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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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looking for nutty fun loving ttcers to share tips!

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thisisouryrfx18 · 08/03/2018 12:16

Wanted to start a thread for slightly bonkers ttcers who can laugh at themselves & boost one anothers moral😉 shy posters scared to talk about the nitty gritty shagging at all hrs and discussing cm in detail need not reply!😜

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TwittleBee · 19/04/2018 15:20

italianwifey thank you but not holding out hope now, got my usual horrid pre period cramps starting up, feels like AF is gonna show up this evening now Sad

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thisisouryrfx18 · 19/04/2018 15:39

@Cakelaur lovely! Think uve timed it perfectly for some time to chill out

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TwittleBee · 19/04/2018 16:28

AF is here Sad guess I am back to my luteal phase being 11 days then

Cakelaur · 19/04/2018 16:49

@TwittleBee I'm so sorry. What a bitch!! And to give you a line as well!!!

TwittleBee · 19/04/2018 16:53

Cakelaur ah well there are enough xmas/NY babies in my family already tbh! Onto late Jan baby instead then! Was hoping for a fellow Capricorn as a DC but hey ho!

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thisisouryrfx18 · 19/04/2018 17:24

@TwittleBee fs cant believe it! How r u feeling? I ll say what I say to myself when af rears her ugly head treat urself to sum🍷🍫and try to look foward to the nxt cycle easier said than done tho hun x

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GoldilocksTheGraceless · 19/04/2018 17:35

No! @TwittleBee I'm so sorry to hear that! Ffs! Hope you have a larrrrrge glass(es) of wine, get sat outside in the sun and get a bit tipsy!
Maybe too much alcohol in that response but never mind!
Xx

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thisisouryrfx18 · 19/04/2018 19:49

Hi @Goldilocks hows pregnancy treating u lol ❤

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GoldilocksTheGraceless · 19/04/2018 20:28

@thisisouryrfx18 well my regular bedtime is now 8:30 and I still drag out of bed at 7 - so the exhaustion is real! A bit emotional today but obviously super happy. Right now I'm trying hard not to wish away the first trimester. Looking forward to 12 weeks so that we can tell people irl makes it easy to try and rush through this part!

I'm still stalking you all on here even if I'm being quiet. I love how everyone is so supportive of each other here 💛💛

BDFT · 19/04/2018 20:36

Oh @twittlebee I'm so sorry! Feel free to join me crowing myself in red wine! It's crap. And it's ok to say that x

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thisisouryrfx18 · 19/04/2018 21:51

@Goldilocks aww lol yh it must b hard not slipping up and just telling ppl do u have midwife appt?

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HidCat · 20/04/2018 07:31

@TwittleBee I'm so gutted for you. Hope you're feeling ok. xx

TwittleBee · 20/04/2018 08:18

Thanks everyone, feeling pretty crappy about it and to make matters worse AF doesn't even have the decency to be normal, she's decided to fricking dry up completely this morning yet leave me with my painful cramps. Had a good cry and snuggle with DP last night over beers and curry.

GoldilocksTheGraceless so glad it seems to be going well for you apart from being so exhausted! FX that 12 week scan is lovely for you. So excited to hear news back from that xx

Cakelaur · 20/04/2018 08:50

@TwittleBee..... IB?? If AF isn't normal, I'd test again.

TwittleBee · 20/04/2018 08:53

Cakelaur yeah but temp drop massive, way down below coverline this morning. Also I expect AF around 11/12 dpo anyway. If she doesn't reappear by time I get home from work I will test again. Just bit odd to have got a BFaintP then a BF*ckingN then to have IB? Not holding out hope. How are you this morning?

Cakelaur · 20/04/2018 09:07

The body is a strange thing. Why isn't it just simple?!?!

I'm good? Just relaxing at home with my puppy. It's nice to spend the first month of being pregnant at home, pottering around the house, no worrying about work. Couldn't ask for much more really. I'm really tired, and a bit crampy, but not much else. So I feel pretty good.

TwittleBee · 20/04/2018 09:10

oh yeah of course the doggy! How is he settling in?

Cakelaur · 20/04/2018 10:09

@TwittleBee he's sooo cute. And such a sweet boy. He's learning to pee outside (massive relief) and learnt to sit and lay down. And so happy and cute and I'm sooo in love!!! It's like Christmas every morning!!! Haha

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DaisyMay25 · 20/04/2018 10:22

I hate the tww! 3dpo, we all know I'll test at 8dpo and every day after haha
@Cakelaur your puppy is too cute! It makes me want a dog! I bet you're enjoying your time off with him 😊 out of interest when's your edd according to online calculator?

Cakelaur · 20/04/2018 10:29

Eek @DaisyMay25 how exciting. Only 5days away!!!

My EDD is 18th Dec.

I think everyone should have a dog. They bring so much joy!!

TwittleBee · 20/04/2018 10:32

such a cuuuuuuute thing! You really are having it lucky right now ey? Smile

DaisyMay totally understand you there but this cycle I will not be POAS until AF doesn't show up, I need to reign in my addiction lol. Especially after last cycles disappointment. Did you get in lots of DTD around right time this cycle? FX for you x

DaisyMay25 · 20/04/2018 10:37

@Cakelaur 8dpo will also be my birthday haha! Oh wow, a week before Christmas! That's so exciting, you got a scan booked in yet?
My cats bring me joy but they only cuddle on their terms dogs are far more loving!
@TwittleBee when's AF due for you? I did, legs in the air afterwards too haha. The things we do!

Cakelaur · 20/04/2018 10:42

@TwittleBee... I feel like the luckiest girl in the world right now. And I'm terrified it's all gonna get taken away from me!!

@DaisyMay25 yay! Hopefully you'll get a nice little birthday present!! 🤞🏻

Luckily I have a scan next Friday. I'll be just over 6 weeks. Excited and nervous and dreading it!! But it's very much needed. Then I'm off to Mauritius for 10 days!! Then I come back and it's my birthday. Praying the scan goes well or all these things are gonna be ruined!!

TwittleBee · 20/04/2018 11:06

DaisyMay AF is here for me now so got a while before I shall be testing. FX that you get a lovely BFP on your birthday then!

Cakelaur FX it goes well and don't worry I am sure it will all go lovely.

lolacola13 · 20/04/2018 11:27

Hey @TwittleBee just catching up on ur news I'm sure ur gutted and a bit confused... will u test again ? Onwards eh! I'm still none the wise. Period due Sunday and I'm 13dpo today... haven't tested in a few days the last was a bfn on frer but a v faint line on ic , BUT i have had indent marks from one step ic before so I'm not holding my breath. Quite proud of myself for holding off testing and waiting til I'm late . I have some tests arriving Monday morning so if af isn't here by then il test . It's just shitty that pms symptoms are same as early preg sore nipples and exhausted and quite frankly a bit snappy by sex drive has dwindled too. But I do notice those things for a few days before af so I can't go off those!