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YellowDaffodils86 · 30/04/2018 12:26

@Cakelaur have a lovely holiday. Try not to worry. Hopefully all is well and it wont come to anything more. Spotting is common. But I understand how worried you must be.

@L1zz13 haha this made me laugh. I know think what you mean with the hornyness.
My mc mucked up my app and i think i will ovulate a week earlier than it says. So basically in a few days?? I think im in FW. Last night my cm became watery and abundant. Going to start peeing on opks. Looking forward to getting into a tww, for about 5 minutes then will just turn into a crazy person once again
Cycle day 11too.

@Patienceofatoddler good luck for stress free tww and fx for a BFP at the end. I always see that people that were not hopeful and had no symptoms ended up with their bfps!

Lovemysparkle · 30/04/2018 12:30

Hi all been on my hen weekend wherever you are in your cycle/bfp/limbo sending lots of love to you all❤️ Would someone be kind enough to pop me on the list please
Love my sparkle 39 ttc#2 (cycle 6 after 3 consecutive mc’s under rmc) thank you in advance 👍🏼

L1zz13 · 30/04/2018 12:59

@YellowDaffodils86 lol
I think my Fw may have started. Cm is still tainted with Old af so it's actually quite tricky to determine.
Boobs are a bit tingly and opks are getting darker. Shagathon here I come!
When did you mc?

edinbeezer · 30/04/2018 13:20

Please may I join as well? Not sure how to add myself to the list. I had a mmc and am 11 days post surgery. I'm 34, ttc #1 and it took 5 cycles pre mmc. My husband and I are trying again since yesterday. Decided not to wait for AF as all bleeding has stopped. Wishing everyone else good luck!

Llondbol · 30/04/2018 14:05

Hi ladies, haven't been on for a while as having a rough time mentally. Would love to go in the list for the next thread: 33 / TTC#1 / cycle 13 TTC (10 Cycles before MMC, 3 Cycles since)

Third month TTC since MMC and the witch is back...so much for being extra fertile after a miscarriage 😭 Just trying to be healthy and active so I can be in the best shape possible for when we finally get pregnant again. Also my anxiety and depression is so bad at the moment that it's sooooo easy to just comfort eat!! I put 7lbs on after the miscarriage so I've shifted that and now on to the rest of my excess weight...

Any happier news today? Have I missed any BFPs on the last thread?

X

L1zz13 · 30/04/2018 15:08

@Llondbol sorry you're having a rough time. Xx

zarala · 30/04/2018 15:58

@Lovemysparkle hope your hen do was a lot of fun!!! I just saw your stats
3 consecutive MCs ?! Are you under RMC now? Did you have an MC while you were with them? How have you found the RMC? Which one are you at? (If you don't mind?) I have my appointment scheduled with St Mary's for June...their process is quite long- 16weeks after first appointment before they even give me any treatment or answers...how does yours work?

FireworksBaby · 30/04/2018 16:28

PassTheAfterEights 33 C6 TTC#1
BadBadBeans 33 C1 TTC#2 (1 cycle ttc pre MC)
hayleyfx 24 C4 TTC#1
Claire138 28 C4 TTC#1
Lovewinemorethanhusband 37 C3 TTC#3
Blondcat 36 C8 TTC#1
Sweetpea0318 38 C1 TTC#2 (7 months TTC pre MC)
Dulwichdays 34 C4 TTC#1 (4 cycles TTC pre MC)
Weasledee C3 TTC#3
BabynameEdie 30 C2 TTC#1
Yellowdaffodils86 31 C2 TTC#1 (1 cycle pre mc)
Boboelephant 35 C4 TTC#2 (9 cycles TTC pre MMC after EP)
Wellthisisunexpected34 TTC#2 awaiting AF
Sloeberrygin 36 C1 TTC#2
Hidcat 35 C1 TTC#2 (3 Cycles TTC pre MC)
DaisyMay25 27 C8 TTC#1
Rdm10 34 C2 TTC#2
Zarala 36 (to be) TTC#2
SerenaOverjoyed 28 C1 TTC#1 (ttc 1 cycle pre mc)
KnitKitty 30 C1 TTC#1
Fireworksbaby c2 ttc #3 (ttc 2 cycles pre MC)
Tefiti2 - 24, TTC#2 (after 2 consecutive early mcs)
PetraRabbit 42 C1 TTC#2
LoveMySparkle 39 ttc#2 (cycle 6 after 3 consecutive mc’s under rmc)
Edinbeezer 34, ttc #1 (5 cycles pre mmc)
Llondbol 33 / TTC#1 / cycle 13 TTC (10 Cycles before MMC, 3 Cycles since)

