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Delilah7 · 25/07/2018 20:56

Hi ladies. We reached the max posts!! @BambiOnIce80 I'm feeling ok, just feel abit silly. My flo app says I'm due tomorrow but I am always 28 days and always have cramps which I don't have yet. How about you xx

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ChaosMoon · 01/08/2018 16:04

Oh shit. @Delilah7 have you seen a doctor? I'm so sorry you're going through this.

Delilah7 · 01/08/2018 16:38

I've been a & e as advised. Unfortunately bleeding got worse and from the wee the test was negative so I'm currently miscarrying.
Please when you ladies are pregnant call up over whatever you're not sure of. I did the best thing. My little poppy seed wasn't ready. Xx

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Hofty · 01/08/2018 16:49

@Delilah7 I’m so so so incredibly sorry lovely. We’re always here. Take care Flowers x

RanchoRelaxo · 01/08/2018 16:54

So sorry @Delilah7 Flowers gutted for you

ChaosMoon · 01/08/2018 17:08

Oh sweetheart, you must be devastated, I'm so sorry. Big hugs.

Delilah7 · 01/08/2018 17:20

Honestly I really am. Can't tell my grandad now. 😭 my family and especially my brother who didn't even know I was pregnant was supportive. Unfortunately my sister decided to say she had a miscarriage but was never pregnant on pregnancy tests and make it about her.

What am I going to do now 😔

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Hofty · 01/08/2018 17:24

@Delilah7 I have a sister who sounds a lot like that! You have my complete sympathy, such an awful thing to happen to any woman. I don’t really know what to say, other than time is a great healer. I hope that isn’t insensitive Flowers

CookieWaffle · 01/08/2018 17:41

Oh @Delilah7 I'm so gutted for you, can't imagine how you must feel right now. I'm glad your family have been so supportive. This one may not have stuck but there must've been a good reason why it wasn't meant to be. it'll happen for you another time. Allow yourself some time to grieve and recover first xxx

Delilah7 · 01/08/2018 18:08

Time is a great healer. Thanks ladies. Hopefully gonna rest for a while have another normal period and possibly try again... just sucks :( I'm gonna be even more on edge now xx

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CrystalBlaze · 01/08/2018 18:40

Oh @Delilah I am so sorry to hear that. Sending lots of love Flowers

Patapouf · 01/08/2018 18:47

Oh Delilah I’m so sorry to hear that Flowers

Lauren2sim · 01/08/2018 19:23

Oh @delilah7 I'm gutted for you, sending love and light x

Delilah7 · 01/08/2018 19:41

Thank you xx

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Virgo89 · 01/08/2018 20:07

So sorry to hear that @Delilah7 😔 Also sorry that your sister made it about her when clearly this is about you. As hard as it may be, try to remain positive. It happened to me in June and I tried to stay positive thinking that I was "lucky" that it happened early on in the pregnancy as it would have been much worse had it happened later on. Thinking of you ♥️

Delilah7 · 01/08/2018 20:13

@Virgo89 I agree.
Atleast I didn't have one later one. It's just hard. Even though it was the size of a poppy seed it was so exciting and my little baby. X

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Virgo89 · 01/08/2018 20:19

@Delilah7 I know exactly how you feel 😔 All the excitement builds up and you can't help but think about all sorts of things and then it comes crashing down. Really sorry you're going through it x

Delilah7 · 01/08/2018 20:36

@Virgo89 thank you so much. So nice even strangers understand. Wish my sister could just do that. X

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MrsO10D · 02/08/2018 08:33

I’m so sorry @Delilah7 Sad sending big hugs X

Delilah7 · 02/08/2018 09:32

Thank you xx

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Hofty · 02/08/2018 13:59

How are you today @Delilah7? I’m thinking of you Flowers

Delilah7 · 02/08/2018 14:10

In pain hun but I'm ok I guess. Surrounding myself with family xx

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CookieWaffle · 03/08/2018 07:04

Just checking in here, I hope everyone is doing OK. Big hugs to Delilah and I hope the rest of you are feeling positive and not stressing too much xx

MrsO10D · 03/08/2018 07:49

Morning @CookieWaffle, hope you are well!
@Delilah, still thinking of you and hope you are feeling in less pain today. X

I’m now 6 days late and this morning’s test was a BFN. No idea what’s going on as never missed AF before. I think I’m going to have to wait this out to see what happens.

On a lighter note it’s Friday and supposed to be another day of beautiful sunshine Smile

How is everyone doing?

Whowouldhavethoughtit · 03/08/2018 08:28

Hi everyone,

Huge love to you still @Delilah

@MrsO10D maybe leave it the weekend and go and see the Dr on Monday?

I don't know when I ovulated and I'm thinking I left it too late to start doing sticks. I've had a few longer cycles in the past few months because of gluten. Yep you heard that right! Newly diagnosed with coeliac disease in January and when ever I have has a mistake it puts my period out of whack :(

So my apps are basing my ovulation round my longer cycles when actually if I don't have gluten by accident they are shorter.

So we did last night just incase and used my pre seed for the first time.
word of warning though it says to pop it pretty deep inside so I did. I told my partner that tonight was his lucky night and no need for foreplay. What a mistake! The lube just stayed right up inside me and I'm pretty sure his sausage got a bit of friction burn 😂 so I would suggest spreading evenly like a good butter!

Thank God it's nearly the weekend!

BambiOnIce80 · 03/08/2018 09:22

You've made my morning @Whowouldhavethoughtit 😂 Just sprayed my tea across my desk reading your post 😂🤣😂🤣 Hopefully the preseed will have done it's job, even if DP is feeling a little sore this morning 😄

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