TTC after pregnancy loss Thread 19- More cake for more babies

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I figured it out!

Thanks @Cakelaur I'm just worried that starting on cd10 could miss ovulation as it's been that early before. Hence the start today/tomorrow! (Probs tomorrow I think now!) but will keep on the opks and see what happens. If it's meant to be...
how are you doing? Hope all is progressing well!

Thanks for the lovely support after my wobble, guess these milestones will always be tough but it’s nice to have somewhere to ‘speak’ about it.

@YellowDaffodils86 I’m in the nearly fw gang too- cd9 here.

So I have a ttc logistical nightmare- currently staying with my in-laws after we had a flood at home. I’m sharing a room with ds and DH is on the sofa so dtd is going to be tricky. We’re basically going to have to do it on my ILs sofa once everyone’s in bed 😬😬😬 (which is absolutely mortifying and something I never thought I’d even consider but I’m not willing to lose a whole month)
So it’ll have to be as few times as possible. I’m pretty sure ov was on cd14 last month so working on that. Do you think we could get away with just cd11, 13, 14?? We should be home next weekend so can continue then if I ov later.

Who said ttc wasn’t romantic?? 😂

Oh @rdm10 the lengths we go to hey? 🤣 So sorry about your flood and good luck with your stealthy fw! I think those days will be fine. I'd also use opks so at least you'll have a warning of when your most fertile few days are coming.

@rdm10 haha! Uh oh sounds quite exciting tho- more ninja BD! would it be inappropriate for you guys to "shower" together? At least then you can lock the door?! 😂 and sorry about the flood.

@Cakelaur- yes it has definitely become more pronounced during TWW...did you find out what it was? I'm just about to enter cycle 2 post MC. I'm wondering how many cycles this is going to continue for...!

@BabynameEdie good luck with your marathon!

@zarala I never got it checked out. My chiropractor thinks it the ligaments unstretching. But that's was her guess, not actually proven. But I only got to cycle 3 after mc and I'm pregnant again. But I still have the same pains, so I'm now assuming it's the ligament restretching! 🙈 but when I had erpc they said all was good and came away cleanly and the scan before the procedure they said ovaries and tubes and uterus was fine, so I never bothered to check it out. If it's worrying you though I'd get it checked. But our bodies have been through turmoil. So it could just need time. XX

I'm after some advise really. I had a medical management on 21/3/18 . I got my period 23/4/18 that finished on 27/4/18. We DTD last night but I'm bleeding again this morning do I need to recalculate my ovulation days

@zararla actually I got a couple of needle sharp stabbing pains in my lower abdomen earlier today. Nothing since. Never had anything like it before. Did wonder if it might be ovulation but seems a bit early - I only just stopped bleeding from the mc. On the other hand I did bleed for 17 days so my body might be confused enough to ovulate now. Who knows... if I got it again I would speak to GP I think. X

@Lilimum4 hi there. I've been experiencing the same thing. Has happened twice now last week.
I haven't got a definitive answer for you re dates.
I'm planning on not worrying about dates but listening to what my body tells me is going on. For this, which will my 1st cycle pat mc, at least.

@DaisyMay25 did you test this morning? I did and got yet another extremely faint positive. I just can't believe that there's any way it could end with a pregnancy, surely the line should have got darker after 3 days? I really wish I hadn't tested early... though I know that won't stop me next month!
@zarala I've had similar a couple of times in the past few weeks. Not really painful but enough to notice. Worth checking out if you're worried.
@rdm10 oh the things we'll do to TTC

@L1zz13 thank you for responding I was a little worried but you have put me at ease. I hope all goes well TTC for you this month.

@BadBadBeans @zarala @Sloeberrygin I've had similar pains. Not painful as such but sharp and strong enough to make me stop and think 'ouch what was that?!' ... never had them before MC x

@PassTheAfterEights are you going to LA? Best idea for FW - love it!
Am aware we're almost at limit for posts on this thread. @PassTheAfterEights do you want to start the new one? Feel you're the queen of the spreadsheet 😛

Really feeling it today, don't know why. Just wanting af to show so we can get trying. Hopefully Wednesday.

@rdm10 hey welcome to the crazy FW followed by even crazier tww. Going to try and not pay attention this month apart from fw obvs.
Good luck with your sofa surfing 😂 that is slightly inconveniently timed.

@Sloeberrygin I did and I got the same stupid faint line so I'm not convinced. These tests are driving me crazy so gonna wait another two days to test again. Oh god I know, I'll be testing at 8dpo again next month too, I'm a poas addict.

@Cakelaur @BadBadBeans @BabynameEdie @Sloeberrygin

Well it makes me feel better that I'm not the only one experiencing this and hope it's all part of the body healing process.
I think I'll wait a couple more cycles and see what happens. I MAY even start the OPKing just to see if my body is going back to normal - so I can finallly join you all on POAS!

@zarala do you have bad lower back ache? Mines really bad with the pains too

I started our next thread seeing as this one was almost full. See you all over there! x

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/conception/3235466-TTC-after-Pregnancy-Loss-Thread-20-Fx-for-2019-babies

@DaisyMay25 !
YES!!! I do!
I am actually seeing a physio this week because it's really annoying!

@zarala yea best to get it checked out, hopefully they can give you more of an insight into it. It's good to know these pains aren't that abnormal though!

@Lilimum4 have you tried ovulation predictor kits. I get them cheap on Amazon. Quite straight forward to use too.

@DaisyMay25 aargh sorry you're still in faint positive limbo. How many dpo are you?

@Sloeberrygin I'm 12dpo the annoying thing is that in the morning I get a line that could easily be an indent or evap but never at night, which is what confuses me if all my morning tests are evap/indent why aren't my afternoon ones? Tests are very stressful aren't they? How many dpo are you?

New thread xx

https://www.mumsnet.com/Talk/conception/3235466-TTC-after-Pregnancy-Loss-Thread-20-Fx-for-2019-babies