TTC after pregnancy loss. Thread 16. New Year, new hope for all!

[NoCatsHere]

Hello to anyone TTC after suffering pregnancy loss at any stage. Supportive group for all hoping for their rainbow babies.

@Mimilicious013 spotting is awful isn't it? I've had it for six days now I'm gonna pretend that AF started on Saturday and start SMEP from that being CD1 I don't wanna miss out on a month of it turns out it was just a super light AF

@DaisyMay25 ive had spotting since 7dpo this cycle & its now at 13dpo with nothing- really dont know whats going on either

Hi there - I had mine last week and it wasn't a nice feeling at all!

In the process of natural management, how about you?

@di, and @daisy, it's as if the minute you start ttc, the body starts playing tricks. l wonder what exactly will be going on. clever idea to continue dtd, you don't want to miss a whole month again without at least trying.

@kate8989 sorry that message was for you!

@nocatshere

Would be great to have support after miscarriage.

As you go through miscarriage naturally are you allowed to take pre conception vitamins do you know

was catching up on the thread, really sad to read your news @baubles.so sorry for what you are going through. lots of hugs í¼í¼»
how are you today @nelle, hope the spotting has stopped hun

so true @mrsmac, this journey is very eventful
sorry mina , I am sure it's not a problem if you take your vitamins. hope you are okay.

Hi

Hope you don't mind me joining :-)

I'm 41. Met my wonderul husband 3.5 years ago and we've been trying off and on for the last two years, but more seriously the last few months. I was very excited to get a BFP last weekend but unfortunately on Wednesday (at about 5 weeks) I had a BFN followed by really heavy bleeding. Am still bleeding now but not so bad. Have docs appt tomorrow.

Feeling a bit sad, but also telling myself that at least we know we can get pregnant.

Fingers crossed for everyone here :-)

xxx

I called the epu. I had to leave work because epu want to scan me. I'm shitting myself about having to have any kind of procedure.

@peachesarenom

Hope it all goes as smoothly as possible.

Thinking of you.

Popping in to say hi, I'll catch up on the thread so far.

Been ttc #1 for two years and 3 mcs since then.

Welcome @AnneLovesGilbert, sounds bit like me ttc 1 1/2yrs & 3 losses. Approaching my 36th birthday 🙄

thinking of you @peaches

hie to all newbies, sorry you find yourselves here

Minabean1984- I had mine just over 2 weeks ago. Getting there slowly, the whole thing just doesn’t seem real.
How long are you going to wait until you try again? X

Anne welcome back, in the nicest possible way?! We’re you on here last year....I feel I remember an Anne.

@di626 Im glad they are at least doing something for you and I hope you get some answers. Although hopefully nothing too serious and there is an easy solution!
@DaisyMay25 so sorry you're feeling rubbish. Try and rest up and I hope the spotting stops soon. I've heard that your periods can be messed up for 6 months after MC and some can just be spotting. So I would count Sat as cd1 too and just crack on with the bd for your SMEP.
Welcome back @Mimilicious013. Hope next month is lucky for you! And thankyou!! Hopefully i can will my body to o early! 🤞
Welcome @Minabean1984 @AnneLovesGilbert and @hevaheva sorry you find yourselves here. @Anne have they referred you to the recurrent miscarriage clinic?
@ peachesarenom so sorry it looks like you might have to have the surgery. Best of luck! For me it was reassuring to know that it would be over and I could start to move on and it was quick. Have you had the scan yet?

I'm in the waiting room now. I'm going crazy thinking they might tell me the baby is alive after all. Or they missed that I was having twins and one is ok. I'm scared if I have to have medical help and an anesthetic that I might die because I'm really fat. I'm scared.

@peachesarenom. Don't be scared x x

Thank you di626, so sorry for your losses

Hey NoCatsHere, yep, still hanging around! How are you doing?

Had my last BFP 1 Feb last year, I feel like I used all my fertility up with 3 BFPs and MCs in 6 months.... I don't really have any reason to think anything's properly wrong but at Christmas we exchanged a look of disbelief because we never even considered not having a baby by then. Where has the time gone?! I was so worried about continuing to catch and then losing them, now I'm as worried about not getting pregnant again and having the chance either way! A woman at work who was a few weeks ahead of me before I had my MMC is back from maternity this week.

Anyway, travelling hopefully. Took the month off temping which has actually been good. Made me think about it all a bit less. Back to acupuncture this weekend too.

@peachesarenom

If there is any worries about you having a general anaesthetic you could possibly have a spinal. Ask to speak to an anaesthetist and see what they say.

Don't worry. They will look after you. Don't be scared.

Welcome to all the Newbies 👋🏼 I'm so sorry you're here. As a Newbie here myself I can't tell you how awesome this group of strong women are. We're all waiting for our Rainbow babies! Xxx

@peachesarenom sending you lots of hugs!!! I had mine under local not general so I was awake. Maybe that would make you feel better as they can talk to you. I hope you get lots of lovely supportive staff.

I've just had my scan. I asked if they could see another baby as we had sex on Monday. I really am a crazy woman now.

@peachesarenom I think this ttc business makes us all a bit crazy! What did they say in the scan? Do you need surgery?

I'm back in the waiting room. Apparently the nurse will talk to me.