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Who’s trying SMEP this month?

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Firsttimer16 · 27/06/2018 08:24

Support thread for those giving smep a go this month! I’m CD6 so going to start soon. All fingers crossed that this works for us all this month.
Debating whether to buy CB OPK or just stick with IC - might do IC until around FW and then see if I can find a few old CB lying around to confirm a positive.
Anyone else giving this a go?

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TheMagicTorch · 16/07/2018 10:14

@Angelmiracle @Firsttimer16 definitely going to stick with it this month, DP says he is happy doing it too so that's good!

I've never temped yet, I think I'd either be inconsistent or do it wrong and panic myself even more!
Might try it if next month doesn't bring a BFP.
@Firsttimer16 it's still early, it's so hard once you've started isn't it! 🤞for BFP soon

Becca444 · 16/07/2018 17:41

Sorry I’ve been a bit quiet last few days ladies been trying to distract myself during the 2WW (not really worked though...)

@TheMagicTorch sorry to hear about AF but great to hear DP is keen to do SMEP again! Fingers crossed it works for you next cycle 🤞🏻

How is everyone getting on? @Firsttimer16 @Angelmiracle any symptoms? When you thinking of testing?

8DPO and no symptoms at all (which my head keeps telling me is a good thing as had bad cramps this time last cycle but really don’t want to get my hopes up...)

Firsttimer16 · 16/07/2018 17:46

Hi @Becca444! I'm also 8dpo and ashamed to say tested today (meant to last til Wednesday!) was a bfn as I expected but a little bit still hoped! No symptoms at all here. However I had loads of symptoms last month (sore boobs etc) and it was bfn. The month before I had zero symptoms and for a bfp (which unfortunately was a CP so I'm holding out a tiny bit of hope!!
I think as I've started testing I'll probably just test every day now with IC. I've started to get a bit down thinking about another af. Last week I was full of hope and optimism - this week the realisation that it might be another bfn has returned!

When are you thinking of testing?

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NoseringGirl · 16/07/2018 18:08

I've tested 3 times today. I really shouldn't have bought all those IC tests from eBay 😳
All BFN. AF is due tomorrow so fully expecting it to arrive.

Angelmiracle · 16/07/2018 18:21

@Becca444 9dpo today. Was so moody yesterday and burning sensation in right boob briefly but ok today! Had way more symptoms last month and very painful AF. I'm supposed to test tomorrow don't know if I have the courage 🙈🤣 @Firsttimer16 I know how you feel with the optimism then the panic of disappointment!

@Noseringgirl fx she doesn't show and surprises you 🤞 any symptoms?

So glad to have you supportive ladies along the way 💕

Becca444 · 16/07/2018 18:28

@Firsttimer16 here’s hoping that no symptoms is a good sign! When is AF due? I know what you mean one day I’m convinced it will be my cycle and the next I’m not - it’s such a rollercoaster! I had some light spotting 11DPO (which will be Thursday) last cycle followed by full AF 2 days later so I may test Friday if nothing this time (mainly because I will be drinking Saturday and don’t want to feel guilty...).

@Angelmiracle I know what you mean I want to test so bad to see BFP but will be crushed if it isn’t (and can stay hopeful the longer I don’t test).

@Noseringgirl fx for you AF doesn’t show - you’re not out till you’re our

Kelsoid · 16/07/2018 18:41

Hi Ladies!!! Just like @Becca444 I've been a bit quiet as I try and get through this TWW...I'm so bloody fed up it's unreal!!

I see a few BFN's have cropped up 😕 we need to try and stay positive!! We're not out until AF shows up right...keep testing ladies and we'll all keep thinking sticky for everyone testing in the next couple days!

@Becca444 When are you testing? I think it sounds like we're around the same point with the TWW :)

Becca444 · 16/07/2018 18:50

@Kelsoid I may test Friday as AF due Saturday but will see how I feel then. How about you?

NoseringGirl · 16/07/2018 18:55

@Angelmiracle mostly my pre AF symptoms of cramping, back pain and irritability. I'm also very tired but that could be the heat and the kids waking me up stupidly early.

Kelsoid · 16/07/2018 18:55

@Becca444 ahhh little bit earlier then...AF due Monday/tues for me so was going to test Saturday or Sunday. I'm trying not to feel too optimistic this time around as I've been let down the last two cycles...SMEP and an extra long LH surge has me all silly and excited this month though :) we can't help it!

Becca444 · 16/07/2018 18:57

@Kelsoid I know how you feel can’t help but get carried away after hearing all the SMEP success stories!

Angelmiracle · 17/07/2018 00:50

I just checked my vanity stand and there are 6 FRERs in it 🤣 I'm worse than I thought!! 5 Clear & Simple, 2 Tesco and 1 crap Boots test - multiple choice?! Oh and 2 Digis when the time comes 🙈

Kelsoid · 17/07/2018 03:41

@Angelmiracle impressive! That's quite the collection 😂 I'll admit all I have right now is the cheap HCG pee sticks. I know if I'm to have any hope in detecting anything early I'll need a FRER!!

Firsttimer16 · 17/07/2018 07:31

Eek I just did a frer at 9dpo am I having line eyes or is there something so faint there??

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Becca444 · 17/07/2018 07:49

Eek @Firsttimer16 I definitely see something!!!! 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻

NoseringGirl · 17/07/2018 08:11

@Firsttimer16 that's definitely a line!! Eeeek!! Congratulations!!!

@Angelmiracle that's an impressive selection, I'm jealous 🤣

Another BFN for me this morning and AF is due today so it looks like SMEP hasn't worked for me this month 😢 annoyingly my Ava bracelet isn't syncing today so no idea what my temps etc are doing. Just waiting for AF to make an appearance and feeling sorry for myself.

TheMagicTorch · 17/07/2018 09:07

@Firsttimer16 Definitely a line!!!! Congratulations lovely!

@Noseringgirl sorry to hear that 😞 hopefully next month will be luckier for us - will you try SMEP again?

NoseringGirl · 17/07/2018 09:15

@TheMagicTorch I think we probably will, DH is away on a stag do at the end of next week though so will be missing a few days but hopefully will still be early enough to not matter.

TheMagicTorch · 17/07/2018 09:25

@NoseringGirl Yeah hopefully that'll be early enough in the cycle that it doesn't make a difference 🤞
My plan was to start Friday, which will be CD6 - I told DP we were scheduled to BD on Friday and he sad "But I'm going fishing" 😒 Priorities babe!!

NoseringGirl · 17/07/2018 09:31

@TheMagicTorch 😂 he can go fishing in the TWW!

Angelmiracle · 17/07/2018 11:10

@Firsttimer16 I see it as clear as day!! Congratulations 💕💐🎉

Angelmiracle · 17/07/2018 11:10

10dpo do you see it??

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Firsttimer16 · 17/07/2018 11:30

Argh @Angelmiracle yes I see it!! Faint but def there! Hopefully tomorrow will be darker and more obvious!!!!

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NoseringGirl · 17/07/2018 11:38

I see it @Angelmiracle faint but it's there! Congratulations!

TheMagicTorch · 17/07/2018 11:41

@Angelmiracle already said it on the July bus but congratulations again - let us know if you test again tomorrow.
So happy to be seeing BFPs from the SMEP stories - hopefully works for us next month.

😂@noseringgirl tell me about it - he can go fishing for the whole two weeks for all I care but he's kind of vital for the baby making part 😂