Hope that's everyone now, sorry to see the list growing, but welcome to the huddle. X

Lilimum4 · 30/04/2018 17:10

Feeling a bit down today calculated my fw and its while DH is away so no chance this month. DH is a lorry driver and works away all week so we get two day to take a shot at BDing its not looking great. So I'm on the chocolate tonight

Boboelephant · 30/04/2018 17:13

@Patienceofatoddler good luck! I agree that the ones with no symptoms are always the ones that get the bfps! And nice job on the 9 days!!
@L1zz13 and @YellowDaffodils86 I'm cd11 too!! 🤞🏋️‍♀️🤾‍♀️
@Lovemysparkle hope you had a lovely hens!!
@Llondbol sorry you are having a tough time. Well done for shifting the extra Mc weight. 👍 Are you talking to someone for your anxiety and depression? Sorry for the witch. I was crushed too when I passed the 3 month post MC mark. Stupid broken cape!!
Fx for us all ladies. Feel like my body is starting to gear up for fw. Hope it's early and doesn't drag on for 2 weeks like last month!!

Lilimum4 · 30/04/2018 17:14

How do I add myself to the list

Boboelephant · 30/04/2018 17:35

Sorry @Lilimum4 that's frustrating. But you're not out yet! Cycles can change alot after MC so you might be a bit different this month. What are you using to calculate fw?
You can either copy and paste list and add yourself or if you put:
Age, how long you've been trying and what number child you're ttc I'll add you.

YellowDaffodils86 · 30/04/2018 17:38

@L1zz13 i had neg opk this afternoon but not expecting ovulation till around cd14, fee days before my app is telling me.
Sounds like your FW is well and truly underway! Lots of BDing!!
I mc 19/3 thats the day a scan confirmed, i was 6w4d.

@edinbeezer hey and welcome. Sorry you have found yourself going through this rubbish time.
I didn't wait for first AF ethier.

@Llondbol sorry AF has arrived and you are having a tough time. I know how it feels to suffer from anxiety. I can almost feel the anxiety bubbling up for when im next pregnant and im not even there yet.
Well done on the weight loss though.

@Boboelephant are you limbering up 😂 i lied im cycle day 10.

The list makes me sad, so many of us.

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dulwichdays · 30/04/2018 17:49

@Llondbol So sorry to hear you’re having a tough time. I was thinking about how you were the other day, as I think we had our MC at very similar times.
I also put on weight post MC and don’t seem to shift my mindset away from binge eating when I’m feeling down. I too missed out on the fertility Cape, but I do honestly think all our times will come...it’s just the lack of any guarantee that sucks!

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Boboelephant · 30/04/2018 17:52

@YellowDaffodils86 haha I thought you were a day behind me but didn't like to argue! 🤣 I'm starting opks- stark white this morning- do have watery cm but I've found my cm tends to go for ages so its not necessarily a sign yet. Although I'm convincing myself it is! I tend to ovulate recently between day 17 and 22 so may still be awhile! Who knows??

Lilimum4 · 30/04/2018 18:09

@Boboelephant I'm using NHS calculator and flo app on phone.
36 TTC #3 C1 post mmc ( 13 years since my youngest was born. Thought I was done having babies but I couldn't leave it at two it's eaten me up for years but I listened to too many people say " two's enough for anyone" and it probably is for some people but not for me)

Boboelephant · 30/04/2018 18:18

PassTheAfterEights 33 C6 TTC#1
BadBadBeans 33 C1 TTC#2 (1 cycle ttc pre MC)
hayleyfx 24 C4 TTC#1
Claire138 28 C4 TTC#1
Lovewinemorethanhusband 37 C3 TTC#3
Blondcat 36 C8 TTC#1
Sweetpea0318 38 C1 TTC#2 (7 months TTC pre MC)
Dulwichdays 34 C4 TTC#1 (4 cycles TTC pre MC)
Weasledee C3 TTC#3
BabynameEdie 30 C2 TTC#1
Yellowdaffodils86 31 C2 TTC#1 (1 cycle pre mc)
Boboelephant 35 C4 TTC#2 (9 cycles TTC pre MMC after EP)
Wellthisisunexpected34 TTC#2 awaiting AF
Sloeberrygin 36 C1 TTC#2
Hidcat 35 C1 TTC#2 (3 Cycles TTC pre MC)
DaisyMay25 27 C8 TTC#1
Rdm10 34 C2 TTC#2
Zarala 36 (to be) TTC#2
SerenaOverjoyed 28 C1 TTC#1 (ttc 1 cycle pre mc)
KnitKitty 30 C1 TTC#1
Fireworksbaby c2 ttc #3 (ttc 2 cycles pre MC)
Tefiti2 - 24, TTC#2 (after 2 consecutive early mcs)
PetraRabbit 42 C1 TTC#2
LoveMySparkle 39 ttc#2 (cycle 6 after 3 consecutive mc’s under rmc)
Edinbeezer 34, ttc #1 (5 cycles pre mmc)
Llondbol 33 / TTC#1 / cycle 13 TTC (10 Cycles before MMC, 3 Cycles since)
Lilimum4 36 C1 (post mmc) TTC#3

