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TTC after pregnancy loss Thread 19- More cake for more babies

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Boboelephant · 12/04/2018 11:29

I figured it out!

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Cakelaur · 25/04/2018 08:35

@dulwichdays ours was third cycle. But we were over the top in trying this month. Not sure how much of a difference it makes but my cycles went straight back to normal after the erpc.
Best app for tracking bbt is kindara (free) plus they have a great community. Or fertility friend (free or you can pay for premium which tells you stuff about £25a year) this one is great cos it takes all your data and tells you when you ovulated.

Cakelaur · 25/04/2018 08:36

Ummm @Daffodil77 how did I miss this!!!! OMG!!! Omg omg!!!! Amazing!!! What a great start to the day!!! Make sure you come find our bfp thread!!! CONGRATS!! So happy for you!!!

hayleyfx · 25/04/2018 08:37

@Cakelaur well my cycles are usually 28-30 days long and I’m currently on CD32 but no idea when I ovulated so I have no idea when af is due 😂
@Ontothethird I’m so sorry for your losses, that’s terrible. I hope you’re doing okay. You’re definitely in the right place, everyone is so supportive and lovely here. Sending hugs to you Flowers
@strabwerrye @Boboelephant thank you!! I don’t mind af showing now - just want to be out of limbo haha!
@Martydog oh no I’m so sorry. It could just be normal pregnancy bleeding like cakelaur had. I hope little bean is okay. Hugs to you Flowers got everything crossed for you 🤞
@DaisyMay25 @zarala happy birthday!! 🎉
@Daffodil77 omg! Congrats!!

Primrose16 · 25/04/2018 08:41

@Martydog I’m so sorry you have this worry, I hope you get a appointment- thinking of you. @daffodil77 congratulations.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY ladies!!! Have a great day.
@dulwichdays damn AF 👎🏻

I’m on my way to drop off my DD at her grandmas and on to my appointment. Wish me luck. Here’s your pee stick ladies. No congratulations please, as you know I don’t have a good track record. Don’t want to get hopes up. It’s horrible that I can’t be jumping for joy anymore due to fears of it ending.

TTC after pregnancy loss Thread 19- More cake for more babies
Cakelaur · 25/04/2018 08:41

@hayleyfx have you poas again?

Cakelaur · 25/04/2018 08:43

@Primrose16 OMG OMG OMG OMG!! I'm not excited at all!! This is not in anyway me getting excited!!! BUT... massive hug.. it's gonna work this time!! Omg!! Ok I am excited for you!! You stay unexcited!! I TOLD YOU IT WAS IMPLANTATION BLEEDING!!! eeeeek!

Cakelaur · 25/04/2018 08:44

BFPs after MC - Christmas Cake for Christmas Babies - Thread 1www.mumsnet.com/Talk/pregnancy/3219951-bfps-after-mc-christmas-cake-for-christmas-babies-thread-1

Any of you bfps please come join our follow on thread

DaisyMay25 · 25/04/2018 08:45

Thanks for the birthday wishes!
Also think I've got bad line eyes, anyone see what I'm seeing or have lost my eye sight at 27? Haha

TTC after pregnancy loss Thread 19- More cake for more babies
Cakelaur · 25/04/2018 08:46

@DaisyMay25 best birthday ever!! I think I see it! Can you crack open an frer??

strawberrye · 25/04/2018 08:48

@Primrose16 no congratulations as requested, but keeping everything crossed for you

dulwichdays · 25/04/2018 08:53

@daffodil77 Congratulations- that’s the best news

@Primrose16 Totally understand why you’re feeling that way. But keeping my fingers tightly crossed for you. And hope everything goes well at the appointment today.

Primrose16 · 25/04/2018 08:56

I see something @DaisyMay25

DaisyMay25 · 25/04/2018 09:00

How many dpo are you @Primrose16 ? Fx for you though!

keepinghopeful · 25/04/2018 09:03

Omg ladies!!!! Fab fab news on the bfp's!!!!

