TTC First Baby. Anyone else?! New Post

[Delilah7]

Hi ladies. We reached the max posts!! @BambiOnIce80 I'm feeling ok, just feel abit silly. My flo app says I'm due tomorrow but I am always 28 days and always have cramps which I don't have yet. How about you xx

@CookieWaffle pace yourself hun, you'll know when you're ready ❤️

Really strange and I'm sure it's probably AF coming.. but these cramps have carried on, however it's now back pain and to the point it's making me nauseous!

@CookieWaffle I'm not surprised how hard it's hit you, especially as it's 2 months on the trot 😔 Sounds great that DP is ready for the next window - sounds like he's good and supportive ❤️

Sorry @Delilah7, I thought I'd replied to you earlier but I can't see it on here! I didn't test until day AF was due last cycle, purely because getting a BFN and then having to wait days for AF to rock up really depresses me 😔 If you do decide to go for it and test early, please make sure you POAS with your first morning urine and check the instructions to make sure you're less likely to get a false BFN.x

Hi everyone
CookieWaffle am thinking of you, can't be easy going through this again
ValidUser ah hope AF stays away! I don't ever get pre AF spotting so I know anything like that is game over haha
Bambi are you in the tww now? Can't remember but did we say we were cycle buddies this time? Or was that someone else? I am 4dpo

@BambiOnIce80 I will Hun, might do it Saturday mornin. Ill be only a few days away from AF then x

I'm 9dpo today @RanchoRelaxo, so we're not far apart 😉 Yo-yoing between boobs are tender (and SSP going "oooh, maybe") and suddenly not having tender boobs (and SSP going "of course you're out, why did you think this month would be any different?") 🙄 If the stupid implantation table thing is to be beloved, then today should be my most likely implantation day... AF on Sunday feels like a loooonnng way away 😒

@RanchoRelaxo still only intermittently spotting. Negative FRER, but not fmu and if I'm mid-implantation that could be ok!

Thanks ladies, he is a good'un xx

Sounds like SSP needs caging up :) I'm totally gonna be playing the cautious one from now on ladies, remember the longer you wait the more you'll know for sure... :)

Sage advice @CookieWaffle 🙏

... I'll still be testing on Sunday though if AF hasn't arrived because I want to know if it's OK to go for a drink or not! 🍸😂 If it's anything like last cycle then I'll test in the morning and get my BFN and then AF will rock up 3 hours later 😏

Feeling rough as arseholes today.

Hope you ladies are ok x

@Delilah7 what's up hun? Xx

@cupcakesandglitter I've been sick :(
Still got tender tummy. Metallic taste. Going to go home from work x

Sorry you're not feeling well @Delilah7 💐 Hope it's a good sign though! 🤞

Any news this morning @ValidUser? Has the spotting stopped?

For anyone who's toying with POAS early this month, just found this rather helpful articlc:

www.fertilityfriend.com/Faqs/When-can-I-expect-a-positive-HPT-if-I-am-pregnant.html

It basically says you're less likely to get a false BFN from 13dpo onwards. It's even got little graphs for liklihood of BFP against number of days before AF 👍

@Delilah7 ah rest up properly - sounds super promising though so fingers crossed XX

@BambiOnIce80 that's really interesting to read! But 😂 there's still that 10% of women who get that BFP so early 😂 now I'm just conflicted

@cupcakesandglitter @BambiOnIce80 I hope it's a good indication too but who knows! Hope you're all ok xx

If I post a pic of my Cm today after I've been sick today can someone advise me, I've had this before with last pregnancy but unsure x

I absolutely get you on the 'but' @cupcakesandglitter 😂 I think I'm less tolerant of false BFN's and unreliable tests because I work in a lab and that's not something we would ever accept - it goes against everything I've ever been taught 😏

Fair enough @BambiOnIce80 ... I haven't tested yet, but I've googled whether I can test on CD22 😂 I'm not due AF until late next week!! I don't feel pregnant though, I'd rather just know so I can get ready for next month.

@Delilah7 we can try! X

@Delilah7 if it's quite sticky/tacky I've had this before AF, but I don't feel 'wet' if that makes sense? Have you felt it? X

I'm sorry I can't help @Delilah7 😔 Everything I've read says there's no evidence that CM can help tell you if you are or aren't pregnant - not until you're several weeks gestation anyway.

It's driving me insane. I've only ever had that before my BFP, it was wet aswell Hun. Thanks guys for your advice. at home resting now x

Remind me when AF is due for you @Delilah7? I hope it's not too far away for you and you'll know one way or another soon.x