Boboelephant · 30/04/2018 18:20

@Lilimum4 I hope you get your third soon. Might be worth using opks this month to see if cycles have changed. 🤞 for you!

Blondcat · 30/04/2018 18:29

So three weeks since start of mc bleeding and still getting faint positive . Just been to the gp as they wanted me to come back about my high Blood Pressure mentioned it to her and she said test again end of the week and if still positive contact epu as they will likely want to scan me to check nothing left needing removal. I also had really horrible sharp pain woke me in the night end of last week and dh called 111 as I felt awful but it subsided and hasn't come back since she said if no pain since not to worry.
So now got to monitor bp to see if consistently high then may need medication otherwise just extra monitoring during pregnancy once my body gets back to normal and let's me try again.

YellowDaffodils86 · 30/04/2018 19:01

@Boboelephant I know, i couldn't remember exactly, then realised id jumped a day ahead.
I have watery cm, although sometimes i find it a bit tricky to tell for sure.
Mu opk today showed a line but lighter than control line, hopefully im right in my prediction of ov day at cd14. Im impatient as usual.
I dont have a history of cycle monitoring to help me, its a bit of guesswork at times.

KnitKitty · 30/04/2018 19:03

Blondcat I only got my negative 4 weeks after my ERPC, it can take time for the HCG to leave the system. Like you, I rang EPU 3 weeks after the miscarriage to tell them I was still getting positives, they told me to test again at the end of the week and ring again if still positive (which it was). They booked me in for another pregnancy test and a scan for a couple of days later and when they tested at the hospital it was finally showing negative so they didn't bother scanning. Hope it's the same for you. xx

Well my ERPC was on the 27th March. Had my first negative pregnancy test on the 24th April (my partner and I celebrated with our first BD in a long while! ) and was told by doctor to see that as the first day of a new cycle if I wanted to start trying again and I may not ovulate or have a period for a good long while.
Today however I feel like AF is on her way, getting period cramps. Not sure if AF normally shows up so soon after HCG leaving the system? I guess it's one of those everyone-is-different things. Quite looking forward to having a proper period... my last one was January 10th.

You ladies are all amazing on here. So glad to have the support of everyone else here. Baby dust for all of you.

I don't know about you guys, but I find hearing about other people's pregnancies in RL is really hard, but on here I can't get enough of it! It makes me so happy to see other people's BFPs. I hope to see plenty in this thread!

Blondcat · 30/04/2018 19:26

@knitkitty thanks for sharing that it makes me feel a bit better to know this is fairly normal. As it was my first pregnancy I had no idea what to expect.

hayleyfx · 30/04/2018 19:43

@Lilimum4 no problem! It took me a while to get a hang of the lingo too haha!
@Cakelaur I’m sure everything is okay! Try to relax and enjoy your holiday!!
@Blondcat sorry you’re having such a tough time. Pregnancy tests can stay positive for quite a while so hopefully everything is alright. I hope it’s all over for you soon

I’m CD3 currently, af on her way out should be gone by tomorrow/Wednesday so nothing to report!! Already prepping myself for FW and stocking up on everything 😂

Boboelephant · 30/04/2018 19:44

@Blondcat sorry its dragging. Hope it's over soon for you.
@YellowDaffodils86 what day did you ovulate last month? Hopefully it's 14 again. I also hope I'm closer to 17 than 22 this month!
@KnitKitty glad things are heading in the right direction. I think you're right that everyone is different. Apparently some people can ovulate and even get periods with a small amount of hcg so you may still get af soon. I agree about being happy for people on here with bfps!

L1zz13 · 30/04/2018 19:48

@Boboelephant @YellowDaffodils86 building up to something. Boobs feel very full and a bit sore! Kids doing my head in for doing nothing at all.

TTC after Pregnancy Loss Thread 20 - Fx for 2019 babies