DaisyMay25 · 25/04/2018 09:03

@Cakelaur I'll take frer on Friday, it is poas Friday after all haha

Primrose16 · 25/04/2018 09:10

@DaisyMay25 I’m not sure I don’t track. My mc was 21st March

Beck1988 · 25/04/2018 09:19

Congratulations on your bfps! 🤞 They are all sticky beans this time! Xxx

Claire138 · 25/04/2018 09:29

OMG girls!! Another burst of BFP’s!!
Congrats @daffodil77 that’s a strong positive for 11dpo!
@primrose16 a gentle nod to yours. I have everything crossed this is the sticky bean!!
@daisymay25 I think I see a line 🤞🤞 and a happy birthday to you and @zarala
@hayleyfx I hope you get sorted. I’m CD32 not due till Monday because I ovulated a week late!! Longest month ever!
@ontothethird I am so sorry you have had such a difficult time! I hope you have plenty of support around you and there is plenty here too 😊
@martydog fingers and toes crossed it’s just another little bean getting nice and comfy. ❤️

weasledee · 25/04/2018 09:36

BFP day!!! Congratulations to you all, this is a great thread! :)

And sorry to the newcomers but it's a great group, full of support x

PassTheAfterEights · 25/04/2018 09:44

eeeeeepic post upcoming... apols in advance

welcome to the new girls waves & sorry for radio silence from me, few full days - been reading along & dying to catch up.

Happy birthday @zarala & @daisymay25! I see something Daisy - hyper cautious after a few of those myself but fx that's an early birthday present!!

@boboelephant [running leap] [clings] how are you, where are you? CD6 here, I think, apps having an attack of the vapours adjusting to last month's weird cycle. yes yes we are off to edinburgh, if we ever sodding manage to complete on a sodding purchase 🙄🙄🙄 back to roof over our heads limbo as well as baby AfterEights limbo, COME ON MAY x

@babynameedie @yellowdaffodils86 sorry she got you and glad to have your flippers to hold in May x has the ERTD fked off yet?

Thanks @Primrose16 and withholding all natural instincts to congratulate just massive FX for you xx

Congratulations @Daffodil77 fantastic news!

@Cakelaur thank GOD you're OK, what a grim couple of days - so so happy it's a good outcome x

@Strawberrye & @martydog huge good luck for good news today, thinking of you x

Hope you're feeling better from the cold @dulwichdays and sorry re AF, glad you are back to normal, but she sucks. Good luck for testing @Claire138 & hope the limbo is over for you soon @hayleyfx

Big love to anyone I've missed x

Think it might be time to embrace temping and OPK's, have a basket on Amazon with a basal thermometer & one-step cheapies. Enjoying the early cycle chill right now but know I'll be craaaaaaazaaay in two weeks.

err Edie, Daffodils & other organisation freaks - re the spreadsheet, we could do a register per the ante natal threads? we could post the list in the OP of a new thread each time we start a new one, then add any ladies joining throughout the month's details so we have a "quick reference guide"?

eg:

PassTheAfterEights 33 Cycle6 TTC#1

?

shoot me it's OK

(also genuinely wouldn't be offended if people think this has the potential to be too emosh)

Lovewinemorethanhusband · 25/04/2018 09:47

Congratulations to the bfp's
@martydog could.just be normal pregnancy bleeding like cakelaur had xx
I'm having a real bad day today didn't even make it into work due to forgetting to turn off the stupid emails you sign up for when first pregnant reminding me I would.be due my 20 week scan in 2 weeks, I've not cried really about my MMC but cried lots already this morning

DaisyMay25 · 25/04/2018 09:50

@PassTheAfterEights thanks! I'm not getting my hopes up, will wait a couple of days then crack out a frer. Like a roll call type thing? It's nice to know where people are at, I get lost sometimes haha

dulwichdays · 25/04/2018 09:56

@Passtheaftereights - love that idea. Could potentially add AF due date so that we have an idea of where in the cycle we are - currently CD1 🤦🏼‍♀️

Primrose16 · 25/04/2018 10:19

Well I was in and out of my appointment in a few mins. Just basically he wanted info then he is going to refer me onto hospital for testing. He said that I will have tests for chromosome issues although as DD is perfect then he thinks that it’s just bad luck. He doesn’t know how long I will be waiting. I said there is very little they can do except aspirin and something else. I told him about new pregnancy - hopefully this means it might be quicker

Martydog · 25/04/2018 10:44

Everything looks fine but I have to go back in a week or two as she couldn't see the heartbeat yet. Smile