TTC after pregnancy loss. Thread 16. New Year, new hope for all!

[NoCatsHere]

Hello to anyone TTC after suffering pregnancy loss at any stage. Supportive group for all hoping for their rainbow babies.

@MrsMac1489 I'll be further on that my mmc last time... it will just make me feel better. Even though I could have one further on. It's literally just off white cm, not actual blood. I know I sound crazy but I would rather be prepared.

Thanks for everyone's kind words. Hopefully I will just be overreacting (nothing new there) x

Ah, I understand Hun. Getting to that point must be really frightening. Stay strong though.@NelleB

BrokenBaubles I'm so sorry! I hope it is as painless as possible lovely xxx

Welcome to everyone new.

Also, check this out people, for our future rainbow babies!

@peachesarenom They'll all have matching ones for our rainbow gang 😄

They'll be so cute!

@peachesarenom so cute!! 👍👍

di626 and daisy normally I’m a poas addict and will happily chant to pee on it round anyone thinking of testing even mildly from 6dpo and I have tested last week and both were negative. But now it’s so close to me actually being late I’ve frozen with poas fear! Will test tomorrow morning if no af in the night.

@NoCatsHere let me know how it goes! I want a picture of a BFP

Just taken a test and ovulation test, both just one line, not even a tease of a line on either, my body is broken
Probably back to the doctors on Monday. Still got brown spotting, it keeps feeling like AF is coming but nothing, this is how it started last time too

@peachesarenom that is so cute! Although not sure it'd suit a boy if any of us have one haha

Sorry no picture daisy bfn on an ic this morning. Not even a squinter.No idea where af is. Will break out the frer over the weekend if still no af incase the pregnancy ic are that crap!

My mc was on new years eve and frer is still saying positive. I'm gonna have to phone the epu again I mean I DTD on mon but that wouldn't show up yet would it?

I've had pain on the right side too

Boo! So sorry @DaisyMay25 and @NoCatsHere. This waiting must be rubbish. I'm sorry but so many stories so I can't remember when you had your MC's. Have you had regular af's since or have they been a bit irregular?
@peachesarenom I would contact the EPU for advice. They often say go in if still pos after 3 weeks to check there is no tissue left. I hope there isn't and your body is just taking a little longer to reduce the hcg.

Bfn for me too!!! The wait driving me crazy!

@peachesarenom

This sucks for you peach, but we're not quite at the 3 week mark yet. Give it a few more days - don't test over the weekend - sit on those hands and see what happens on Monday. After all nothing will get done over the weekend. Xxx

bobo it’s fine I’ve been on here ages! Firs mc was natural in Feb 2017, I fell preganant straight away after and then had a mmc at 10 weeks in April and had medical management. Since then they’ve been pretty regular at 26-28 days. One cycle was 23 days. Nothing this long yet...

di626 sorry you had one too. What cd are you now?

Why do our bodies play tricks on us 😔. Im 13dpo had been spotting even it has now gone, usually af would be here for me but know it'll come, would have had bfp by now. So would like it to hurry up to move onto next month!!

Sorry @di626! Bfn's suck!! Did you have your appt with the rmc clinic? What did they say? (Im pretty sure that was you!)
@NoCats that's rubbish. I really hope this is your month and you are just going to get a late bfp! 🤞
I'm having stupid fantasies that this month my body is going to randomly change from my 32-34 day cycles- which they've been for ages- and I'll have a 26 day cycle so I ovulate super early so my month isn't wasted by going away. (Seriously deluded!)

@Boboelephant haha yes that was me - its so hard keeping up with everyone what stage they are at 🙈

Was good, they took various bloods from both of us including chromosome testing. I have to go for cd 2 bloods as well hence why id like mine to hurry up! They are also referring me for a hysteroscopy. Scared obviously what the bloods could indicate 😔

Anyone feel like they're in Groundhog Day. Wake up, take temp, much umming and ahhhing over contents of knickers, check apps, take vitamin, check apps again, debate OPK even though app says not to, check app again...

Over and over again.

omg, there is so much to catch up on.

@di, hope your blood results come back good and so sorry for the bfn hun.
oh @bobo, you just might be lucky. keep up with the bd and you never know. bfps usually like to come when you least expect. fx ov is earlier than usual.
sorry for a bfn too @nocats, really hope it's just a late bfp for you

@Boboelephant had mc in September, af was exactly four weeks after and they've been like clockwork since. The brown spotting is calming down but another bfn this morning. If there's still brown spotting on Monday I'll go back to the doctors. I feel horrendous, so lightheaded and tired all the time

@MrsMac1489 😂😂😂 so true!!!

sending you hugs @daisy, it's super stressful when you don't know what is happening. either a bfp should show or af should come and you can start a new cycle. my af finally arrived on Monday after days of spotting on and off but it only lasted 2 days, ((wierd ))