TTC First Baby. Anyone else?! New Post

[Delilah7]

Hi ladies. We reached the max posts!! @BambiOnIce80 I'm feeling ok, just feel abit silly. My flo app says I'm due tomorrow but I am always 28 days and always have cramps which I don't have yet. How about you xx

@BambiOnIce80 abit deflated. got a BFN yesterday evening. Had some bad news to do with my dad's heart too. August has been a shit month xx

It really has @Delilah7 😔 Don't be too deflated about the BFN - AF is a week away and you've tested in the evening which means your chance of a false BFN is even higher. You're not out yet.x

@BambiOnIce80 tbh I have no idea when AF is actually going to come due to the miscarriage. I'm hoping it shows it's head so I know I'm back to being regular but who knows. Xx

Hi ladies, I've just noticed that my face has flared up with spots, and in the last week my hair and face have been super greasy (hair needs washing every day) which is abnormal for me. I've also been REALLY hot, sweating uncontrollably - again, abnormal for me. Has anyone else had this?

@cupcakesandglitter me all of my 4 cycles Hun. Skins calming down but hair isn't hahaha x

Fed up of this Cm in knickers and watery shit though!!

@Delilah7 oh fab 😩 guess I'll have to get used to it :( still having it? Seems positive though right? X

@cupcakesandglitter not considering I had a BFN yesterday evening x

@Delilah7 could it be too early? If you don't know when you ovulate x

@cupcakesandglitter maybe but that's the only EWCM and ovulation pains I've had x x

12dpo + FMU + FRER = BFN + disappointment + guilt-free 🍸 tonight

👎👎 sorry Bambi enjoy the gin
7dpo today, and have got the start of cramps in my belly, not looking good!
Sorry for all the other bad news on this thread this last week, we need some positives soon x

Cheers @RanchoRelaxo 🍸 I hope you and everyone else still waiting for AF has better luck than me in August 🤞🍀

Love to you all xx

Am having a bad night guys, cramping and leg ache which defo means AF is coming tomorrow, I am gutted and have had a cry, months and months of timed sex and vitamins and being healthy and still nothing. Really thought it might be my month this time. I know it's not that long to be trying but I really thought it would have happened by now, sorry for the moan x

Ahh @RanchoRelaxo @BambiOnIce80 @Delilah7 sending you all hugs xx

Rancho it is so tough isn't it? The time taken in this whole process is such a shock, there's not much else where you can't control something and do what you can but there's still no guarantee. I wish I could give proper hugs right now. Its just a lottery, sometimes we win and sometimes not, but we keep playing for a chance and one day we succeed.

It's hard to understand that it's normal to not get pregnant straight away, our body is doing everything it can to make sure the pregnancy becomes as healthy as possible and combat the bad ones. I guess we can thank it in a way

A fine excuse for a bank holiday weekend treat I say xx

Syringe didn't work! Having some gin and looking forward to next month!

@RanchoRelaxo I've heard recently so many people say when they just relax and not even look at when they ovulate it seems to happen... hard to believe sometimes. Hug to you xx

Ah thanks girls, Cookie you're right, nature is amazing really and I'll just have to hope that one month soon is my lucky one :)
Sorry to hear ValidUser, has your luteal phase has got longer though? Could be useful over the next month or so 👍
Delilah7 I have heard this too, am tempted to not use opks to try this out.. but I really don't think I could yet, like it would feel like I wasn't really 'trying' my best if you get me 😂 daft I know but I would hate to think I could have done more! Maybe less is more in TTC though 😂
I've have had some gin and am feeling better now, looking forward to the rest of the bank holiday, has anyone got any nice plans?

Ahhh sorry @ValidUser :( enjoy that gin girl! xx

Just starting fertile week so DP has asked me for dates to BD, will be getting a couple in this weekend :) xx

Awww @RanchoRelaxo, I absolutely hear you 💖 We do everything by the book and for some unbeknown f🤬ing elusive reason, it just ain't happening 😞 Gin and friends have been a very lovely combination this evening though, so quite glad for the BFN in that respect. I've decided to take decisive action for next cycle and have added acupuncture to the TTC arsenal - I have my first appointment next Thursday 📍😬

@Delilah7, I hope you are feeling better lovely? I have heard many, many people over the years tell me that all you need to do to conceive is just relax... The urge to punch them square in the face is quite irrepressible! 👊 They are inevitably people who either only had to share a toothbrush with their DP to get pregnant or people with very short memories who have forgotten that they were stressed to the limit until they got pregnant on cycle 11 & then, low and behold, they're suddenly sodding relaxed!! 🤯 Sorry for the rant, but the "you just need to relax" line is like a red rag to a bull after all this time 🚩🐂

@ValidUser, here's to the next cycle and doing it the good old fashioned way 🍸(back permitting, of course 👍).

@CookieWaffle, lovely to hear from you and good luck for your fertile week 🍀🍀🍀

@BambiOnIce80 @RanchoRelaxo sorry didn't mean to upset anyone x

Do FRERS always have little lines if you hold them up to light? I took a test this morning ... see below xx

@Delilah7 I can't see it on the first pic but I know what you mean on the second there is defo something showing up how many dpo are you

@RobynC19 I'm not sure those as it's a grey line not a pink.... Im 12dpo x