful at the moment too and we are in the middle of buying our 1st house. (Lots of factors) ive had little twinges in my lower stomach area/tiny cramps but that was more a week ago. Im a lot more bloated, thirsty, had a sore throat about 3 nights last week and feel a cold comibg this week but it's boiling so no idea why or how as I've not mingled with anyone who has a cold. Since last night I've had a whitish clear CM and just waiting to see if AF turns up tomo or in the week and think I'll test next week. Scary stuff. Not the end of the world if it's BFN as it's our 1st cycle but am hoping we will get a BFP as it we'd love a spring baby but who knows . Sorry for the super long post!!

Good luck everyone also xxx

Ahhh damn @MrsO10D, sorry to hear that xx

Welcome @Glitzy07, finger crossed! xx

@CrystalBlaze hi! I'm ok, first time since it's sunk in I'm alone this morning so had abjt of a cry... but I'll be ok. Hopefully going to start trying again once the bleeding stops and we are both ok physically... xx

So sorry to hear that Delilah 😢 sending my love xx

@Glitzy07 thank you.
It's tougher than I ever imagined x x

Morning ladies, how is everyone doing?

Have had a sore throat for a few days and of course I googled it. And of course I found lots of stories of it being a sign of implantation. So of course I am now wanting to test! Luckily I've had to order some more FRERs so I have to wait til Tuesday anyway!

@cookiewaffle Morning 😊 I had that sympton too last week which I believe could've been implantation. Literally about 3 evenings I had a sudden sore throat and very dry was very odd. Then this week have been having cold symptoms. I've yet to test so can't confirm yet if for me it is a BFP or not. Day 1 of missed AF today or could be day 2 as I usually start on Saturday's every month but my app says due today. Still early though so AF so could still come but all my symptoms make me think BFP could be on its way. Fingers crossed. I plan to take my first test 5 days of missed AF so next weekend which is also when we will be moving into our new house. Will keep you guys updated, I'm usually so impatient but I don't want to risk testing early so will wait ti next weekend x

@cookiewaffle fingers crossed it's good news. When is AF due?

Morning everyone 🙂
Glitzy07 wow that's some good willpower, I would definitely not be able to hold out that long haha
CookieWaffle if anyone saw my search history during the tww they would think I was crazy 😂 logic goes out of the window haha