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TTC after pregnancy loss. Thread 16. New Year, new hope for all!

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NoCatsHere · 18/01/2018 14:31

Hello to anyone TTC after suffering pregnancy loss at any stage. Supportive group for all hoping for their rainbow babies.

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Kate8989 · 20/01/2018 20:47

Sorry ladies, I have a completely unrelated question. How do you “select” someone’s name so you can respond to them? Like @......
Thanks in advance xx

Patienceofatoddler · 20/01/2018 20:48

Loving reading the BFP - Smile

This thread is full of amazing woman.

peachesarenom · 21/01/2018 00:10

Congratulations Kkk87 and *

HoneyCake86
!! How many cycles post mc are you?

NoCatsHere I'm so sorry. It is really hard.

UnicornsandRainbows1 · 21/01/2018 09:21

@Kate8989 I just copy and paste their names :)

It's a bit tedious mind you

HoneyCake86 · 21/01/2018 09:56

@peachesarenom its my first cycle post mc hun. Im trying not to get too emotionally invested in this one yet, af is due weds/thurs im only 11dpo today. I feel like theres so many hurdles yet x

HoneyCake86 · 21/01/2018 10:00

Heres my chart in case it helps peaches... the first day there is the first period after my mc, it was triggered on the day when the hcg dropped back to zero and the epu discharged me. Just to give you abit of reassurance that you can get back to some sort of normality soon after mc. Flowers big fx for you Flowers

TTC after pregnancy loss. Thread 16. New Year, new hope for all!
Kate8989 · 21/01/2018 10:04

UnicornsandRainbows1 thank you! I’ve searched the internet high and low to see how to do it ha ha.
HoneyCake86, bless your heart. We have got everything crossed you have a happy and healthy 9 months. I won’t patronise you by saying “just relax” as I know that’s easier said that done. Each pregnancy is individual, that’s something that will keep me going when we conceive again xx

HoneyCake86 · 21/01/2018 10:09

Thanks kate x yeah im trying i really an, but i get period-like cramps now and again that makes my heart sink. I dont think ill relax completely til ive had a successful 12 week scan and no bleeding lol xx

Kkk87 · 21/01/2018 10:28

Thank you @peachesarenom .. I had my mc in September. 5th cycle post mc. X

Flatwhite32 · 21/01/2018 10:37

Congratulations @HoneyCake86 and @Kkk87! Lovely news.

@HoneyCake86 I totally understand the emotional detachment. I'm still a bit emotionally detached at 14 weeks, as I keep telling myself it'll make any bad news easier. I know I'm bloody lucky to be pregnant and that I should be more positive, but it's hard!

HoneyCake86 · 21/01/2018 11:32

Yesterdays one at the top vs todays at the bottom. Does it look like its any darker? I think im overanalysing. Yes @flatwhite32 i feel ya. Its so nervewracking. Thinking of you Flowers

TTC after pregnancy loss. Thread 16. New Year, new hope for all!
DaisyMay25 · 21/01/2018 11:34

@HoneyCake86 looks darker to me for sure! How many dpo are you?

HoneyCake86 · 21/01/2018 11:39

Im 11dpo today, af is due weds/thurs. i’ll probably be on edge even more those days. Ill probably spank all my money on digitals these next few weeks lol

DaisyMay25 · 21/01/2018 11:48

@HoneyCake86 haha I'm an addict to buying tests too, it's going to get stronger over the next few days, but looks good for 11dpo!

Kkk87 · 21/01/2018 12:53

It's defo darker today @HoneyCake86 👏 x

Mimilicious013 · 21/01/2018 16:40

test looking darker @honeycakesí½í±
oh @kkk87, that's exciting . this is cycle 5 after mc for me now so fx your luck rubs onto me.
@kate, I put the @ then type in the name soon after.
hope you didn't get the flu @ek

Kkk87 · 21/01/2018 16:44

Let's hope so @Mimilicious013 🤞

Mimilicious013 · 21/01/2018 16:55

thanks @kkk87, have you told anyone yet?
@ek, hope you didn't get the flu and you can get on with the smep
gl with lots of dtd too @cookie. lots of ewcm here at cd7 (body playing tricks on me )

Mimilicious013 · 21/01/2018 16:59

hope you are in a better space today @nocats
yaay to a new cycle @unicorns and fx
sorry about your losses @ginger
sorry af showed @sooz

Mimilicious013 · 21/01/2018 17:05

hope everyone else had a great Sunday

Kkk87 · 21/01/2018 17:20

I've just told the same people I told last time. My parents, My 3 best friends (who are all pregnant) and my cousin who had a mc in March/April (who is now pregnant with a TWINS) .. I will also need to tell my boss @Mimilicious013

Boboelephant · 21/01/2018 17:25

Congrats @HoneyCake86! I agree that the line looks darker! Hope you have a smooth quick pregnancy! It's so hard as once we've lost a baby we worry about every little niggle but cramps and mild back pain are pretty normal.
@Mimilicious013 get bd'ing just in case!!
I'm away from Wed so still pretty sure I'm out this month as fw will be next week but I'm still hoping for a short cycle miracle!!

Mimilicious013 · 21/01/2018 17:53

wow @kkk, you have so many people to share notes with in rl, that's exciting.

@bobo, dh is out of town. hope he makes it before l sleep lol . you must continue bd too and fx for a short cycle. you never know with these bodies of ours

Mimilicious013 · 21/01/2018 17:55

wow @kkk, you have so many people to share notes with in rl, that's exciting.

@bobo, dh is out of town. hope he makes it before l sleep lol . you must continue bd too and fx for a short cycle. you never know with these bodies of ours

Mimilicious013 · 21/01/2018 17:55

wow @kkk, you have so many people to share notes with in rl, that's exciting.

@bobo, dh is out of town. hope he makes it before l sleep lol . you must continue bd too and fx for a short cycle. you never know with these bodies of ours